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14 hours ago, Swatkat said:

Eh nakem thakkuva?  Nenem chesa? Andham abhinyam hasyam dabbu parapathi nikachi kaligina nikarsina agraharam kurrodni. @kfrockz elanti vallani mokkaga unapuud lepeyali pedithey manake danger sastry ki call chey night mrg ki finsih chesethadu. 

peri sastry vere karyakramam lo busy ga vunnadu anta guru. avvagaane pani kaanichesta annadu.

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4 hours ago, Still_Bachelor said:

I talk very rarely with my inlaws.. Ours is love marriage.. same caste so had no issues.. after marriage I realized both families are very different in many ways.. naturally many misunderstanding.. now.. everyone interact very rarely (once or twice in a year).. me to fix things..I said.. that happens only in movies.. 

it's not that I didn't try to fix things.. but I thought that is leading to more misunderstandings.. so stopped thinking about it and moved on.. atleast I'm having peace of mind.. my kid knows very less about my parents.. he talks to them very rarely because my wife doesn't want him to talk to them.. thats the only regret I have.. 

:3D_Smiles: this is too much bro,

 

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32 minutes ago, kfrockz said:

peri sastry vere karyakramam lo busy ga vunnadu anta guru. avvagaane pani kaanichesta annadu.

Vadiki manakantey important enti chari. 🏡 thesi lite teskunada enti.

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6 hours ago, Still_Bachelor said:

I talk very rarely with my inlaws.. Ours is love marriage.. same caste so had no issues.. after marriage I realized both families are very different in many ways.. naturally many misunderstanding.. now.. everyone interact very rarely (once or twice in a year).. me to fix things..I said.. that happens only in movies.. 

it's not that I didn't try to fix things.. but I thought that is leading to more misunderstandings.. so stopped thinking about it and moved on.. atleast I'm having peace of mind.. my kid knows very less about my parents.. he talks to them very rarely because my wife doesn't want him to talk to them.. thats the only regret I have.. 

you should not agree for this.... kid needs both of them

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6 hours ago, Still_Bachelor said:

I talk very rarely with my inlaws.. Ours is love marriage.. same caste so had no issues.. after marriage I realized both families are very different in many ways.. naturally many misunderstanding.. now.. everyone interact very rarely (once or twice in a year).. me to fix things..I said.. that happens only in movies.. 

it's not that I didn't try to fix things.. but I thought that is leading to more misunderstandings.. so stopped thinking about it and moved on.. atleast I'm having peace of mind.. my kid knows very less about my parents.. he talks to them very rarely because my wife doesn't want him to talk to them.. thats the only regret I have.. 

I can relate bhayya.. The only difference is we both belongs to different castes.

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37 minutes ago, MysoreJackson said:

you should not agree for this.... kid needs both of them

Initially I didn't agree to it... but I couldn't take the pressure.. had fights almost every week just for that reason.. other than that.. we never really have arguments.. so I just made peace with that.. hoping someday things can get better.. 

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37 minutes ago, JonSnowUSA said:

I can relate bhayya.. The only difference is we both belongs to different castes.

haha.. many of my friends have similar issues.. when we get together we usually vent out that frustration.. so I guess I'm not alone..

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10 hours ago, TOM_BHAYYA said:

In-laws tho appaginthalappude katnam dhaggara godava ayyi maatladdam manesa anna

Appaginthala varaku enduku wait chesav? Thali kattaganey katnam dabbulu adagalsindi

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2 minutes ago, k2s said:

Appaginthala varaku enduku wait chesav? Thali kattaganey katnam dabbulu adagalsindi

Bammardhi gaallaki 10k isthe hurt ayyilolli10garu ankul .. inka aa lolli la nundi aa lolli start aindhi

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6 hours ago, Still_Bachelor said:

Initially I didn't agree to it... but I couldn't take the pressure.. had fights almost every week just for that reason.. other than that.. we never really have arguments.. so I just made peace with that.. hoping someday things can get better.. 

Grand parents prema ni grandsons ki dooram cheyyaku... just deal with your wife and try to make video call atleast once a week and show your son to your parents. They may not live more years.

Kudirithey mee wife ki cheppi chudu Leda naalugu thagilichi cheppu.. Bangulo ego kosam grand parents love ni dooramm cheyyaku.. 

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4 minutes ago, TOM_BHAYYA said:

Bammardhi gaallaki 10k isthe hurt ayyilolli10garu ankul .. inka aa lolli la nundi aa lolli start aindhi

Very nice.. ee bommardi la lolli ee family lo chusina untundi

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7 hours ago, Still_Bachelor said:

haha.. many of my friends have similar issues.. when we get together we usually vent out that frustration.. so I guess I'm not alone..

Does your wife have any siblings?

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