Never compromise on dowry unless it is a Love marriage

[huma]

42 minutes ago, Shameless said:

idhe kadha kavalsindhi bhayya manaki...okkasari theesukunte, lifelong mind lo undipothadhi evaro hard earned money ni manam theesukunnam ani...again it depends on individual to individual anuko...nenu aithe against bhayya dowry ki...

enni lekkalu vesukunna manam sampadhinchindhi karchu pedithe aa peace of mind ae veru baa..

@swatty aka @Swatkat...naa reply choodu

Peedinchi teesukunte tappu kaani unna vaallu istaanante teesukunte tappu ledu. Dabbu evari kosam sampadistaaru pillala kosame kada.

[jiggubhai]

7 hours ago, Swatkat said:

Chaala tricky situation but you did a wanderfal jab. Elantivatillp ariterina musalodr cheppali over to @Shameless and nalanti agraharam andhagadiki and gudivada dunnapotuu @jiggubhai gadiki chala help idhi. Arey pandhi midnight reply ichav endhi @jiggubhai em le just urkine edho

maadi bezawada andi... midnight mana sucker baa pettina illu baby pic kept me up

[Iriswest]

Em magallayya? Ammayi dabbulu meeda aashapade batuku oka batukena? Where is your self respect? Vaado veedo iste kaadu, sontha parents icchina vaddu, I can earn my own money anela undali.

Ammailu teraga khali ga kurchomani kaadu na uddesam. This applies to girls as well. Mogude anni teeskuravali ane mentality maaneyandi. 
 

Parents kids ki good memories and principles ivvali. Kavalante financial security ivvali, I am there for you ani. Inkaa katnam kanyasulkam antu enti ee rotha.

[huma]

On 11/19/2021 at 4:30 PM, Iriswest said:

Em magallayya? Ammayi dabbulu meeda aashapade batuku oka batukena? Where is your self respect? Vaado veedo iste kaadu, sontha parents icchina vaddu, I can earn my own money anela undali.

Ammailu teraga khali ga kurchomani kaadu na uddesam. This applies to girls as well. Mogude anni teeskuravali ane mentality maaneyandi. 
 

Parents kids ki good memories and principles ivvali. Kavalante financial security ivvali, I am there for you ani. Inkaa katnam kanyasulkam antu enti ee rotha.

Parents manapai entho dabbu tagaledite US varaku vachamu anna sangati marchipoku edo mottam nuvve kashtapadi vachinattu maatladaku bro. Katnam is introduced to bring financial equilibrium in the society. Katnam teesukunnollu edavalu kaaru teesukonivaaru dharmaatmulu kaadu. Unnodu istaadu mana calibre ni batti. Katnam is like a gift to son-in-law we need to take it, use it and grow in life then help the needy.

[Iriswest]

1 hour ago, huma said:

Parents manapai entho dabbu tagaledite US varaku vachamu anna sangati marchipoku edo mottam nuvve kashtapadi vachinattu maatladaku bro. Katnam is introduced to bring financial equilibrium in the society. Katnam teesukunnollu edavalu kaaru teesukonivaaru dharmaatmulu kaadu. Unnodu istaadu mana calibre ni batti. Katnam is like a gift to son-in-law we need to take it, use it and grow in life then help the needy.

US ravadaniki parents daggara evaru teesko annaru? Loan teeskoni maname clear cheskovali. Vaallu security istaru. US mundu varaku ammai and abbai meeda equal amount of money spend cheyyali ga? Okaru jeevitham antha kashtapadi kudapettina money ni gift ga teeskovalante manasakshi ela oppukuntadi? Equality kavali ante work cheyyali ani aashapade ammai ni chesko. She will also bring money to household to grow.

[Iriswest]

1 hour ago, huma said:

Parents manapai entho dabbu tagaledite US varaku vachamu anna sangati marchipoku edo mottam nuvve kashtapadi vachinattu maatladaku bro. Katnam is introduced to bring financial equilibrium in the society. Katnam teesukunnollu edavalu kaaru teesukonivaaru dharmaatmulu kaadu. Unnodu istaadu mana calibre ni batti. Katnam is like a gift to son-in-law we need to take it, use it and grow in life then help the needy.

Adugav kabatti cheptunna. Nenu katnam ivvaledu. Alane ma ammai ki katnam ivvanu, ma abbai ki katnam tesskonu. Idi chala easy equilibrium.

[huma]

1 hour ago, Iriswest said:

Adugav kabatti cheptunna. Nenu katnam ivvaledu. Alane ma ammai ki katnam ivvanu, ma abbai ki katnam tesskonu. Idi chala easy equilibrium.

Aithe enti neeku ippudu DB lo sanmaanam cheyyala? icchevaadiki teesukune vaadiki leni durada neekenduku bro.

[huma]

1 hour ago, Iriswest said:

US ravadaniki parents daggara evaru teesko annaru? Loan teeskoni maname clear cheskovali. Vaallu security istaru. US mundu varaku ammai and abbai meeda equal amount of money spend cheyyali ga? Okaru jeevitham antha kashtapadi kudapettina money ni gift ga teeskovalante manasakshi ela oppukuntadi? Equality kavali ante work cheyyali ani aashapade ammai ni chesko. She will also bring money to household to grow.

aadapillani pani cheste ame kashtam tinadam tappu kaada? Maagadannaka aadadaanni intlo unchi poshinchaali. Oka vela ame sampadinchina oka rupai kuda mutta kudadu. Nuvvu pote nee aasti nee pillalake istav kada roddu meeda poiye vaadiki ivvavu kada. Vaalla parents ammaiki aasti badulu katnam istaaru ante.

[Iriswest]

4 hours ago, huma said:

aadapillani pani cheste ame kashtam tinadam tappu kaada? Maagadannaka aadadaanni intlo unchi poshinchaali. Oka vela ame sampadinchina oka rupai kuda mutta kudadu. Nuvvu pote nee aasti nee pillalake istav kada roddu meeda poiye vaadiki ivvavu kada. Vaalla parents ammaiki aasti badulu katnam istaaru ante.

Enduku aadapillalu manushulu kaara? Enduku pani cheykudadu? Earning for your family is notva crime, be it wife or husband. Self reliant ga undatam uttamam. Nuvvu cheppevi BC kalam ideology. Aa kalam lo intlo manual work ekkuva undedi kabatti earning was done by husband and wife used to take care of home and kids. Ammai ki kuda parents tarvata vacche aasti teeskovachu ga. Cash enduku?

[Iriswest]

4 hours ago, huma said:

Aithe enti neeku ippudu DB lo sanmaanam cheyyala? icchevaadiki teesukune vaadiki leni durada neekenduku bro.

Mottam nuvve kastapadi cheskunnattu matladaku annav ga.  Daniki reply iccha. Sanmanam avasaram ledu. I have my self respect with me. It’s the custom that irks me not the people who follow it. 

[Thokkalee]

8 hours ago, Iriswest said:

Adugav kabatti cheptunna. Nenu katnam ivvaledu. Alane ma ammai ki katnam ivvanu, ma abbai ki katnam tesskonu. Idi chala easy equilibrium.

Leave it @Iriswest… as long as there are guys who think taking dowry is their right, this will not change.. this is a parenting issue as well… in my college days, my friends used to talk about how much dowry they can demand based on their assets... 

girl shortage will soon take care of the dowry issue… and soon guys will have to pay kanyasulkam to marry girls… 

[Iriswest]

2 hours ago, Thokkalee said:

Leave it @Iriswest… as long as there are guys who think taking dowry is their right, this will not change.. this is a parenting issue as well… in my college days, my friends used to talk about how much dowry they can demand based on their assets... 

girl shortage will soon take care of the dowry issue… and soon guys will have to pay kanyasulkam to marry girls… 

US ki vacchi, ikkada equality ni chusi kuda, inka dowry concept ni enduku promote chestunnaro ardham kavatledu bhayya. China lo already kanyasulkam lanti concept start aindi. Manaki dowry peeda pothe chalu.

[Thokkalee]

On 11/20/2021 at 3:38 PM, Iriswest said:

US ki vacchi, ikkada equality ni chusi kuda, inka dowry concept ni enduku promote chestunnaro ardham kavatledu bhayya. China lo already kanyasulkam lanti concept start aindi. Manaki dowry peeda pothe chalu.

What equality are you talking about? I have seen a ton of people who maintain that old school mindset here in US…. One of my friend still fights with his in laws for his “fair share” of their properties… dowry system won’t go away until the guys families realize that they won’t get a girl for their son

[Iriswest]

3 minutes ago, Thokkalee said:

What equality are you talking about? I have seen a ton of people who maintain that old school mindset here in US…. One of my friend still fights with his in laws for his “fair share” of their properties… dowry system won’t go away until the guys families realize that they won’t get a girl for their son

Aa old school mindset vaallu dowry icchi pucchukunnara? Sontha kashtarjitam etla aina karchupettukoni valla in laws ni. Ancestral property aithe he has something to ask for. India maaradu antav aithe.

Ammailu, nannu pelli cheskunevadu na character and personality chusi cheskovali, nenu icche katnam chusi kaadu ani fix ainappudu ee desam bagupadiddi.

[DalchanChekka]

On 11/20/2021 at 4:38 PM, Iriswest said:

US ki vacchi, ikkada equality ni chusi kuda, inka dowry concept ni enduku promote chestunnaro ardham kavatledu bhayya. China lo already kanyasulkam lanti concept start aindi. Manaki dowry peeda pothe chalu.

There's a long way for equality to be practical. Articles lo chadavadam thappa peddaga equality aithe chudatle. There is patriarchy everywhere. We get bashed even for speaking against misogyny.