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53 minutes ago, tennisluvrredux said:

chaala try chestunnaru since 5 years kids kosam, both in their mid 30s so losing hope anta. 

Adi kakunda wife recently diagnosed with bipolar annadu, not sure what happens to people with bipolar. 

she quit her job a few months ago due to the bipolar issue ani kooda annadu. 

@Pulkapresidentthrow some light, ee bipolar unnollaki em issues untayi, avi vaari career and relationships ni ela affect chesthayi

nee friend ki cheppu. chicago lo AFI clinic try seyamanu. mostly success avutharu unless she has some unexplained tubuler issues. my friend got success there. Also yoga and regular exercises helps bipolar disorders.

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43 minutes ago, dasari4kntr said:

here..the bigger problem is bipolar disorder...

Heard some stories about who suffered with bipolar disorder...some are scary too...

Vuu stories please 

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1 hour ago, tennisluvrredux said:

chaala try chestunnaru since 5 years kids kosam, both in their mid 30s so losing hope anta. 

Adi kakunda wife recently diagnosed with bipolar annadu, not sure what happens to people with bipolar. 

she quit her job a few months ago due to the bipolar issue ani kooda annadu. 

@Pulkapresidentthrow some light, ee bipolar unnollaki em issues untayi, avi vaari career and relationships ni ela affect chesthayi

Bipolar isn't a big deal, a lot of people have it without realizing it. If they really want kids (which I am sure they will question when they hear a crying baby that doesn't stop), they should go for IVF. Nothing wrong in adoption too. 

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1 hour ago, MysoreJackson said:

yep... Dhanush movie 3 lo he suffers from bipolar disorder ... seems to be very dangerous

 

1 hour ago, BeerBob123 said:

Vuu stories please 

Anta pedda story emi kaadu…

aa disorder vunna vallu…eppudu padite appudu intlo nunchi vellipovadam…edina sharp things like knife dorikite either self harm or harming someone else…ani vinna…

but case by case different vundochhu emo...depends on the severity..

one person has to closely monitor them all the time…

Need to visit psychiatrist  regularly…

kids leka pothe evarinjna adopt chesukovachhu kaani but this issue is big…

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Is it possible that inability to get pregnant is causing her mold swings? Was she always having mood swings before or is this a recent change? Did they take a second opinion? 

I have seen some couples who drift apart if they cannot have kids.. they kinda start hating each other or thinks the other one is hating them.. 

if they really want kids, they should ignore their parents relatives etc and go for adoption..

if she is diagnosed with bipolar, pregnancy might make it worse too.. 

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1 hour ago, Pulkapresident said:

Bipolar isn't a big deal, a lot of people have it without realizing it. If they really want kids (which I am sure they will question when they hear a crying baby that doesn't stop), they should go for IVF. Nothing wrong in adoption too. 

Lol mana indian parents aithe rendu peeki nooru mupistharu le easy technique 😝😝😝

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2 hours ago, dasari4kntr said:

here..the bigger problem is bipolar disorder...

Heard some stories about who suffered with bipolar disorder...some are scary too...

Share some for knowledge 

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Just now, Pulkapresident said:

You think you can control a baby? Yeah you definitely need to have one. 

Parents will convince you that having a baby was the best decision they made. Because it's not nice to say that you regrets having kids. 

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16 minutes ago, tennisluvrredux said:

chaala try chestunnaru since 5 years kids kosam, both in their mid 30s so losing hope anta. 

Adi kakunda wife recently diagnosed with bipolar annadu, not sure what happens to people with bipolar. 

she quit her job a few months ago due to the bipolar issue ani kooda annadu. 

@Pulkapresidentthrow some light, ee bipolar unnollaki em issues untayi, avi vaari career and relationships ni ela affect chesthayi

Naa unmarried friend in mid 30s desperate ga unnadu, vadi baadha evadiki cheppukovali. Aina mid 30s lo unte there is still lot of hope. Tell your friend not to lose hope. Bipolar aina , Tripolar full tempt chesi dimpite ave pothai. Lubricants vadamanu esi dopite kushmandam baddalavvala.

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5 minutes ago, huma said:

Naa unmarried friend in mid 30s desperate ga unnadu, vadi baadha evadiki cheppukovali. Aina mid 30s lo unte there is still lot of hope. Tell your friend not to lose hope. Bipolar aina , Tripolar full tempt chesi dimpite ave pothai. Lubricants vadamanu esi dopite kushmandam baddalavvala.

kids ke try chese tappudu lubes and chetta vadaru

that kapal needs chex counseling, she can easily treat bipolar with over the counter medication like micro do sing lith ium orotate

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42 minutes ago, Pulkapresident said:

You think you can control a baby? Yeah you definitely need to have one. 

Chusina akka two adults are not enough to handle a baby keech keech mani arustharu em cheyalem but that doesn’t stop anyone from having babies no

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4 hours ago, tennisluvrredux said:

chaala try chestunnaru since 5 years kids kosam, both in their mid 30s so losing hope anta. 

Adi kakunda wife recently diagnosed with bipolar annadu, not sure what happens to people with bipolar. 

she quit her job a few months ago due to the bipolar issue ani kooda annadu. 

@Pulkapresidentthrow some light, ee bipolar unnollaki em issues untayi, avi vaari career and relationships ni ela affect chesthayi

I once lived with a roommate who had bipolar so I can comment on this. Bipolar has two primary phases -  the positive phase (mania/hypomania depending on the type of bipolar) and, the negative phase (depression). There can be a mixed phase also where people will experience manic and depressive symptoms at the same time. Bipolar type 1 is more severe and is associated with mania which sometimes needs forced hospitalization. Bipolar type 2 is less severe but the depression can last longer. Both types of bipolar are associated with a very high suicide rate if not treated.

The issues your friends may face will obviously depend on type of bipolar, the severity, how well the person adheres to medication, how well the medication works etc., The mania/hypomania (if it does not cross limits) can lead to superhuman performance at work + very creative thinking and, needless to say can have a positive impact on someone's career. The problem when it comes to career is with the depression which can stifle someone's thinking, impact their ability to work in a social setting, lead to fights which is obviously very detrimental for someone's career. Sad as it is, I am not surprised she quit her job. 

When it comes to relationships, the mania/hypomania  makes them want to socialize with people more,  do a lot of household etc., Oh also, it makes them want to have more bumchik. Nee yava.. maa roommate almost weekly shoping chesetodu on a student stipend. That reminds me.. the mania/hypomania can lead to indiscretionary spending which can lead to financial issues. The depressive phase can have a severe negative impact on relationships. They become very silent, don't want to talk or do any couple activity. Libido also takes a big hit. Because of these reasons, divorce rates for bipolar patients are very high. Your friends need to talk to a therapist to address any issues arising because of the illness.

Women with bipolar who want to get pregnant will need to talk to their doctors as the medication can have implications for the baby. 

Treatment for bipolar involves medication, personal and family therapy. It's a lifelong illness and tends to get worse over age if not managed properly. 

Motthaniki summary entante.. bipolar asha mashi kadu.. assam ayipotharu manushulu if not careful.

 

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4 hours ago, tennisluvrredux said:

chaala try chestunnaru since 5 years kids kosam, both in their mid 30s so losing hope anta. 

Adi kakunda wife recently diagnosed with bipolar annadu, not sure what happens to people with bipolar. 

she quit her job a few months ago due to the bipolar issue ani kooda annadu. 

@Pulkapresidentthrow some light, ee bipolar unnollaki em issues untayi, avi vaari career and relationships ni ela affect chesthayi

Nv great vaa … oka friend neku personal problems cheppukoni cried ante ne friendship ke 

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