Friend called and cried today

[pahelwan1]

Mi friend ki erectile dysfunction vundemo test sepinchkomanu va. Without any underlying conditions 5 years ante too much unless they stay in different cities and meeting once a month. This Covid helped so many couples having babies especially long distance married couples

[JackSeal]

29 minutes ago, pahelwan1 said:

Mi friend ki erectile dysfunction vundemo test sepinchkomanu va. Without any underlying conditions 5 years ante too much unless they stay in different cities and meeting once a month. This Covid helped so many couples having babies especially long distance married couples

[huma]

2 hours ago, pakeer_saab said:

kids ke try chese tappudu lubes and chetta vadaru

that kapal needs chex counseling, she can easily treat bipolar with over the counter medication like micro do sing lith ium orotate

by any chance you are a doctor/patient mandula perlotho saha cheptunnav

[huma]

1 hour ago, JackSeal said:

Nv great vaa … oka friend neku personal problems cheppukoni cried ante ne friendship ke 

adi friend problem o leka  personal problem o evariki telusu

[nosugarplease]

i know a friend who has bipolar, not sure of detailed classifications.. nicest guy you can ever meet...cheema kuda haani cheyani personality...

but in one of the episodes..went drunk driving, hurled abuses in public places, got arrested and acted voilently in custody. All in usa. all because he was not regular with his medication for a few days or (may be few weeks dont remember) .

had to leave usa after this episode. hes ok now, married and with kids. with family support and consistent medication ..no issues now..  

[kidney]

7 hours ago, tennisluvrredux said:

chaala try chestunnaru since 5 years kids kosam, both in their mid 30s so losing hope anta. 

Adi kakunda wife recently diagnosed with bipolar annadu, not sure what happens to people with bipolar. 

she quit her job a few months ago due to the bipolar issue ani kooda annadu. 

@Pulkapresidentthrow some light, ee bipolar unnollaki em issues untayi, avi vaari career and relationships ni ela affect chesthayi

trying for kids.. since 5 years antunnav..

evaraina depression ki veltharu.. 

consult doctors.. tell ur friend spend more time with her..

debbaki depression anni povali..

[Thantrik]

8 hours ago, tennisluvrredux said:

chaala try chestunnaru since 5 years kids kosam, both in their mid 30s so losing hope anta. 

Adi kakunda wife recently diagnosed with bipolar annadu, not sure what happens to people with bipolar. 

she quit her job a few months ago due to the bipolar issue ani kooda annadu. 

@Pulkapresidentthrow some light, ee bipolar unnollaki em issues untayi, avi vaari career and relationships ni ela affect chesthayi

eppudu martharo e batch life is just for reproduction ane thinking.. first enjoy sex and go back to india to spend life with parents & family anni polars pothayi.. ivf, surrogate, adoption inni options unnayi kids asalu ok matter aa these days

[JackSeal]

6 hours ago, Thantrik said:

eppudu martharo e batch life is just for reproduction ane thinking.. first enjoy sex and go back to india to spend life with parents & family anni polars pothayi.. ivf, surrogate, adoption inni options unnayi kids asalu ok matter aa these days

options are there but weather they are feasible ? ivf is too expensive in USA and insurance won’t cover that may be cause of additional pressure… surrogate is too complicated, stigma and very very costly in USA … since we want to have kids born here we cannot go to india to have these procedures 

[perugu_vada]

11 hours ago, jiggubhai said:

I once lived with a roommate who had bipolar so I can comment on this. Bipolar has two primary phases -  the positive phase (mania/hypomania depending on the type of bipolar) and, the negative phase (depression). There can be a mixed phase also where people will experience manic and depressive symptoms at the same time. Bipolar type 1 is more severe and is associated with mania which sometimes needs forced hospitalization. Bipolar type 2 is less severe but the depression can last longer. Both types of bipolar are associated with a very high suicide rate if not treated.

The issues your friends may face will obviously depend on type of bipolar, the severity, how well the person adheres to medication, how well the medication works etc., The mania/hypomania (if it does not cross limits) can lead to superhuman performance at work + very creative thinking and, needless to say can have a positive impact on someone's career. The problem when it comes to career is with the depression which can stifle someone's thinking, impact their ability to work in a social setting, lead to fights which is obviously very detrimental for someone's career. Sad as it is, I am not surprised she quit her job. 

When it comes to relationships, the mania/hypomania  makes them want to socialize with people more,  do a lot of household etc., Oh also, it makes them want to have more bumchik. Nee yava.. maa roommate almost weekly shoping chesetodu on a student stipend. That reminds me.. the mania/hypomania can lead to indiscretionary spending which can lead to financial issues. The depressive phase can have a severe negative impact on relationships. They become very silent, don't want to talk or do any couple activity. Libido also takes a big hit. Because of these reasons, divorce rates for bipolar patients are very high. Your friends need to talk to a therapist to address any issues arising because of the illness.

Women with bipolar who want to get pregnant will need to talk to their doctors as the medication can have implications for the baby. 

Treatment for bipolar involves medication, personal and family therapy. It's a lifelong illness and tends to get worse over age if not managed properly. 

Motthaniki summary entante.. bipolar asha mashi kadu.. assam ayipotharu manushulu if not careful.

 

 

[tennisluvrredux]

11 hours ago, JackSeal said:

Nv great vaa … oka friend neku personal problems cheppukoni cried ante ne friendship ke 

I am like a counselor to all my friends, evarikanna marriage, career etc counseling kavalante I am always available

[appaji_pesarattu]

17 hours ago, tennisluvrredux said:

chaala try chestunnaru since 5 years kids kosam, both in their mid 30s so losing hope anta. 

Adi kakunda wife recently diagnosed with bipolar annadu, not sure what happens to people with bipolar. 

she quit her job a few months ago due to the bipolar issue ani kooda annadu. 

@Pulkapresidentthrow some light, ee bipolar unnollaki em issues untayi, avi vaari career and relationships ni ela affect chesthayi

go for IVF babies. maa friend vallu ala ne chesaru. their 2 babies are super active. both kids are very good. first 3 monthes are different between IVF and normal pregnancy. remaining is same.

[Shameless]

16 hours ago, tennisluvrredux said:

chaala try chestunnaru since 5 years kids kosam, both in their mid 30s so losing hope anta. 

Adi kakunda wife recently diagnosed with bipolar annadu, not sure what happens to people with bipolar. 

she quit her job a few months ago due to the bipolar issue ani kooda annadu. 

@Pulkapresidentthrow some light, ee bipolar unnollaki em issues untayi, avi vaari career and relationships ni ela affect chesthayi

oka suggestions bhayya...there are self help groups in this country...group meetings avthay at least 2-3 times a week and they very helpful...naku thelisi mana desi mindset tho bipolar is not a big issue...I have seen and experienced worst people with bipolar disorder in my wife's side of the family...

these groups will definitely help overcome the problems bro...

[JackSeal]

23 minutes ago, appaji_pesarattu said:

go for IVF babies. maa friend vallu ala ne chesaru. their 2 babies are super active. both kids are very good. first 3 monthes are different between IVF and normal pregnancy. remaining is same. As a lady i am suggesting this.

IVF cost how much in US ? Insurance won’t cover

[appaji_pesarattu]

5 minutes ago, JackSeal said:

IVF cost how much in US ? Insurance won’t cover

around 20K...this was like 4-5 years back... things might have changed

[tennisluvrredux]

12 minutes ago, appaji_pesarattu said:

around 20K...this was like 4-5 years back... things might have changed

Friend's wife getting it done close to 45k and 35% chance of success only