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IVF Gender Selection - wanted a girl


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32 minutes ago, kuduvu said:

Hello All,

Did anyone try IVF Gender Selection here in US?

We have a boy and want to balance the family. We want to have a baby girl. evaranna chesara ee methodology of gender selection?

nomal ga aithe malli boy ante, we don't want to terminate and also, don't want to try for 3rd kid.

evaranna chesthe ikkada US lo or at least did research chesthe -  costs entha? success rate ? safe to do ? kid future genetic lo issues untaya since we went out of nature normal method to attain pregnancy

Yes you can… mostly mana Indians boy kid kosam chestaru ikkada… good to see someone going to IVF for a girl kid…. 
to answer your question, it is possible to know the gender before you conceive with IVF… infact IVF process lone idantha vuntundi… good luck 

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6 hours ago, Pulkapresident said:

At what point does using technology become misusing?

Ivf was designed to help parents who have problems in getting pregnant. Its very stressful process. I know someone close who went through this process. Literally 10 days sonthamga injections ichukovali. Not an easy job. 
when u dont have any underlying problems, going for ivf just for gender selection(boy or girl) sounds stupidity to me.

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Was your first one ivf? It's not that straight forward process.. Naaku thelisina vaallu got it done.. 

Mee wife ki chaala painful ga untundi.. First egg retrieval ki roju injections istharu naval daggara.. Egg retrieval is painful by itself.. Tarvatha egg ni sperm tho kaluputaaru... Tarvatha blastocysts(60% probability) ayyaka embryos are ready. Tarvatha gender and abnormality tests ki embryos lo part is taken out and tested.. Tarvatha malli mee wife ki injections daily istharu to put it back.. Idantha chesaka 65% probability of embryo sticking to the uterus.. 

Neeku emundi shag chesi sperm isthavu.. Pain antha wife ki untundi.. Weight increase kuda untundi... 

Don't go for it.. Know fully about the process.. Overall 10k authundi anukunta

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IVF tho US lo gender selection cheyochu. Mee embryos ni pgt testing ki pampisthe you will know the gender. And avi normal ga unte you can transfer the gender you like. US lo it is legal. India lo illegal. But what embryos you get are a stroke of luck. What if you get only boy embryos? Appudu girl embryos vache varaku you have to repeat IVF. Also IVF process is very very hard on a lady’s body. 10-15 days self injections chesukovali. That is only an inconvenience. Real issue is how hormones wreck havoc. Body motham bloat avuthundi. Pillalu puttaka pothe/ genetic issues unte elagu tappadhu. Just for cosmetic reasons like gender selection think how much your wife will have to go through.IVF is primarily cash business in US. Insurance max pay cheyyadhu. Oka 15-20k avuthundi per cycle. Doctors won’t deny you treatment. But how much is it ethical for gender selection ani aalochinchukondi. Health and financial stress. There is a line between using technology and misusing it

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7 hours ago, LadiesTailor said:

Yes you can… mostly mana Indians boy kid kosam chestaru ikkada… good to see someone going to IVF for a girl kid…. 
to answer your question, it is possible to know the gender before you conceive with IVF… infact IVF process lone idantha vuntundi… good luck 

IUI vundaga IVF enduku

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1 hour ago, padmasri said:

Was your first one ivf? It's not that straight forward process.. Naaku thelisina vaallu got it done.. 

Mee wife ki chaala painful ga untundi.. First egg retrieval ki roju injections istharu naval daggara.. Egg retrieval is painful by itself.. Tarvatha egg ni sperm tho kaluputaaru... Tarvatha blastocysts(60% probability) ayyaka embryos are ready. Tarvatha gender and abnormality tests ki embryos lo part is taken out and tested.. Tarvatha malli mee wife ki injections daily istharu to put it back.. Idantha chesaka 65% probability of embryo sticking to the uterus.. 

Neeku emundi shag chesi sperm isthavu.. Pain antha wife ki untundi.. Weight increase kuda untundi... 

Don't go for it.. Know fully about the process.. Overall 10k authundi anukunta

 

1 hour ago, Rushabhi said:

IVF tho US lo gender selection cheyochu. Mee embryos ni pgt testing ki pampisthe you will know the gender. And avi normal ga unte you can transfer the gender you like. US lo it is legal. India lo illegal. But what embryos you get are a stroke of luck. What if you get only boy embryos? Appudu girl embryos vache varaku you have to repeat IVF. Also IVF process is very very hard on a lady’s body. 10-15 days self injections chesukovali. That is only an inconvenience. Real issue is how hormones wreck havoc. Body motham bloat avuthundi. Pillalu puttaka pothe/ genetic issues unte elagu tappadhu. Just for cosmetic reasons like gender selection think how much your wife will have to go through.IVF is primarily cash business in US. Insurance max pay cheyyadhu. Oka 15-20k avuthundi per cycle. Doctors won’t deny you treatment. But how much is it ethical for gender selection ani aalochinchukondi. Health and financial stress. There is a line between using technology and misusing it

10k to 12K ante cheap ee kada...   kids kosam aadi little amount.  Thanks for sharing info

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29 minutes ago, Simple123 said:

 

10k to 12K ante cheap ee kada...   kids kosam aadi little amount.  Thanks for sharing info

Only money ne chustava? Lady pain asalu consider cheyava

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2 hours ago, Rushabhi said:

IVF tho US lo gender selection cheyochu. Mee embryos ni pgt testing ki pampisthe you will know the gender. And avi normal ga unte you can transfer the gender you like. US lo it is legal. India lo illegal. But what embryos you get are a stroke of luck. What if you get only boy embryos? Appudu girl embryos vache varaku you have to repeat IVF. Also IVF process is very very hard on a lady’s body. 10-15 days self injections chesukovali. That is only an inconvenience. Real issue is how hormones wreck havoc. Body motham bloat avuthundi. Pillalu puttaka pothe/ genetic issues unte elagu tappadhu. Just for cosmetic reasons like gender selection think how much your wife will have to go through.IVF is primarily cash business in US. Insurance max pay cheyyadhu. Oka 15-20k avuthundi per cycle. Doctors won’t deny you treatment. But how much is it ethical for gender selection ani aalochinchukondi. Health and financial stress. There is a line between using technology and misusing it

@Pulkapresident chusi nerchuko answer entha neat ga paddathi ga ichindho rushabi. Prathi daniki cross questions nuvvu ne yavvaram ne attitude. Prathi daniki ohd lusk ani show chesthav. Kanisam telisthey cheppu ledha telidhu anthey gani missusing technology tho start chesthunav nuvvu ne negative energy. @kfrockz chari enti sangathulu

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1 hour ago, Simple123 said:

 

10k to 12K ante cheap ee kada...   kids kosam aadi little amount.  Thanks for sharing info

Money is lite man. There are some complications involved with ivf.. ivf is safe but doctors will make u have more tests while carrying ivf baby. Its painful process of mothers. Almost 20-30 injections self ga ichukovali. Egg retrieval process lo kondaru 5-10kgs put on avutharu. Since she will be carrying so many eggs(15-20) in that cycle, some of her internal parts will stretch. 
we can discuss a lot about those but we may end up inserting more fear into a couple who opted for ivf due to underlying issues.

 

coming to financials it may cost 15-35k dependin on which city u live and doctor

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copulate 3 days prior to ovulation.

The sperm that determines boy travels fast and the sperm that determines girl survives longer.

Once the egg is ready, it's the race between sperms.

Anduke older generations lo Kings used to use 16th day of the cycle as they want a boy (heir)

works only when woman has a perfect 28 day cycle. 100% guarantee em ledhu

but chances are high.

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