moving to india from usa

[tables]

4 hours ago, kdapparao said:

Tokkale nenu India ki vachi 1 year crossed.. India is way better than US..

Please Give us a little more context like what was your life like in US and what you are doing in India. May be a little bit about your financial situation will help. 

[kdapparao]

5 minutes ago, tables said:

Please Give us a little more context like what was your life like in US and what you are doing in India. May be a little bit about your financial situation will help. 

I was in US for 14 years my thinking from day 1 was about moving back to India.. I got a flat fully paid off, I have a car fully paid off (not a Luxury car) 10lakhs worth sedan planning to upgrade to an SUV will buy for 20-25lakhs.. got few lands they appreciated 3-4x..

i am currently working for same client.. staying with parents

[jaathiratnalu]

14 hours ago, kdapparao said:

Nenu middle class ye bro..I still feel India is much better..

 

What about infra, pollution, relation intervention , show off of relations ,.. simple you are living for others not for yourself/ your family 

[ranku_mogudu]

On 12/11/2021 at 3:28 AM, Raven_Raeyes said:

Cost advantage aithe poindi...

7/10 NRI's will now fall in real estate investment trap.

Being an NRI/NRI Return you will be compelled to maintain certain standard of life...like a life size villa, luxury car, weekend expenses etc...manakosam kakunda show put ki ekuva bratakalsi vastundi...

India poyye batches...isonti traps la padanu, avasaram ledu anukunte its better to go back...kani ie lifestyle maintain cheyalante matram kastame emo 

avv baa, 10 fingers ki gold rings pettalsi osthundhi.. monnaney 1.4 kgs petti gold chain konna.. next week Iphone 13 max pro two teppisthunna..

min two numbers lekapothey nuvvu nigam gaaney US returned aa ani aduguthunnaru laddulodi

[ranku_mogudu]

8 minutes ago, jaathiratnalu said:

What about infra, pollution, relation intervention , show off of relations ,.. simple you are living for others not for yourself/ your family 

emo baa.. nenu return ainapatti nunchi evari kids aina US ki vellina recent untey vallu maa intiki, social gatherings lo naa mundhu valla pillakayala life style matladuthaledhu.. ekkada vaadi bandaram bayata pettesthanemo ani

 

oka recent ammayi aithey  bavagaru.. meeru osthey randi..but naa gurinchi ibbandi questions adagakandi ani whatsapp messages..

 

India ocheesaaka ibbadi/mohamaatam anni pakkaki poyi maree curious questions ekkuva aipothunnayi.. manjeera water anukunta

[Scurvy]

On 12/10/2021 at 3:55 PM, Raven_Raeyes said:

India is different fromwhat  it used to be. Oka decade lo chala changes vachinayi...so much so that anyone who have spent a decade outside of India will be tough to catch up the pace.

Expenses, cost of living vachipotundi....US is cheaper to live than to maintain an upper middle class lifestyle in India. 

Pepe Jeans is marketed at Rs.6000/-....ante almost $90. We get a decent pair of jeans in US for half that price. 

Correct bro even levis is fuckin expensive. Here you get for 30$ in AE decent jeans

[kdapparao]

3 hours ago, jaathiratnalu said:

What about infra, pollution, relation intervention , show off of relations ,.. simple you are living for others not for yourself/ your family 

I am living with my parents and kids visiting inlaws often.. I don’t care about what relatives think.. so I am good

[kdapparao]

Just now, kdapparao said:

I am living with my parents and kids visiting inlaws often.. I don’t care about what relatives think.. so I am good

 

3 hours ago, jaathiratnalu said:

What about infra, pollution, relation intervention , show off of relations ,.. simple you are living for others not for yourself/ your family 

Infra pollution problem aithe yemi ledu as I am working remote don’t have to travel to office every day.. all services come to home.. weekends manchiga dine out side weekdays order swiggi zomato tavel all good here .. if you have lived in US for 10 years and planned right you should be able to live comfortably in India..

like buy an apartment and car with no loan and make an investment property that generates 1 lakhs + a month and find a job or small business which generates 1-2 lakhs a month you are good… iga show off life kavali ante yevadu yemi cheyaledu

[kdapparao]

Buy a flat in gated community… villa kuda konachu konchem yekkuva budget unte.. oka apartment oka investment property that can generate som income undi job or small business chesukunte chalu India lo..

When you get old US lo care manaki 2nd grade citizen kinda ne choostharu.. India ne better.. 

[Vaampire]

17 hours ago, raj2909 said:

At the end of the day it all boils down to where you love to be and the situations you face. ..

If you love to be in India you don't mind going through all those issues same with US.

I started my IT career in India and after 8 yrs i reached to a very comfortable position with a decent salary and my wife also use to work and we stayed with our parents. Weekdays workload was OK but i use to enjoy our weekends with cousin's, of course pollution valla i have an allergy issues and health issues all, but life was not very stressful.

Cut to 2018, I came to USA (Arizona in Precise now moved to California) on H1B for a very menial starting salary for my experience, I am an introvert i cant make friends, in college and school i was always a calm guy in a large friend's group so making new friends or conversing with new strangers was not necessary for me.

US vachaka it affected a lot, colleagues of mine in US for some reason always use to be worried or complain about there H1B problems or other problems and few others use to be so mechanical in there conversations, i didn't feel any emotional connection with them(i think its my problem).

Prepared to go back to India by 2020 but my wife got pregnant and my daughter was born premature with issues. During birth she had some issues in her brain and she has to go through a surgery and will be constant medical care for every 2-3 months for next 3-5 years and be careful for all her life. The last two years(2020-2021) was so bad  on our mental health and missed home a lot.

Adding to the above my work and salary and my skills set are not up to market standards, i am being paid so less want to move out of this company but had issues with visa and now my perm being filled i had to wait until my i receive my i140. I wanted to learn new skill sets but was not able to concentrate.

Now her health is good and she is reaching all the milestones on time which is the only thing that kept us going. I wish she will be fine, so we can move back.

 

I pray for ur little one. Rest all will be worked out with time

[Dabbakai]

1 hour ago, kdapparao said:

 

Infra pollution problem aithe yemi ledu as I am working remote don’t have to travel to office every day.. all services come to home.. weekends manchiga dine out side weekdays order swiggi zomato tavel all good here .. if you have lived in US for 10 years and planned right you should be able to live comfortably in India..

like buy an apartment and car with no loan and make an investment property that generates 1 lakhs + a month and find a job or small business which generates 1-2 lakhs a month you are good… iga show off life kavali ante yevadu yemi cheyaledu

 

 

15 hours ago, kdapparao said:

I was in US for 14 years my thinking from day 1 was about moving back to India.. I got a flat fully paid off, I have a car fully paid off (not a Luxury car) 10lakhs worth sedan planning to upgrade to an SUV will buy for 20-25lakhs.. got few lands they appreciated 3-4x..

i am currently working for same client.. staying with parents

idi middle class life ee angle lo nu anipinchale naaku 

[Dabbakai]

17 hours ago, raj2909 said:

At the end of the day it all boils down to where you love to be and the situations you face. ..

If you love to be in India you don't mind going through all those issues same with US.

I started my IT career in India and after 8 yrs i reached to a very comfortable position with a decent salary and my wife also use to work and we stayed with our parents. Weekdays workload was OK but i use to enjoy our weekends with cousin's, of course pollution valla i have an allergy issues and health issues all, but life was not very stressful.

Cut to 2018, I came to USA (Arizona in Precise now moved to California) on H1B for a very menial starting salary for my experience, I am an introvert i cant make friends, in college and school i was always a calm guy in a large friend's group so making new friends or conversing with new strangers was not necessary for me.

US vachaka it affected a lot, colleagues of mine in US for some reason always use to be worried or complain about there H1B problems or other problems and few others use to be so mechanical in there conversations, i didn't feel any emotional connection with them(i think its my problem).

Prepared to go back to India by 2020 but my wife got pregnant and my daughter was born premature with issues. During birth she had some issues in her brain and she has to go through a surgery and will be constant medical care for every 2-3 months for next 3-5 years and be careful for all her life. The last two years(2020-2021) was so bad  on our mental health and missed home a lot.

Adding to the above my work and salary and my skills set are not up to market standards, i am being paid so less want to move out of this company but had issues with visa and now my perm being filled i had to wait until my i receive my i140. I wanted to learn new skill sets but was not able to concentrate.

Now her health is good and she is reaching all the milestones on time which is the only thing that kept us going. I wish she will be fine, so we can move back.

 

dont worry bro your little one will be fine. 

[Dabbakai]

16 hours ago, tables said:

I did not say friendships are pure in US rather what I said is they are not in India. My point is people think India is the same now compared to when they left India.

A person earning 120k in Dallas lives a similar lifestyle as a person earning 4 lakhs in Hyderabad. But this guy will work for 40 hours max and the one in India will slot for 60. Access to better healthcare , affordable travel , home and car.

my friend earns 4 lakhs , lives in a villa , drives KIA seltos but I see his life is more stressful and busy compare to the one who works in Dallas cvs earning 125K.

does he not have issues with visa ? 

No visa issues then thats fine. 

[jalsa01]

5 hours ago, jaathiratnalu said:

What about infra, pollution, relation intervention , show off of relations ,.. simple you are living for others not for yourself/ your family 

100cr ppl batukutunnaru bro.. even manam akkadninche vacham.. edo vere planet la a qns enti asala..  intact us lo unde batch a social status kosam sachipitaru not ppl living in india. 

[kdapparao]

2 hours ago, Dabbakai said:

 

 

idi middle class life ee angle lo nu anipinchale naaku 

14 yellu US lo dobbichukuna iga ee matram life style kuda lekunte naa 14 years US peekindi yemi unnatu iga?