Both got divorced They both dont want to be controlled or emotionally connected Both like to enjoy their life to the fullest with their own set of rules Many married guys or even singles wish to live a life like RGV at least for a day - (Full Of Freedom) - May be many women feel like this abt sam too Both say i can survive with out food but cant with out s3x ( may be she meant with hubby ) - Both have enough money to enjoy for the rest of the life We will never know what