Are your parents in old age home ?

[mmharshaa]

1 minute ago, migilindhi151 said:

Bro ... Tht shldnt be a comparison at all .. our parents left their parents for our future n we do the same for the next generation... Konni kavalanteh konni vadhulukovali ..

Simple question. Mana studies meedha mana parents karchu chesthaaru.they can simply go on a world tour n enjoy their dreams but they suppress their feelings for kids future ..we do the same .. it's a cyclic process ...

so are you saying kids future is bad in India? and that is why one chooses to ignore parents well-being? 

[DesiPokiri]

5 minutes ago, migilindhi151 said:

Bro ... Tht shldnt be a comparison at all .. our parents left their parents for our future n we do the same for the next generation... Konni kavalanteh konni vadhulukovali ..

Simple question. Mana studies meedha mana parents karchu chesthaaru.they can simply go on a world tour n enjoy their dreams but they suppress their feelings for kids future ..we do the same .. it's a cyclic process ...

Andhuke mana earnings anni full ga enjoy chesi middle age tho parents tho undipovali baa , kids bathakaleru india pothe etc lantivi pettukunte life will be ruined. end of the day they can come to usa after 21 years

[migilindhi151]

Just now, mmharshaa said:

so are you saying kids future is bad in India? and that is why one chooses to ignore parents well-being? 

So u r saying ur parents quit their parents since they r bad ...??

Never said India is bad , we go for a place where we see a better future , may be USA lo unna valla ki idhi better anipinchochu ...don't generalise Anna ..

Choice annanu kaani only option analedhu kadha ..

[migilindhi151]

Just now, migilindhi151 said:

So u r saying ur parents quit their parents since they r bad ...??

Never said India is bad , we go for a place where we see a better future , may be USA lo unna valla ki idhi better anipinchochu ...don't generalise Anna ..

Choice annanu kaani only option analedhu kadha ..

But I always miss my parents not just for me ..but for my kids as well . They are a bundle of experiences which my kids are missing ..atleast dhanikosam aina parents grand children tho spend cheyyali .....

[migilindhi151]

3 minutes ago, DesiPokiri said:

Andhuke mana earnings anni full ga enjoy chesi middle age tho parents tho undipovali baa , kids bathakaleru india pothe etc lantivi pettukunte life will be ruined. end of the day they can come to usa after 21 years

Choices bro .. em manam raledhaa ..vaallu veltharu I know tht .. but wht better we gave to kids ..the same way ur parents thought ...the same way u think ...

[migilindhi151]

Honest ga aduguthunna ikkada unna db lo andariki ... Entha mandhi parents happy ga unnaru with kids in India ..ekkada poyyina adhey godavalu ..adhey egos ..kullu ......

Peddha anna choodali..thammudu choodali..Akka choodali ..chelli chooskovali ....iey ga ....emundhi kaka difference ..... 

 

[mmharshaa]

11 minutes ago, migilindhi151 said:

So u r saying ur parents quit their parents since they r bad ...??

Never said India is bad , we go for a place where we see a better future , may be USA lo unna valla ki idhi better anipinchochu ...don't generalise Anna ..

Choice annanu kaani only option analedhu kadha ..

 

10 minutes ago, migilindhi151 said:

But I always miss my parents not just for me ..but for my kids as well . They are a bundle of experiences which my kids are missing ..atleast dhanikosam aina parents grand children tho spend cheyyali .....

 

9 minutes ago, migilindhi151 said:

Choices bro .. em manam raledhaa ..vaallu veltharu I know tht .. but wht better we gave to kids ..the same way ur parents thought ...the same way u think ...

 

6 minutes ago, migilindhi151 said:

Honest ga aduguthunna ikkada unna db lo andariki ... Entha mandhi parents happy ga unnaru with kids in India ..ekkada poyyina adhey godavalu ..adhey egos ..kullu ......

Peddha anna choodali..thammudu choodali..Akka choodali ..chelli chooskovali ....iey ga ....emundhi kaka difference ..... 

 

I don't agree with your opinion bro, but I am not saying it is wrong, everybody has their own choice. I don't decide on what I need to do for my parents based on what they did for their parents. Parents at this age will definitely require support from children. 

[DesiPokiri]

23 minutes ago, migilindhi151 said:

Choices bro .. em manam raledhaa ..vaallu veltharu I know tht .. but wht better we gave to kids ..the same way ur parents thought ...the same way u think ...

Atleast i dont want to think abt kids, they didnt raise me or they didnt do anyhard work to became wealthy. They are already lucky to become cirizens and wealthier than our past generations, so we dnt have to sacrifice more and make them lazy. its good to stay with parents once u reach middle age rather than worrying abt kids and staying here for them n become losers forever