Padma Sri for Garikapati; Chinmayi stirs a discussion

[kiraak_poradu]

4 minutes ago, hunkyfunky2 said:

Feminists say that's their right , but men shouldn't look or comment 😀.  Even though looking and commenting is not a offence / comes under fundamental right to speech.... That's morally wrong on men , but women can do whatever you want. What is acceptable in cities is not acceptable in towns. Blanket statement that women can wear any clothes you want and if you suppose it's regressive is laughable

If you guys know, I am not anti-feminisit- supported Samantha divorce as that's their personal matter ... But I hate this extreme feminism....

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[Dabbakai]

1 hour ago, Varshini2020 said:

Yes, and most of what he says is good. But I do think he got carried away in what she pointed, and it is human. I don't know much who is Chinmayi but just talking as a parent with teenage and college going kids. Wearing short dresses and dressing trendy is something very common for them. I haven't heard or seen any boys here in US who misbehave. In fact, our friends who have boys going to college take extra efforts to tell their sons to respect women's choice and if they find them in vulnerable state like being drunk, etc.

But I do agree with being roman when in Rome. Dressing appropriately based on surroundings is what women needs to do. Plus there is a fine line between looking attractive and looking desperate or drawing unnecessary attention and we do tell our girls. And that is the way it should be, right behavior should be enforced from both sides, not encouraging one side to go with their animal instincts. 

abbaila daka enduku; 

whenever your in-laws are here, try wearing shorts in front of your mother in law; appudu cheppu garikapati tappu ani. 

even women 

[Dabbakai]

13 minutes ago, hunkyfunky2 said:

Feminists say that's their right , but men shouldn't look or comment 😀.  Even though looking and commenting is not a offence / comes under fundamental right to speech.... That's morally wrong on men , but women can do whatever you want. What is acceptable in cities is not acceptable in towns. Blanket statement that women can wear any clothes you want and if you oppose it's regressive is laughable

If you guys know, I am not anti-feminisit- supported Samantha divorce as that's their personal matter ... But I hate this extreme feminism....

extreme feminism ledu pseudo feminism ante. 

for example Thappad Movie-- tapsee got tappad she is took divorces no one bats an eye

Kabir singh -- slaps his gf (she has no issues) society lost their mind 
ek haseena thi -- tapsee did adultery (no one had issues with this ) husband lost his hand for sake of tapsee ( amar premi ) 

[hunkyfunky2]

26 minutes ago, Dabbakai said:

extreme feminism ledu pseudo feminism ante. 

for example Thappad Movie-- tapsee got tappad she is took divorces no one bats an eye

Kabir singh -- slaps his gf (she has no issues) society lost their mind 
ek haseena thi -- tapsee did adultery (no one had issues with this ) husband lost his hand for sake of tapsee ( amar premi ) 

Yep...entire pseudo feminists went bonkers over Kabir Singh as if that movie is poison / denied all awards ....a movies about a flawed person 

 

[Raven_Rayes]

10 minutes ago, hunkyfunky2 said:

Yep...entire pseudo feminists went bonkers over Kabir Singh as if that movie is poison / denied all awards ....a movies about a flawed person

yes, that movie was poison.

director only says that its about a flawed person. but the whole film actually glorifies his actions as acceptable because he's in pain or because he's gold medalist or some such sh1t.

[hunkyfunky2]

8 minutes ago, Raven_Rayes said:

yes, that movie was poison.

director only says that its about a flawed person. but the whole film actually glorifies his actions as acceptable because he's in pain or because he's gold medalist or some such sh1t.

People glorified it ...he suffered and got punishment...

Again it's a movie...

Also, it got great cinematography, great music , lyrics etc... All of them are award  worthy- and entire movie is abandoned...

It's a super hit movie - regardless of what some narrow minded feminists think

[Raven_Rayes]

14 minutes ago, hunkyfunky2 said:

People glorified it ...he suffered and got punishment...

Again it's a movie...

Also, it got great cinematography, great music , lyrics etc... All of them are award  worthy- and entire movie is abandoned...

It's a super hit movie - regardless of what some narrow minded feminists think

who cares. all sorts of bs movies become hit. doesn't mean they shouldn't be criticized.

people acting as if the director and the actor were hanged or something. both of them still have great careers. talk about overreaction. It was not from the feminists.. but from the director who is not equipped to handle criticism.

the movie was sh1t btw. like a 1980s movie, but with modern visuals and music. nothing more. It doesn't reflect how today's youth act at all.

[Varshini2020]

47 minutes ago, Dabbakai said:

abbaila daka enduku; 

whenever your in-laws are here, try wearing shorts in front of your mother in law; appudu cheppu garikapati tappu ani. 

even women 

I don't agree with him when he says boys behave like that because of dressing. 

 If we don't correct our boys this will never change. Only way would be to go back to talibanism.  

Actually it is a big disservice to men when someone says they are nothing more than animals. There would be lot more crime if that is the case, most have good female friends, cousins, etc and many women would feel very safe with them in any situation.

Most men who are commenting dirty at movie actresses and all, probably are pretty harmless. And if anyone is not, you would cringe if this dirty friend is even playing with your 2 year old daughter.

Disha didn't happen because she was dressed indecently. It happened because she was too naive and trusted some random folks who were drunk too. She actually sounds too innocent and family very progressive never stopping her from even choosing to be vet which is not usual for girls. When that incident happened we were telling girls in our family, how to be watchful when walking into parking lots, autos, cabs, etc. 

Nowadays when our nephews come for undergrad from India to US, we tell them to be more tolerant and be accepting of girls or even if they come across gays/lesbians. If they do something stupid or make some stupid comments on social media it could ruin their lives.

 

 

[Dabbakai]

1 hour ago, Varshini2020 said:

I don't agree with him when he says boys behave like that because of dressing. 

 If we don't correct our boys this will never change. Only way would be to go back to talibanism.  

Actually it is a big disservice to men when someone says they are nothing more than animals. There would be lot more crime if that is the case, most have good female friends, cousins, etc and many women would feel very safe with them in any situation.

Most men who are commenting dirty at movie actresses and all, probably are pretty harmless. And if anyone is not, you would cringe if this dirty friend is even playing with your 2 year old daughter.

Disha didn't happen because she was dressed indecently. It happened because she was too naive and trusted some random folks who were drunk too. She actually sounds too innocent and family very progressive never stopping her from even choosing to be vet which is not usual for girls. When that incident happened we were telling girls in our family, how to be watchful when walking into parking lots, autos, cabs, etc. 

Nowadays when our nephews come for undergrad from India to US, we tell them to be more tolerant and be accepting of girls or even if they come across gays/lesbians. If they do something stupid or make some stupid comments on social media it could ruin their lives.

 

 

agree cheyamani anale; ayana ala matladindu but you can hear same type of comments from your mom in law too. 

inko question kuda adiga previous page lo what's the goal behind wearing skimpy clothes ?? revealing clothes ??  

adi cheppale meeru ? 

[Raven_Rayes]

2 minutes ago, Dabbakai said:

agree cheyamani anale; ayana ala matladindu but you can hear same type of comments from your mom in law too. 

inko question kuda adiga previous page lo what's the goal behind wearing skimpy clothes ?? revealing clothes ??  

adi cheppale meeru ? 

lol. enduku cheppali? vaallu em eskovaalo manam approve cheyyala? nuvvu oppukuntaava alanti restrictions ni?

[Dabbakai]

3 minutes ago, Raven_Rayes said:

lol. enduku cheppali? vaallu em eskovaalo manam approve cheyyala? nuvvu oppukuntaava alanti restrictions ni?

ade vayya curiosity ante revealing clothes, skimpy clothes esukovadam venaka reason endii ani 

valla istam ley; nenem restrict cheyatam ledu. ee dress aina esukovachu. 

 

 

[Raven_Rayes]

3 minutes ago, Dabbakai said:

ade vayya curiosity ante revealing clothes, skimpy clothes esukovadam venaka reason endii ani 

valla istam ley; nenem restrict cheyatam ledu. ee dress aina esukovachu. 

 

 

Comfort mostly. 

[Varshini2020]

2 hours ago, Dabbakai said:

agree cheyamani anale; ayana ala matladindu but you can hear same type of comments from your mom in law too. 

inko question kuda adiga previous page lo what's the goal behind wearing skimpy clothes ?? revealing clothes ??  

adi cheppale meeru ? 

Clothing is personal choice and style/trend. Fil doesn't even like men wearing shorts, for him the kaddar or dress pants are the decent dressing but he has to accept when visiting US. Everyone in our house doesn't like nighties, kids don't like the banian and lungi attire of fil and force him to wear the sweatpants and tshirt  giving him his own medicine. Also for abcd's, they feel very weird all kinds of clothing Indians wear when visiting beach.

Personally I feel saree very impractical for daily wear. Once party is over, we have to go back to our sweats/shorts to do the cleaning and all comfortably. 

What is right, what is wrong, who decides. You just go by whatever goes by local culture. When visiting Middle East, not a big deal to wear a head scarf for women to blend better. 

 

[hunkyfunky2]

2 hours ago, Dabbakai said:

agree cheyamani anale; ayana ala matladindu but you can hear same type of comments from your mom in law too. 

inko question kuda adiga previous page lo what's the goal behind wearing skimpy clothes ?? revealing clothes ??  

adi cheppale meeru ? 

Staring and making vulgar comments also men's right ....are they okay with it? No....pseudo feminists won't answer... They just say it's immoral to do so.. morality is relative

[hunkyfunky2]

18 minutes ago, Varshini2020 said:

Clothing is personal choice and style/trend. Fil doesn't even like men wearing shorts, for him the kaddar or dress pants are the decent dressing but he has to accept when visiting US. Everyone in our house doesn't like nighties, kids don't like the banian and lungi attire of fil and force him to wear the sweatpants and tshirt  giving him his own medicine. Also for abcd's, they feel very weird all kinds of clothing Indians wear when visiting beach.

Personally I feel saree very impractical for daily wear. Once party is over, we have to go back to our sweats/shorts to do the cleaning and all comfortably. 

What is right, what is wrong, who decides. You just go by whatever goes by local culture. When visiting Middle East, not a big deal to wear a head scarf for women to blend better. 

 

He didn't say saree...he didn't say no to jeans or sweats ...he didn't say no to salwar... He said don't expose...