What is love?

[a_sagittarian]

Single def em ledu.

If Mutual - all happies, pleasant experience, great investment

break aithe - painful, timewaste

Sometimes it grows with time, sometimes it fades away

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

[a_sagittarian]

16 hours ago, DesiPokiri said:

Love is to have someone in your life badly. Simple 

It's a need or want.. not love.

[DalchanChekka]

15 hours ago, Thokkalee said:

Unconditional affection towards someone… you give them love and care and you don’t expect anything in return… this can be your parents, kids or your spouse… or even best friends…

Leave unconditional. Is it even practically possible to love-love, give-give without expecting anything? Any relationship is sustainable only when there's reciprocation to some degree. One is practically a Yogi if they could be like the way you said.

Leave expectations, it is also not possible to shower affection if the other person doesn't want to be on the receiving end. This isn't lack of love but respecting other person's boundaries.

[Thokkalee]

1 hour ago, DalchanChekka said:

Leave unconditional. Is it even practically possible to love-love, give-give without expecting anything? Any relationship is sustainable only when there's reciprocation to some degree. One is practically a Yogi if they could be like the way you said.

Leave expectations, it is also not possible to shower affection if the other person doesn't want to be on the receiving end. This isn't lack of love but respecting other person's boundaries.

Here you are expecting something from the relationship… and looking at love only from a boy-girl angle…

Sons or dads don’t show much affection towards their parents or their kids as much as their mothers or daughters do.. that doesn’t mean they don’t love.. it is more of a personality thing… 

[DalchanChekka]

2 minutes ago, Thokkalee said:

Here you are expecting something from the relationship… and looking at love only from a boy-girl angle…

Sons or dads don’t show much affection towards their parents or their kids as much as their mothers or daughters do.. that doesn’t mean they don’t love.. it is more of a personality thing… 

No I am not. Kids love their parents because they have taken care of them. Parents love their kids and invest in them expecting they would take care of them during oldage. Every relationship is kind of transactional.

Just the degree of transaction helps one define if the person is selfish or selfless.

[TensionNahiLeneka]

17 hours ago, Fish said:

Manam spamming emi cheyadam ledu

 

spamming chestene baguntadi.. ee love defination, love.. discussions anni self ga think chestene answers dorukutayi.. not while discuss with sameone. (ani naa feeling )  

[meri_zindagi]

21 minutes ago, DalchanChekka said:

No I am not. Kids love their parents because they have taken care of them. Parents love their kids and invest in them expecting they would take care of them during oldage. Every relationship is kind of transactional.

Just the degree of transaction helps one define if the person is selfish or selfless.

True. 

[Swatkat]

13 hours ago, TruthTruth said:

Love is love . Seen it in my parents then seeing in  my spouse. They made my life beautiful .

You are lucky bro spouse nunchi anavantey sana adrustam ubdali

[galiraju]

11 minutes ago, Swatkat said:

You are lucky bro spouse nunchi anavantey sana adrustam ubdali

[galiraju]

13 hours ago, TruthTruth said:

Love is love . Seen it in my parents then seeing in  my spouse. They made my life beautiful .