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[bharathicement]

5 minutes ago, yoda123 said:

 

hmm

intimacy is on many levels ...

if the relation you are speaking is arranged marriage or love marriage ?

if arranged marriage ... there are many things at play ...

1. expectations of in laws that put pressure on bride ... that make her not to respect bot family

2. disrespect of girls family by biy family ... make the girl feel that .. shw wont belong to by family ... which is a big 'intimacy breaker'

3.  apart from above .. if boy and girl work long hours and do not have time to sit and talk in evenings n do funny stuff ... it will not lead to building a relationship ...

4. apart from that if girl had prior chexual experiences where she was satisified and boy an amtuer to the league ... or he might be having medical conditions like 'premature exjaculation' ... then boy and girl needs do rigourous drill in bed ... untill where both are satisified ... make sure that girl reaches orgajam first than boy ... a boy can definitely know that girl reached orgajam ...

5. above all a bonding, a belonging, intimacy takes years to build ... its not over night or month ... to have a bond and belonging ... the couple do not need a certificate of marriage or the indicators of marrige like mettulu, pusthulu etc ...

 

if the marriage is love marriage and they have a prior relationship with physical initimacy for couple of years ... there can still be problemes with relatives .. but as couple they can put time and effort for the marriage to work ...

ABOVE ALLLLLL

marriage is always a work in progress ... it needs lot of effort from both sides to make it work even after a sense bonding and belonging formed ... 

all the best for your friend ...

You almost nailed it bro...you had put most practically scenarios into words. Thanks.

The scenario I talked was related to point (4). Dheeniki pedda manushulu yeemi solutions chebutaaru?

Theirs is arranged but after they got introduced, they became lovers. So its both arranged+Love marriage.

 

 

 

[Kalam_Youtheman]

4 minutes ago, bharathicement said:

You almost nailed it bro...you had put most practically scenarios into words. Thanks.

The scenario I talked was related to point (4). Dheeniki pedda manushulu yeemi solutions chebutaaru?

Theirs is arranged but after they got introduced, they became lovers. So its both arranged+Love marriage.

 

 

 

bhayyoo.. arrange tharvatha love undaaadhu just ala feel avvatame...to satisfy inner souls coz 80% of ppl are love married

remaining 20% breaks ups tho em cheyyalkaa last option arrange marriage these days

[yoda123]

1 hour ago, bharathicement said:

You almost nailed it bro...you had put most practically scenarios into words. Thanks.

The scenario I talked was related to point (4). Dheeniki pedda manushulu yeemi solutions chebutaaru?

Theirs is arranged but after they got introduced, they became lovers. So its both arranged+Love marriage.

 

 

 

hmm .. they have to work on the 'drill' ..

need to know how to do forepllaay ... ask him to enter when only she is 'wet' ... (this can be known by fingerinng) ... once in ....  ask him to do for 5-6 min ..... when the girl reaches orgasm ... she will make some noise ... then only ask him to exjaculate ...

(apart from that ask him do net practice for 8-10 minutes separately in bath room ) ....

this drill can save the marriage ...

[summer27]

2 hours ago, Vaampire said:

Okka cinema dialog undi. Cell phone screen ki scratch padithey cellphone padesi kotha phone konukuney rojulu ivi ani. People dont have patience to repair things.

 

this can be applied in relationships too

I remember this dialog..manasulo naatuku poyindi..

[DalchanChekka]

Givers and Givers relationship is the best

Givers and takers also can work out to an extent.

Between two takers it is impossible. This is applicable in all aspects. Choose your partner wisely.

[Kakynada]

everything is gained by exp, 1 month is too little time too judge by that girl..

good understanding between the couple is the key. understanding means be honest to each other, play jokes, eat well, help each other in house hold works and in s3x too, ask the boy to treat his wife good, buy chocolates, gifts, etc etc.. this should do

its okay if he's done in couple mins, he can do it again and again and so on until he gets it. everything is an expereince, if the female isn't cooperative and not understandable, then he can't do much... 

good luck