Love vs lust vs mentally disturbed

[huma]

7 minutes ago, Whywhy1 said:

Same situation, first love kada. So strong. I can't love anyone like him. 

Him antunnav meedi gay love aa?

[huma]

2 hours ago, Barney_Stinson said:

bagundi nee original pic aa?

[Whywhy1]

3 minutes ago, huma said:

Him antunnav meedi gay love aa?

Do you think only boys in this DB? So many girls with boys name or fake name. 

[Whywhy1]

6 minutes ago, huma said:

Him antunnav meedi gay love aa?

 

55 minutes ago, BabuDEVUDU said:

Been there, struggled for a while but I started to divert my frustration towards workouts. Now I look back at those days and I laugh at myself because that experience changed me a lot, both physically and mentally. I honestly feel that every boy should go through that phase at least once in their lifetime. I'm sure you will be there soon, hang in there ba

Someone should be there in life. But without whom I loved I can't be happy with anyone. Adi kuda 4yr living relation lo vundi. Vere yevarini Pelli chesukunte yevaru happy vuntaru. 

[huma]

1 hour ago, Whywhy1 said:

 

Someone should be there in life. But without whom I loved I can't be happy with anyone. Adi kuda 4yr living relation lo vundi. Vere yevarini Pelli chesukunte yevaru happy vuntaru. 

iddaru life long baadhapadataaru.

[BabuDEVUDU]

2 hours ago, Whywhy1 said:

Fun with girls ante : malli love cheyaledu.  ?? Or first ammayini marchipoledu ane kada. 

No its not like that. Its kinda self realization. I just realized there is no such a thing called love. 

"Or first ammayini marchipoledu ane kada" this is not the case. Because if it is, then I would have gotten back with her when she came back for me a few weeks after our breakup. In the worst case, may be some day in the next 2 years that she waited for me. But I never got back with her. Somehow my thinking about love changed, perhaps due to all those nightmares she put me up with while going out with the other guy.

But one thing I understood pretty clear, I was like a sentimental fool before the breakup and somehow that breakup phase turned me into the guy I'm now. 

If you keep thinking about all those beautiful moments you could have had with him if you were still with him, you will never be able to get over him. I would say try to indulge yourself in something of your interest. For me, its working out like crazy, for others may be developing their skills etc. Since its 4 years, you must have tried focusing on something else to keep your mind occupied, if you already did and it never worked, may be try going out with another guy. 

[Barney_Stinson]

6 hours ago, huma said:

bagundi nee original pic aa?

ninnu nu marchipoinatlunav

[nokia123]

On 5/17/2022 at 2:47 AM, huma said:

Bro it is very difficult to come out and all those memories would chase you till death. Generally boys are like coconuts and girls are like mangoes. Oka ammaini love chese tappu mottam time, emotions and intelligence aa ammai kosam invest chestaaru ammailu maatram eppudu options pettukuntaaru, veedi kaakapote vaadu vaadu kaka pote verodu ani. Boys keep lot of expectations from girls but do not think practically.

Na friend okadu, okadaanni full ga love chesadu adi kuda vadipai extra care chupinchedi kaani eppudu propose cheyaledu. Friend gadu college topper, adi vaadiki full hopes ichi last ki hand ichi NRI gadini marriage chesukoni USA chekkesindi. Friend gadu pichodai suicide attempt chesadu but luckily survive ayyadu. Friend gadu India lone job chestu marriage chesukoni settle aiyyadu kaani andaritho cut aipoyadu, he is living as if he doesnt exists. Adi USA vachi Masters chesi mogudi help tho manchi job kotti pedda position ki vellindi. Friend gadu IIT ki vellalsinodu edo job chestu jeeva shavam la bratukutunnadu.

If you want to be happy cut all her memories and purely concentrate on career.

ye zamana lo unnadu baa mee pend...for a while aa mode untadhi...inka move on avvale...

shavam la bathakadam valla emi use? pamily paristhithi emiti fafam

[Whywhy1]

8 hours ago, BabuDEVUDU said:

No its not like that. Its kinda self realization. I just realized there is no such a thing called love. 

"Or first ammayini marchipoledu ane kada" this is not the case. Because if it is, then I would have gotten back with her when she came back for me a few weeks after our breakup. In the worst case, may be some day in the next 2 years that she waited for me. But I never got back with her. Somehow my thinking about love changed, perhaps due to all those nightmares she put me up with while going out with the other guy.

But one thing I understood pretty clear, I was like a sentimental fool before the breakup and somehow that breakup phase turned me into the guy I'm now. 

If you keep thinking about all those beautiful moments you could have had with him if you were still with him, you will never be able to get over him. I would say try to indulge yourself in something of your interest. For me, its working out like crazy, for others may be developing their skills etc. Since its 4 years, you must have tried focusing on something else to keep your mind occupied, if you already did and it never worked, may be try going out with another guy. 

Thanks, 4 yrs ayina same feelings vunayi. May be Nenu thanathone vundali ani vundi kabati. But wil try and focus on self. Actually love process lo I lost myself. Mentally chala disturb. Yevaru chinaga matladina kopam vachestundi. May be this DB is good. 

[JollyReddy]

On 5/17/2022 at 2:23 AM, Whywhy1 said:

Miru pichiga love chese abbayi/ammayi mi life lo ki vachi. Vallu mi kalla munde vere vallatho vundatam chusaka, mentally disturbed ayina situation nundi yela bayataki ravali. But still naku thanu ante chala estam. Aa oka matter gurthochinapudu Nenu thattukolenu. 

love is like h1b.. it is transferrable.. plenty of fish bro.. inkokadni taguluko.. malli vaditho breakup ayinappudu ilane anipisthe inkokadni..  

[Beetbob123]

1 hour ago, Whywhy1 said:

Thanks, 4 yrs ayina same feelings vunayi. May be Nenu thanathone vundali ani vundi kabati. But wil try and focus on self. Actually love process lo I lost myself. Mentally chala disturb. Yevaru chinaga matladina kopam vachestundi. May be this DB is good. 

ok

[Beetbob123]

1 minute ago, JollyReddy said:

love is like h1b.. it is transferrable.. plenty of fish bro.. inkokadni taguluko.. malli vaditho breakup ayinappudu ilane anipisthe inkokadni..  

thank you for educating us cc @NlCKERNAIDU

[friesNfrappe]

On 5/17/2022 at 8:20 PM, Picheshwar said:

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Lol

[Whywhy1]

On 5/18/2022 at 3:15 AM, BabuDEVUDU said:

No its not like that. Its kinda self realization. I just realized there is no such a thing called love. 

"Or first ammayini marchipoledu ane kada" this is not the case. Because if it is, then I would have gotten back with her when she came back for me a few weeks after our breakup. In the worst case, may be some day in the next 2 years that she waited for me. But I never got back with her. Somehow my thinking about love changed, perhaps due to all those nightmares she put me up with while going out with the other guy.

But one thing I understood pretty clear, I was like a sentimental fool before the breakup and somehow that breakup phase turned me into the guy I'm now. 

If you keep thinking about all those beautiful moments you could have had with him if you were still with him, you will never be able to get over him. I would say try to indulge yourself in something of your interest. For me, its working out like crazy, for others may be developing their skills etc. Since its 4 years, you must have tried focusing on something else to keep your mind occupied, if you already did and it never worked, may be try going out with another guy. 

It's not easy to try out with another guy. Thanks.

[huma]

On 5/17/2022 at 4:23 PM, Whywhy1 said:

Miru pichiga love chese abbayi/ammayi mi life lo ki vachi. Vallu mi kalla munde vere vallatho vundatam chusaka, mentally disturbed ayina situation nundi yela bayataki ravali. But still naku thanu ante chala estam. Aa oka matter gurthochinapudu Nenu thattukolenu. 

Forget and forgive them nuvvu e post pette time lo nee lover spouse tho minginchukuntuntaaru. He/She left you because there are more important things for them than you.