Realisations of a married man....any comments?

[huma]

I know a very beautiful girl who did love marriage with a rich guy. He is useless who doesn't work but do lot of show off of his wealth. Girl comes from highly educated family and Boy is from a third class family but rich. On the day of marriage boys father forcibly made girls father drink wine and then did all cheap things that happens in labor community like throwing flowers on his head, pouring water on his head etc etc. That girl is now a mother of two children and the boy is still the same lafoot who just spend parents money. All the siblings of that girl are educated and settled abroad. Money is not everything.

[RedThupaki]

4 hours ago, huma said:

Screaming, abusing, torturing, dominating, controlling, defaming, beating etc

not offering prxxsxxY kooda add cheyyali emo? its kind of metal torture kaadhaa? aha just asking

[Rushabhi]

On 5/22/2022 at 11:04 PM, huma said:

 

Life Before marriage:

• Study
• Focus on career
• Independence
• Lovely relationship with parents, siblings and friends
• No debts
• No pressure of bank loans
• Easy career decisions
• Stylish and cool lifestyle
• Flirting and romance
• Your the boss of your life
• Enough free time for our self (Sports, GYM and entertainment)

Life After marriage:

• No Study only work
• Only Focus on salary and work without passion
• No Independence
• Relationship with parents, siblings and friends go for toss and mostly they end up become enemies.
• Start debts
• Full pressure of bank loans which in turn effect your health and well being
• No more career, life is dedicated for wife and children with uncertainty about your future.
• Mediocre lifestyle with batta potta and always looking for cheap deals.
• Forget about Flirting, there will be no romance even with wife after the child is born.
• Wife and children take over your life

Only brave people can get out of this trap.

 

Married people gurinchi raasav. Mari 40s lo unna unmarried unna valla gurinchi kooda cheppu. Everyone will have challenges. 

[huma]

4 hours ago, Rushabhi said:

Married people gurinchi raasav. Mari 40s lo unna unmarried unna valla gurinchi kooda cheppu. Everyone will have challenges. 

Their life is like heaven if they have money, There are lot of women out there who are ready for live in relationship. What I am saying is not to bind yourself in marriage keep your options open.

[Scurvy]

5 hours ago, Rushabhi said:

Married people gurinchi raasav. Mari 40s lo unna unmarried unna valla gurinchi kooda cheppu. Everyone will have challenges. 

Entivi avi @Rushabhi mental ga prepare avvali.

[jaathiratnalu]

5 hours ago, Rushabhi said:

Married people gurinchi raasav. Mari 40s lo unna unmarried unna valla gurinchi kooda cheppu. Everyone will have challenges. 

So are you agreeing with above ..

[Rushabhi]

17 minutes ago, Scurvy said:

Entivi avi @Rushabhi mental ga prepare avvali.

Everyone will be busy with their life. Social circle will decrease. Most new relationships will be money based. Unless you have solid hobbies or good social circle you will feel lonely. 

[Rushabhi]

13 minutes ago, jaathiratnalu said:

So are you agreeing with above ..

Why not if you have a bad partner life is hell. It is better to be lonely than be in a bad relationship. 

[jaathiratnalu]

3 minutes ago, Rushabhi said:

Why not if you have a bad partner life is hell. It is better to be lonely than be in a bad relationship. 

At least you came farward and accepted it .. it’s good . Agreed With your comments 

[huma]

3 hours ago, jaathiratnalu said:

At least you came farward and accepted it .. it’s good . Agreed With your comments 

aithe iddaru pelli chesukondi

[jaathiratnalu]

18 minutes ago, huma said:

aithe iddaru pelli chesukondi

Ni yenkamma .. DB lo ladies respect ivvu bro..

[huma]

2 hours ago, jaathiratnalu said:

Ni yenkamma .. DB lo ladies respect ivvu bro..

DB lo ladies enti nee enkamma andaru gottam gaalle, enjoyyyyyy!

[krishnaaa]

22 hours ago, Rushabhi said:

Why not if you have a bad partner life is hell. It is better to be lonely than be in a bad relationship. 

Agree......but if you get really unlucky you can walk out of that relationship.

But if you don’t marry an be lonely....what good is it?

[huma]

4 hours ago, krishnaaa said:

Agree......but if you get really unlucky you can walk out of that relationship.

But if you don’t marry an be lonely....what good is it?

It is big risk, even if you get out of that relationship , the bad experiences and memories will haunt you till death and you will considered as some rejected piece all your life.

[krishnaaa]

8 hours ago, huma said:

It is big risk, even if you get out of that relationship , the bad experiences and memories will haunt you till death and you will considered as some rejected piece all your life.

There is atleast 80 percent chance that its going to be fine.

Out of the 20 pct, 90 pct you can come out without any scars.

If you keep thinking about the 2 pct, you won't be able to do anything in life.

Being lonely would leave you with lot more issues down the road.

Have seen 45 plus unmarried people....it's not pretty.