Realisations of a married man....any comments?

[krishnaaa]

On 5/24/2022 at 5:34 AM, Swatkat said:

Naku matter full ga kakpoina sagam ardhmindhi gatha 3 years ga fruends valla pellala torture plus nenu oka 1 years vere valla home lo adheki kuda unna sava dengutharu oka maatalo chepalanety especially covid wfh apudu ghoram na mundhey arsukonhdu thittukonudu. It does not katter na cousin ki 500 karod unna 2 weeks vacation teskuntey 2-3 days tarvtha shuru idhi adhi clean chey idhi ani andhuke antha gudha muskoni office ki potharu. Ledha low paying job vallani cheskuntey kastha better 

Adhokkate chusi conclusion ki ravoddhu.

Both husband and wife will have to do chores. He is probably spoilt because he was born rich. Don't blame marriage for that.

His wife is actually trying to make him a real man in that scenario.

[huma]

12 minutes ago, krishnaaa said:

There is atleast 80 percent chance that its going to be fine.

Out of the 20 pct, 90 pct you can come out without any scars.

If you keep thinking about the 2 pct, you won't be able to do anything in life.

Being lonely would leave you with lot more issues down the road.

Have seen 45 plus unmarried people....it's not pretty.

 

ok anna

[Scurvy]

20 minutes ago, krishnaaa said:

There is atleast 80 percent chance that its going to be fine.

Out of the 20 pct, 90 pct you can come out without any scars.

If you keep thinking about the 2 pct, you won't be able to do anything in life.

Being lonely would leave you with lot more issues down the road.

Have seen 45 plus unmarried people....it's not pretty.

 

Nuvvu cheppindi kuda point eh. Already 30+ aithe slowly close frnds married ayyaka manatoh hangout taggichrstaru weekends and social isolation face cheyalsi ostadi kada.  Slowly lonliness kick in avtadi and it gets severe here in US without friends. Enni solo trips esina enni netflix chusina lonliness is the price singles have to pay.

[Scurvy]

23 minutes ago, krishnaaa said:

Adhokkate chusi conclusion ki ravoddhu.

Both husband and wife will have to do chores. He is probably spoilt because he was born rich. Don't blame marriage for that.

His wife is actually trying to make him a real man in that scenario.

Money vunti endkuku bro chores cheyatam . Edo makku gallank hire cheskoni cheskovachu kada if they can afford. Andkri  cleaning anedi istham vundadu kada . Real man ah bongu ilage simping cheste netthiki ekkutaru.

[krishnaaa]

31 minutes ago, Scurvy said:

Money vunti endkuku bro chores cheyatam . Edo makku gallank hire cheskoni cheskovachu kada if they can afford. Andkri  cleaning anedi istham vundadu kada . Real man ah bongu ilage simping cheste netthiki ekkutaru.

That is Indian mentality. Even Jeff Bezos and Elon Musk do simple chores at home.

Not everyone like to brush their teeth...but they still have to brush. Because it's good for them.

Same with chores, it will keep you active and alert. Have seen so many rich kids who don't do chores and ultimately depend on others to do basic stuff and are totally handicapped.

Real men aren't dependent on others for simple stuff.

Money is a tool....use it where it's needed....to follow passion,achieve dreams,taking care of family etc. It's not good to throw money for anything and everything that comes in the way.

 

 

[huma]

5 hours ago, krishnaaa said:

That is Indian mentality. Even Jeff Bezos and Elon Musk do simple chores at home.

Not everyone like to brush their teeth...but they still have to brush. Because it's good for them.

Same with chores, it will keep you active and alert. Have seen so many rich kids who don't do chores and ultimately depend on others to do basic stuff and are totally handicapped.

Real men aren't dependent on others for simple stuff.

Money is a tool....use it where it's needed....to follow passion,achieve dreams,taking care of family etc. It's not good to throw money for anything and everything that comes in the way.

 

 

yes anna

[Rushabhi]

18 hours ago, krishnaaa said:

Agree......but if you get really unlucky you can walk out of that relationship.

But if you don’t marry an be lonely....what good is it?

Depends on person. There are a lot of people who are fine single. Evariki vallu figure out chesukovali if they can be single

[Swatkat]

6 hours ago, krishnaaa said:

Adhokkate chusi conclusion ki ravoddhu.

Both husband and wife will have to do chores. He is probably spoilt because he was born rich. Don't blame marriage for that.

His wife is actually trying to make him a real man in that scenario.

Bro athanu anni chesthadu bro the one thing i observed is her anger issues and mood swings. She did change a bit but atill athanu kabatti barinchadu. But naku manchi real time exp laaga anipinchidhi. Athanu tagguthadu inka em cheyaleka. 

[Swatkat]

2 minutes ago, Rushabhi said:

Depends on person. There are a lot of people who are fine single. Evariki vallu figure out chesukovali if they can be single

USA lo kastam akkai

[krishnaaa]

36 minutes ago, Swatkat said:

USA lo kastam akkai

Yes...people think they are fine.....but music starts after 35.

[Scurvy]

51 minutes ago, Swatkat said:

USA lo kastam akkai

Why rey.. if you busy in fasaking jil jil eh ga.

[Swatkat]

2 minutes ago, Scurvy said:

Why rey.. if you busy in fasaking jil jil eh ga.

Adhi kuda bore kottidhi le..

[Scurvy]

4 hours ago, Swatkat said:

Adhi kuda bore kottidhi le..

Then what is solution. Serious replies only.

[anna_gari_maata]

11 hours ago, krishnaaa said:

That is Indian mentality. Even Jeff Bezos and Elon Musk do simple chores at home.

Not everyone like to brush their teeth...but they still have to brush. Because it's good for them.

Same with chores, it will keep you active and alert. Have seen so many rich kids who don't do chores and ultimately depend on others to do basic stuff and are totally handicapped.

Real men aren't dependent on others for simple stuff.

Money is a tool....use it where it's needed....to follow passion,achieve dreams,taking care of family etc. It's not good to throw money for anything and everything that comes in the way.

 

 

marriage ante chores .. battalu utakadam paper chadavatam ankunanva ? 

there is no need of marriage for that, you can have a roommate and share money with them 

marriage is bigger than that...it means giving emotional support, planning life path, career, rising family, building relations .... ivanni marriage e

[DesiPokiri]

5 hours ago, krishnaaa said:

Yes...people think they are fine.....but music starts after 35.

Bayapettaku bro maa youth ni