Lost pretty much everything in divorce (California). Planning to move to Dallas, is it worth it?

[nuvvu_naakina_paalem]

36 minutes ago, anna_vendy said:

 

@Swatkat @Shameless @Rushabhi

rey ippudu ee story meedha enni friend of friends A, B , D U, V X, Z  threads vesthav?

oka target emina undha leka free flow lo vasthava?

[Scurvy]

44 minutes ago, odhu_le_macha said:

Next time aina prenup sign cheyinchuko bro

Pre nup pani chestada for desis in US?

[nuvvu_naakina_paalem]

Just now, Scurvy said:

Pre nup pani chestada for desis in US?

US lo pelli cheskoni sign cheskuni, US lo resident ( need not be citizem) ayithe panichesthadhi.

india lo residents ki pani chesyyadhu. 

[odhu_le_macha]

3 minutes ago, Scurvy said:

Pre nup pani chestada for desis in US?

Yes. You do not have to be U.S. Citizen

[Beerboob123]

1 hour ago, falconspyder said:

I caved in due to extreme pressure and that's the reason I had to agree to big nums during the final settlement meeting. She made me sign a stipulation order that I won't appeal in court, go near her, or reach out to her parents, give up jewelry worth 50k (small compared to other things I'm paying her)  I was made to give her during the engagement.

I don't have a knack of remembering every small thing due to many things that happened in my life. I really don't have any strength or mental capacity, I just want to be alone and peaceful. Felt like my life was getting started after marriage and I'll have my own family (which I never had before) but everything snatched from my hands.

Waiting for my 180 day thing (AOS application) to move out but the max damage is already done and stipulation orders are signed, money and stocks are getting transferred as we speak.

Last two years I made little more than $650k and I felt like I'm punished for making that money in court by the Judge - B**o*e B**c**r. Every single dollar is taken away by taxes, attorneys, forensic accountant, ex-wife.

Ex-wife didn't agree for legal separation and she made me file taxes as married separate which is worse than single status and that also damaged me in taxes.

Put a case on her for mental harrasement and expose her evil intentions with proofs. Get a good attorney

[Fish]

43 minutes ago, Suhaas said:

If you are okay with working remotely, move to some place close to nature. Find yourself. You say you "Lost pretty much everything" but you have the freedom to finally to be yourself. Try new things. Live. 

I know it sounds cliché, but if you need someone to talk to, you have a brother in me.  

Good Luck for the journey ahead bro. God speed. 

Seattle /Portland baaguntundi 

[Android_Halwa]

Isonti rod thelina cases Ki aak paak karepak lawyers waste…

Manchi flow la vunna lawyer ni pattale…Ben Chew and Camille Vasquez ni hire cheyavayya….

Jai Jhonny Depp…

[Beerboob123]

23 minutes ago, nuvvu_naakina_paalem said:

rey ippudu ee story meedha enni friend of friends A, B , D U, V X, Z  threads vesthav?

oka target emina undha leka free flow lo vasthava?

He is good to eat pig sheet @anna_vendy thupas idiot cum here

[NotSoBusy]

3 hours ago, Sarvapindy said:

ts baadha divorce ainadani kadu..paisal anni poinay ani..he is already in faang..paisal dont matter he can make money on no time…manchiga second innings start seskoka y worrying oo naak aithe samaj aithale..

3M $ kada bro , entha sampadichukune capability unna evadiki aina thikka lesthadi to give it away for free just because of some bullshit law.

just imagine losing your entire net worth on a worthless female 

[Fish]

1 hour ago, falconspyder said:

To all those guys who are making a joke out of my life in this thread.

I lost both parents before marriage and don't have anyone in India. I went to the best comp sci schools in India and did masters from a well known top rated school in the US with 100% funded admit. Ex-wife was behind me for 4/5 years and she tried to reach out to me through various methods - matrimonial websites, mutual friends, relatives in India, brokers. One of my relatives convinced me that my ex-wife is the right one/good family etc (her native place is like a mile from my native) and since I don't have anyone in India or US everyone said she and her family would treat me like a SON.

Dowry - Given my education, work profile and what I make in bay area, do I really give a rat ass about that or do I've anyone to even ask on my behalf? Since you guys judged everything out of my life, feel free to decide however it suits you folks.

My age - I got married when I'm 30. It's just the whole divorce process dragged for 3 yrs in California (Courts LOVE long game, they punish anyone who wants short game). In total I lost like ~5yrs since the date of engagement.

Ex-wife is in touch with a famous divorce attorney in Bay area almost as soon as she landed in Bay area (she submitted the email conv between them as an evidence during the trial to prove to court that abuse is happening since day1 of marriage and she had to get in touch with a divorce attorney). Evidences were collected from day 1 like a detective, framed me like in movie "Gone girl", called cops on me, filed restraining order. I myself was very clueless and lot of things never made sense to me until recently when she shared 4350 pages of evidences, declaration, testimonies, msgs, emails, letters from lot of ppl in India and US who I don't even know. She wrote court briefs on her own and made her attorney ask for things which has 0 probability to stand in court (this is done to purely put pressume to break me) , she asked for a monthly support until my death or her marriage. In total she took me to court for 7 back to back trails (not court hearings) and rejected all settlement meetings and put so much pressure on me and broke me down as a person and gave up to the pressure and finally did the negotiations in the last and final settlement meeting just few days before the final trial (I had to take short term disability to get though my ordeal). I had no one to even ask her or family why she is doing this to me and that relative who convinced me also died due to COVID (my attempts to reach her family were used to file temporary restraining order on me).

Not expecting any sympathy from anyone here who are judging my life that I'm worried about money I lost - these are the things there is little meaning in my life. I've pretty much become like a rock without any emotions, just trying to channel my time and energy into work.

Mods, I would really appreciate if guys can close and delete this read. I recently got out of from a big mess and I just want to be peaceful and don't want to get judged by random ppl. Given that I've seen in this thread, blind would be even more polluted passing judgements by random folks.

Scary….women are very calculative

i know a similar case like yours….she married him for GC and money….she has boy friend with whom she is in contact still even after marriage….she used to abuse him and hit him…they are still not divorced and don’t have kids 

[Sarvapindy]

4 minutes ago, NotSoBusy said:

3M $ kada bro , entha sampadichukune capability unna evadiki aina thikka lesthadi to give it away for free just because of some bullshit law.

just imagine losing your entire net worth on a worthless female 

Ikada divorce ante mutual kada..y he has to pay her? 

[Neekendukuu]

5 minutes ago, Android_Halwa said:

Isonti rod thelina cases Ki aak paak karepak lawyers waste…

Manchi flow la vunna lawyer ni pattale…Ben Chew and Camille Vasquez ni hire cheyavayya….

Jai Jhonny Depp…

[NotSoBusy]

1 hour ago, falconspyder said:

To all those guys who are making a joke out of my life in this thread.

I lost both parents before marriage and don't have anyone in India. I went to the best comp sci schools in India and did masters from a well known top rated school in the US with 100% funded admit. Ex-wife was behind me for 4/5 years and she tried to reach out to me through various methods - matrimonial websites, mutual friends, relatives in India, brokers. One of my relatives convinced me that my ex-wife is the right one/good family etc (her native place is like a mile from my native) and since I don't have anyone in India or US everyone said she and her family would treat me like a SON.

Dowry - Given my education, work profile and what I make in bay area, do I really give a rat ass about that or do I've anyone to even ask on my behalf? Since you guys judged everything out of my life, feel free to decide however it suits you folks.

My age - I got married when I'm 30. It's just the whole divorce process dragged for 3 yrs in California (Courts LOVE long game, they punish anyone who wants short game). In total I lost like ~5yrs since the date of engagement.

Ex-wife is in touch with a famous divorce attorney in Bay area almost as soon as she landed in Bay area (she submitted the email conv between them as an evidence during the trial to prove to court that abuse is happening since day1 of marriage and she had to get in touch with a divorce attorney). Evidences were collected from day 1 like a detective, framed me like in movie "Gone girl", called cops on me, filed restraining order. I myself was very clueless and lot of things never made sense to me until recently when she shared 4350 pages of evidences, declaration, testimonies, msgs, emails, letters from lot of ppl in India and US who I don't even know. She wrote court briefs on her own and made her attorney ask for things which has 0 probability to stand in court (this is done to purely put pressume to break me) , she asked for a monthly support until my death or her marriage. In total she took me to court for 7 back to back trails (not court hearings) and rejected all settlement meetings and put so much pressure on me and broke me down as a person and gave up to the pressure and finally did the negotiations in the last and final settlement meeting just few days before the final trial (I had to take short term disability to get though my ordeal). I had no one to even ask her or family why she is doing this to me and that relative who convinced me also died due to COVID (my attempts to reach her family were used to file temporary restraining order on me).

Not expecting any sympathy from anyone here who are judging my life that I'm worried about money I lost - these are the things there is little meaning in my life. I've pretty much become like a rock without any emotions, just trying to channel my time and energy into work.

Mods, I would really appreciate if guys can close and delete this read. I recently got out of from a big mess and I just want to be peaceful and don't want to get judged by random ppl. Given that I've seen in this thread, blind would be even more polluted passing judgements by random folks.

Ikkada laude ke baal gaallu chesey comments ni don’t take it to heart , mostly labour batch gaallu untaaru atlantollu who put comments without having zero empathy , mostly They’ll be jealous people who can’t even dream about getting big in life , nuvvu 3M and Faang ante jealousy tho back burn ayyi pettey comments avi anni 

[Fish]

1 hour ago, falconspyder said:

I caved in due to extreme pressure and that's the reason I had to agree to big nums during the final settlement meeting. She made me sign a stipulation order that I won't appeal in court, go near her, or reach out to her parents, give up jewelry worth 50k (small compared to other things I'm paying her)  I was made to give her during the engagement.

I don't have a knack of remembering every small thing due to many things that happened in my life. I really don't have any strength or mental capacity, I just want to be alone and peaceful. Felt like my life was getting started after marriage and I'll have my own family (which I never had before) but everything snatched from my hands.

Waiting for my 180 day thing (AOS application) to move out but the max damage is already done and stipulation orders are signed, money and stocks are getting transferred as we speak.

Last two years I made little more than $650k and I felt like I'm punished for making that money in court by the Judge - B**o*e B**c**r. Every single dollar is taken away by taxes, attorneys, forensic accountant, ex-wife.

Ex-wife didn't agree for legal separation and she made me file taxes as married separate which is worse than single status and that also damaged me in taxes.

Believe in karma….no one can escape…just wait and watch 

[NotSoBusy]

1 minute ago, Sarvapindy said:

Ikada divorce ante mutual kada..y he has to pay her? 

Manodu Explain chesadu kada about some California law