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I am sharing this post anonymously due to good reason. I badly need some guidance or information to get out of toxic relationships which I am not able to find a way.   

Situation is...I got married a couple of months ago (went to India for marriage and my spouse joined me later). We had good days initially but after that, her behavior changed suddenly. She gets hyper, throws stuff, uses foul language, cooks for herself (not for me), and physically hurts me ( I can revert but i avoid it as i fear that if the police come and i may get in trouble). I do everything that she asks for...clean utensils, outside food for 3-4 days a week, whatever she asks for. Don't know what's in her mind. 

One day i realized that she has a recording app on her phone and she records our conversation.  

I didn't share with my parents initially as i don't want them to feel sad but later when i talked with them they shared the shocking story. When she was in India for a few weeks with her parents awaiting visa stamping. She was abusive with them and never used to do anything. My mom used to cook for her and clean her room. But they were silent as they thought that she will go to the USA and maybe her behavior will change. But it's not happening.  

My parents and I also talked to my in-law. They don't listen to us and simply say how much money we need. Interestingly they also keep their recording on. My mother-in-law also uses foul language while talking to me.  I am clueless that why this is happening to me. 

The girl even threatens me and says "Aur sale apne baap ko complain karega meri. Teri to le loongi mein". Its not that all girls are awesome and i am experiencing that. I have tried everything to make this relationship work but my wife is climbing the ladder of inhuman behavior every day. 

Not happy, not able to work properly, my parents are sad/sick, and my sister is in pain. I just want to get out of this relationship. Interestingly she says openly "Mein nahi chodungi tujhe, jo karna hai kar le".  What can i do in this situation? Kindly help as i am getting under depression as i am not able to take it anymore.

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22 minutes ago, JackSeal said:

I am sharing this post anonymously due to good reason. I badly need some guidance or information to get out of toxic relationships which I am not able to find a way.   

Situation is...I got married a couple of months ago (went to India for marriage and my spouse joined me later). We had good days initially but after that, her behavior changed suddenly. She gets hyper, throws stuff, uses foul language, cooks for herself (not for me), and physically hurts me ( I can revert but i avoid it as i fear that if the police come and i may get in trouble). I do everything that she asks for...clean utensils, outside food for 3-4 days a week, whatever she asks for. Don't know what's in her mind. 

One day i realized that she has a recording app on her phone and she records our conversation.  

I didn't share with my parents initially as i don't want them to feel sad but later when i talked with them they shared the shocking story. When she was in India for a few weeks with her parents awaiting visa stamping. She was abusive with them and never used to do anything. My mom used to cook for her and clean her room. But they were silent as they thought that she will go to the USA and maybe her behavior will change. But it's not happening.  

My parents and I also talked to my in-law. They don't listen to us and simply say how much money we need. Interestingly they also keep their recording on. My mother-in-law also uses foul language while talking to me.  I am clueless that why this is happening to me. 

The girl even threatens me and says "Aur sale apne baap ko complain karega meri. Teri to le loongi mein". Its not that all girls are awesome and i am experiencing that. I have tried everything to make this relationship work but my wife is climbing the ladder of inhuman behavior every day. 

Not happy, not able to work properly, my parents are sad/sick, and my sister is in pain. I just want to get out of this relationship. Interestingly she says openly "Mein nahi chodungi tujhe, jo karna hai kar le".  What can i do in this situation? Kindly help as i am getting under depression as i am not able to take it anymore.

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