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[Picheshwar]

[Raven_Rayes]

8 minutes ago, Iriswest said:

Kids imitate when they are small. In teenage they resent their patents.

Yes. But they resent their parents in a way that is taught to them. 

Ultimately most kids are just approximate extensions of their parents. Very few go full rebel. 

Like I did. 

[Iriswest]

4 minutes ago, Raven_Rayes said:

Yes. But they resent their parents in a way that is taught to them. 

Ultimately most kids are just approximate extensions of their parents. Very few go full rebel. 

Like I did. 

I disagree. I have seen countless Indian teenage kids who don’t even talk to their parents properly. Not interested in Indian social gatherings or poojas or temples. They try to be everything we are not.

[Swatkat]

5 minutes ago, Raven_Rayes said:

Yes. But they resent their parents in a way that is taught to them. 

Ultimately most kids are just approximate extensions of their parents. Very few go full rebel. 

Like I did. 

Neku pelli kaledhu ga raven shut your bloody mouth and shut the fuk up.

[Swatkat]

@Raven_Rayes

[Iriswest]

2 minutes ago, Swatkat said:

Neku pelli kaledhu ga raven shut your bloody mouth and shut the fuk up.

Ho you are not a parent yet. You will remember my words when you have kids. @Raven_Rayes

[Raven_Rayes]

1 minute ago, Swatkat said:

Neku pelli kaledhu ga raven shut your bloody mouth and shut the fuk up.

But I have 5 mistresses. 

 

 

[Swatkat]

1 minute ago, Raven_Rayes said:

But I have 5 mistresses. 

 

 

Enjay chesthunav sambar girls tho tambaram nunchi mylapore dakah 5 house maintaining antey maanchi rich party eh nuvvu. Chennai vastha dec lo kaludham. Station ki private jet panpimchu

[Swatkat]

2 minutes ago, Iriswest said:

Ho you are not a parent yet. You will remember my words when you have kids. @Raven_Rayes

Aunty hahahhaha

[Raven_Rayes]

Just now, Swatkat said:

Enjay chesthunav sambar girls tho tambaram nunchi mylapore dakah 5 house maintaining antey maanchi rich party eh nuvvu. Chennai vastha dec lo kaludham. Station ki private jet panpimchu

Neeku pothe poni ani nenu chesina edanna item gift ga istha anthe.

Adhi kooda ekkuva kastapduthunnav kaabatti. 

[Swatkat]

Just now, Raven_Rayes said:

Neeku pothe poni ani nenu chesina edanna item gift ga istha anthe.

Adhi kooda ekkuva kastapduthunnav kaabatti. 

Ne pichi potti p… a

[Midnightsun]

If she has problem with the english accent of indians. She needs bendapudi school girls accent.

 

[Raven_Rayes]

36 minutes ago, Iriswest said:

If I say don’t date to my kids  or date only other indian kids after going to college do you think they’ll listen? Please don’t say it depends on parenting. In that age kids want to blend in and do what their friends are doing. I can be a control freak parent until they stay in my home. But that will not help. My job is to make them smart enough to decide if a relationship is worth pursuing. They will eventually see love, lust, heartbreak and finally find maturity. I cannot make an 18 year old kid act matured like a 25 year old.

their wanting to blend in and do what their friends are doing is somewhat a product of parenting.

kids will always rebel against even world's perfect parents. but how that parents actually act also has a huge bearing on how the kid acts. having a kid means resigning to the fact that whatever you do, your kid will hurt you.

just like any other relationship.

do you think husband and wife can't influence each other's personalities?

[Raven_Rayes]

27 minutes ago, Iriswest said:

I disagree. I have seen countless Indian teenage kids who don’t even talk to their parents properly. Not interested in Indian social gatherings or poojas or temples. They try to be everything we are not.

I know. They are imitating their parents who have practised emotional shutting off from the world to care only about their own family.

the kids simply take it to the extreme.

[Iriswest]

24 minutes ago, Raven_Rayes said:

their wanting to blend in and do what their friends are doing is somewhat a product of parenting.

kids will always rebel against even world's perfect parents. but how that parents actually act also has a huge bearing on how the kid acts. having a kid means resigning to the fact that whatever you do, your kid will hurt you.

just like any other relationship.

do you think husband and wife can't influence each other's personalities?

 

22 minutes ago, Raven_Rayes said:

I know. They are imitating their parents who have practised emotional shutting off from the world to care only about their own family.

the kids simply take it to the extreme.

Parents can influence only habits, their personality is their own. It could be genes too. Unless the kid is homeschooled kids are heavily influenced by their peers even teachers. Maaku everyday kashtale ivi. Nuvvu parent ayyaka ardham aiddi practical kashtalu. Bringing up citizen kids with Indian values is a nightmare.  They end up as nerds or dorks. Em emotional shutting off? Taking care of family is crime? Ala aithe every man is emotionally shut off not just Indian. Arey ivanni samsaram lo telise things. Neeku cheppina ardham kaadu. Neeku telisina intellectual stuff lo poi preach chesko. Kids and family vishayalu neekenduku.