1 kid vs 2 kids

[surfExcel]

10 hours ago, Pahelwan2 said:

I have 2 vaa wanted 3rd but wife saying marry another 1. But kids more than 1 undali vaa. After parents gone single kid will be like orphaned kid. I want to have atleast 3 

agreed about the single kid thing. 

[surfExcel]

40 minutes ago, psycopk said:

India lo untava samra.. inta reckless piece of shitt ga undali ante only akkade possible

what do you mean

[surfExcel]

9 hours ago, Paamu said:

Single kid unte orphan endi bro... vallaki pellillu avvavaa.... pillalu puttara... they create their own family kada. 

orphans ki pellillu avvava pillalu puttara? 

[perugu_vada]

evadi preference vaadidhi .. post covid u just cant predict how future is going to unfold.. kontha mandhi asalu kids ye odhu anukuntunaru .. 

1 or 2 or 3 ani kadu .. try to spend quality time with your kids .. that is important .. 

ledante vaalla ki DB'ing nerpisthe best chinna age lo ne .. ani aduguthuna @Sucker uncle

[Democraticcompulsion]

1 hour ago, sarfaroshi said:

See this is the problem....I have heard from many parents.

I dont know if they really mean it or joking about wishing to have only one kid.

Wondering is not meaning it or wishing it. Just a thought. Nothing to act upon.

Real question you should ask is, if I can do it again, would I go with 1 or 2. My answer would be 2. I wouldn't miss my second child for anything else.

[dasari4kntr]

How much time we are gonna spend with kids is more important…

financial status or other things shouldn't be matter…

next young generation needs more parents attention… 

[JollyReddy]

1 hour ago, psycopk said:

India lo untava samra.. inta reckless piece of shitt ga undali ante only akkade possible

arrogant piece of shitt laga unte point ilane miss avutav samara

my point there is wife has to be the one deciding.. neku financial stability undani nee kula guruvu laga pellanni year ki okarni kane machine laga tayaru chestava

[iddaritho]

We have a 9 year old and going to have another kid this year 

we plan on having one more and then adopt one 

or may be just adopt one , but looking for 3 to 4 kids depending on how the life with second kid goes 

but we definitely are considering adoption it might be 3rd or 4th not sure yet 

 

[former]

9 hours ago, Sandy_14 said:

Future emi chestaaru emo kaani. But what I observed  is most who have single child , that child will be very calm ,dont interact much, feel lone. 9 out of 10 kids . 

I always advice to have 2 children atleast, entha parents love and affection choopinchina, siblings bond, interaction , fights and learning things from both is completely different experience.

Never have only single kid unless otherwise you are not able to support financially for 2 kids.

 

Kid ki after 2 years day care ki pamipthe socialize avutahru. Mana desi batch money avuthatyi ani 4 yrs daka intlone vunchuthuru. 

After 2 years, atleast 2 to 3 days day care velthe they will sociliaze. 

[veerigadu]

2 minimum. Preferably one son to carry on with the 'Y" chromosome of my family.. 

[former]

1 hour ago, dasari4kntr said:

How much time we are gonna spend with kids is more important…

financial status or other things shouldn't be matter…

next young generation needs more parents attention… 

This is very important.

[veerigadu]

2 minutes ago, former said:

This is very important.

Only if parents themselves are happy. If they are stressed, then kids will absorb it more. In the process, parental interaction does more bad than good. 

[psycopk]

1 hour ago, JollyReddy said:

arrogant piece of shitt laga unte point ilane miss avutav samara

my point there is wife has to be the one deciding.. neku financial stability undani nee kula guruvu laga pellanni year ki okarni kane machine laga tayaru chestava

😂 covering try chesav kani kudarala.. 

[surfExcel]

49 minutes ago, veerigadu said:

2 minimum. Preferably one son to carry on with the 'Y" chromosome of my family.. 

nuv compromise aina vamsham compromise kadu antav 😂

[sarfaroshi]

1 hour ago, iddaritho said:

We have a 9 year old and going to have another kid this year 

we plan on having one more and then adopt one 

or may be just adopt one , but looking for 3 to 4 kids depending on how the life with second kid goes 

but we definitely are considering adoption it might be 3rd or 4th not sure yet