pakeer_saab Posted December 22, 2022 Report Share Posted December 22, 2022 3 minutes ago, IamBhagatSingh said: Ijjat poddi ah reason chepthe, Should never say that reason, instead say that they are asking to relocate or say that initially they told WFH but now asking to come to office. good point, one can do that too but it is a myth saying truth will make us look stupid, it's not. it makes one trustable. we have been conditioned to tell lies even when they are not really necessary 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
prince143 Posted December 22, 2022 Report Share Posted December 22, 2022 48 minutes ago, Abhagyudu said: Oka 6 weeks ayyindi in new job..too many desis and work is giving me panic attacks..asalu lead gaadu emi explain cheyyakunda estimates..and hounding me daily ..never experienced this..even team lo desi scrum kuda..never experienced this..thought it will be good for my career..but not working out..ee time lo enko job leka previous employer ki veldam better aa.. previous employer has the opening,only thing is how they will react.. Better to move out. But sometimes if you hang on things will settle, maybe give it some more time. Indian witch company aa implementation/client? kudirthey PM chey Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post DesiPokiri Posted December 22, 2022 Popular Post Report Share Posted December 22, 2022 5 minutes ago, IamBhagatSingh said: Ijjat poddi ah reason chepthe, Should never say that reason, instead say that they are asking to relocate or say that initially they told WFH but now asking to come to office. We ask you to come to office too, what’s the difference ante em chesthav 2 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pakeer_saab Posted December 22, 2022 Report Share Posted December 22, 2022 6 minutes ago, DesiPokiri said: Appudu pay thaggistaru patha company lo kuda I don't think so, worst thing that happen is stagnated career for few years, which is better than toxic team where even this may not happen I have seen people returning back and they were able to get back to their earlier state very quickly we are not tuned to fail and learn from it. we are trained to keep looking for new all the time for better prospects Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Abhagyudu Posted December 22, 2022 Author Report Share Posted December 22, 2022 19 minutes ago, chammakchandra said: Em chestharu me company .. I know a place something like that Trading bro 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pakeer_saab Posted December 22, 2022 Report Share Posted December 22, 2022 1 minute ago, DesiPokiri said: We ask you to come to office too, what’s the difference ante em chesthav ejjaktly.. oka lie comes with lot of iterations to cover it up and get exposed i think this is about relocating to another city, then it sticks properly defended by family reasons 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DesiPokiri Posted December 22, 2022 Report Share Posted December 22, 2022 Simply tell team is toxic ani, I had my manager in my current project who speaks openly with me and says company is going for d*ck move or use words like fck etc casually in meetings. So you don’t have to worry anything and simply say néw Team is toxic. That should be enough 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DesiPokiri Posted December 22, 2022 Report Share Posted December 22, 2022 1 minute ago, pakeer_saab said: I don't think so, worst thing that happen is stagnated career for few years, which is better than toxic team where even this may not happen I have seen people returning back and they were able to get back to their earlier state very quickly we are not tuned to fail and learn from it. we are trained to keep looking for new all the time for better prospects Why to go back assuming worst things, you can pass the storm in current proj and after the storm it might look quiet. There is no IT job in the world which isn’t doable Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gandhi Posted December 22, 2022 Report Share Posted December 22, 2022 3 minutes ago, Abhagyudu said: Trading bro fidelity aaaa Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pakeer_saab Posted December 22, 2022 Report Share Posted December 22, 2022 2 minutes ago, DesiPokiri said: Why to go back assuming worst things, you can pass the storm in current proj and after the storm it might look quiet. There is no IT job in the world which isn’t doable the one that starts with hell will usually be a like a hell in long term newcomer ni comfortable state lo pettaka work istaaru..it doesn't appear like that situation there 6 months ayyaka koda ade state unte he doesnt have the option to go back many people are frightened with change because they have been working in their current job for too long, if this is just a fear of change, then they will be fine but if it fear of tech in new company, it may not worth continuing Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ttr2tr Posted December 22, 2022 Report Share Posted December 22, 2022 52 minutes ago, Abhagyudu said: Oka 6 weeks ayyindi in new job..too many desis and work is giving me panic attacks..asalu lead gaadu emi explain cheyyakunda estimates..and hounding me daily ..never experienced this..even team lo desi scrum kuda..never experienced this..thought it will be good for my career..but not working out..ee time lo enko job leka previous employer ki veldam better aa.. previous employer has the opening,only thing is how they will react.. Leave it ASAP. not worth health meeda intha risk teesukovadam. itlane continue aite heart risks kuda vastai Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rmJU72 Posted December 22, 2022 Report Share Posted December 22, 2022 Hoping you already tried being frank with new employer about needing more time and an onboarding buddy to ramp up faster. Also offer to write up an onboarding guide for future hires. if nothing works, use chatGPT to come up with a good reason and get back to old employer. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DesiPokiri Posted December 22, 2022 Report Share Posted December 22, 2022 2 minutes ago, pakeer_saab said: the one that starts with hell will usually be a like a hell in long term newcomer ni comfortable state lo pettaka work istaaru..it doesn't appear like that situation there 6 months ayyaka koda ade state unte he doesnt have the option to go back many people are frightened with change because they have been working in their current job for too long, if this is just a fear of change, then they will be fine but if it fear of tech in new company, it may not worth continuing Ala em undadakapovacchu, I worked in a tough project with continuous bugging from left and right and colleagues askijg Doubts, but after frst delivery, things went quiet for 1 year easy peasy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thokkalee Posted December 22, 2022 Report Share Posted December 22, 2022 41 minutes ago, Abhagyudu said: Ledu bro..in Dallas Which company bro? some teams are toxic in nature.. stay away from them.. some times if you get into a team which is high performing and is in the middle of a major release , you get suffocated… they don’t give you time to pickup.. figure out which one it is.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IamBhagatSingh Posted December 22, 2022 Report Share Posted December 22, 2022 24 minutes ago, DesiPokiri said: We ask you to come to office too, what’s the difference ante em chesthav They are asking to relocate to a different state where most of the team is there. Ani chepthe chaal va Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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