New job panic attacks

[pakeer_saab]

3 minutes ago, IamBhagatSingh said:

Ijjat poddi ah reason chepthe, Should never say that reason, instead say that they are asking to relocate or say that initially they told WFH but now asking to come to office. 

 

good point, one can do that too

but it is a myth saying truth will make us look stupid, it's not. it makes one trustable.

we have been conditioned to tell lies even when they are not really necessary

 

[prince143]

48 minutes ago, Abhagyudu said:

Oka 6 weeks ayyindi in new job..too many desis and work is giving me panic attacks..asalu lead gaadu emi explain cheyyakunda estimates..and hounding me daily ..never experienced this..even team lo desi scrum kuda..never experienced this..thought it will be good for my career..but not working out..ee time lo enko job leka previous employer ki veldam better aa.. previous employer has the opening,only thing is how they will react..

Better to move out. But sometimes if you hang on things will settle, maybe give it some more time.

Indian witch company aa implementation/client? kudirthey PM chey

[DesiPokiri]

5 minutes ago, IamBhagatSingh said:

Ijjat poddi ah reason chepthe, Should never say that reason, instead say that they are asking to relocate or say that initially they told WFH but now asking to come to office. 

 

We ask you to come to office too, what’s the difference ante em chesthav 

[pakeer_saab]

6 minutes ago, DesiPokiri said:

Appudu pay thaggistaru patha company lo kuda 

I don't think so, worst thing that happen is stagnated career for few years, which is better than toxic team where even this may not happen

I have seen people returning back and they were able to get back to their earlier state very quickly

we are not tuned to fail and learn from it. we are trained to keep looking for new all the time for better prospects

 

 

[Abhagyudu]

19 minutes ago, chammakchandra said:

Em chestharu me company .. I know a place something like that 

Trading bro

[pakeer_saab]

1 minute ago, DesiPokiri said:

We ask you to come to office too, what’s the difference ante em chesthav 

ejjaktly.. oka lie comes with lot of iterations to cover it up and get exposed

i think this is about relocating to another city, then it sticks properly defended by family reasons

 

 

[DesiPokiri]

Simply tell team is toxic ani, I had my manager in my current project who speaks openly with me and says company is going for d*ck move or use words like fck etc casually in meetings. So you don’t have to worry anything and simply say néw Team is toxic. That should be enough 

[DesiPokiri]

1 minute ago, pakeer_saab said:

I don't think so, worst thing that happen is stagnated career for few years, which is better than toxic team where even this may not happen

I have seen people returning back and they were able to get back to their earlier state very quickly

we are not tuned to fail and learn from it. we are trained to keep looking for new all the time for better prospects

 

 

Why to go back assuming worst things, you can pass the storm in current proj and after the storm it might look quiet. There is no IT job in the world which isn’t doable

[gandhi]

3 minutes ago, Abhagyudu said:

Trading bro

fidelity aaaa

[pakeer_saab]

2 minutes ago, DesiPokiri said:

Why to go back assuming worst things, you can pass the storm in current proj and after the storm it might look quiet. There is no IT job in the world which isn’t doable

the one that starts with hell will usually be a like a hell in long term

newcomer ni comfortable state lo pettaka work istaaru..it doesn't appear like that situation there

6 months ayyaka koda ade state unte he doesnt have the option to go back

many people are frightened with change because they have been working in their current job for too long, if this is just a fear of change, then they will be fine

but if it fear of tech in new company, it may not worth continuing

 

[ttr2tr]

52 minutes ago, Abhagyudu said:

Oka 6 weeks ayyindi in new job..too many desis and work is giving me panic attacks..asalu lead gaadu emi explain cheyyakunda estimates..and hounding me daily ..never experienced this..even team lo desi scrum kuda..never experienced this..thought it will be good for my career..but not working out..ee time lo enko job leka previous employer ki veldam better aa.. previous employer has the opening,only thing is how they will react..

Leave it ASAP. not worth health meeda intha risk teesukovadam.

itlane continue aite heart risks kuda vastai

[rmJU72]

Hoping you already tried being frank with new employer about needing more time and an onboarding buddy to ramp up faster. Also offer to write up an onboarding guide for future hires.

if nothing works, use chatGPT to come up with a good reason and get back to old employer.

[DesiPokiri]

2 minutes ago, pakeer_saab said:

the one that starts with hell will usually be a like a hell in long term

newcomer ni comfortable state lo pettaka work istaaru..it doesn't appear like that situation there

6 months ayyaka koda ade state unte he doesnt have the option to go back

many people are frightened with change because they have been working in their current job for too long, if this is just a fear of change, then they will be fine

but if it fear of tech in new company, it may not worth continuing

 

Ala em undadakapovacchu, I worked in a tough project with continuous bugging from left and right and colleagues askijg Doubts, but after frst delivery, things went quiet for 1 year easy peasy

[Thokkalee]

41 minutes ago, Abhagyudu said:

Ledu bro..in Dallas 

Which company bro? 
some teams are toxic in nature.. stay away from them.. 

some times if you get into a team which is high performing and is in the middle of a major release , you get suffocated… they don’t give you time to pickup.. figure out which one it is.. 

[IamBhagatSingh]

24 minutes ago, DesiPokiri said:

We ask you to come to office too, what’s the difference ante em chesthav 

They are asking to relocate to a different state where most of the team is there. Ani chepthe chaal va