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[Rushabhi]

12 hours ago, Scurvy said:

Chaala divorce stories and troubled marriages frequent ga chustunna.

what could be reasons?

 

Because happily married people won’t post and you are in a group where people freely post problems 

[futureofandhra]

1 hour ago, babu_bangaram said:

all above are correct comments but if someone who is on the fence comes for suggestion ..... there are group of ladies ....first suggestion is to divorce the man ..... help them with lawyers suggestion etc ...... I have not seen even once someone giving sane advice to patch up ....  and try to fix the marriage ..... first answer you deserve better .....

same with jobs .... immediately saying resign .... you are in a very bad atmosphere ani ....🤦‍♂️

Jobs is not issue

They can change.

Marriage antey telisi specific ga undali anukuntey either guy or girl should tell upfront instead of spoiling each other's life

Girls mother's are the main reason for majority of the cases they won't divorce their husband but will ask their daughter to divorce ego issues

 

 

[babu_bangaram]

29 minutes ago, futureofandhra said:

Jobs is not issue

They can change.

Marriage antey telisi specific ga undali anukuntey either guy or girl should tell upfront instead of spoiling each other's life

Girls mother's are the main reason for majority of the cases they won't divorce their husband but will ask their daughter to divorce ego issues

 

 

Jobs they can change .... but forcefully change because of atmosphere at work .... does not mean you will land into a better place .... Plus job change is not that easy once you are in mid management and high ....

 

[Swatkat]

1 hour ago, Rushabhi said:

Because happily married people won’t post and you are in a group where people freely post problems 

Happily married abbo… 

[Thokkalee]

2 hours ago, babu_bangaram said:

all above are correct comments but if someone who is on the fence comes for suggestion ..... there are group of ladies ....first suggestion is to divorce the man ..... help them with lawyers suggestion etc ...... I have not seen even once someone giving sane advice to patch up ....  and try to fix the marriage ..... first answer you deserve better .....

same with jobs .... immediately saying resign .... you are in a very bad atmosphere ani ....🤦‍♂️

One woman made this observation that all  married women are suggesting divorce and all divorced women are suggesting to not rush into divorce, stay put and give it more time for the issue to settle.. 😄

[summer27]

3 hours ago, babu_bangaram said:

all above are correct comments but if someone who is on the fence comes for suggestion ..... there are group of ladies ....first suggestion is to divorce the man ..... help them with lawyers suggestion etc ...... I have not seen even once someone giving sane advice to patch up ....  and try to fix the marriage ..... first answer you deserve better .....

same with jobs .... immediately saying resign .... you are in a very bad atmosphere ani ....🤦‍♂️

You are right.. emanna ante.. live your life .. don’t compromise .. my life my choice ani sollu kaburlu cheptaru

[harvey]

14 hours ago, Scurvy said:

Chaala divorce stories and troubled marriages frequent ga chustunna.

what could be reasons?

 

mana santhana dharmanni marchipovatame karanam. Aadavallu western vallani choosi independence korukuntunnaru which is not good for society

[Scurvy]

3 hours ago, Thokkalee said:

One woman made this observation that all  married women are suggesting divorce and all divorced women are suggesting to not rush into divorce, stay put and give it more time for the issue to settle.. 😄

Ante divorce ki contradict avtunnara?

also i heard independent woman are argumentative and men somehow cannot tolerate it

[Scurvy]

5 hours ago, Rushabhi said:

Because happily married people won’t post and you are in a group where people freely post problems 

May be happily married ones  are just pretending that they are happy and unhappy ones have guts to post truth instead of living for sake of society and children?

[Rushabhi]

2 hours ago, Scurvy said:

May be happily married ones  are just pretending that they are happy and unhappy ones have guts to post truth instead of living for sake of society and children?

Happiness is relative. If the spouses feel like they are happy even if they are issues and the issues are not unbearable they won’t post. Akkada post chesevallu max anonymous ga post chesthunnaru. That doesn’t really require a lot of guts. Maybe vaalla identity tho post chesthe then anukovachu

[praying]

14 hours ago, Saloly said:

Because arranged marriages are nothing but a business deal now a days.

 

Nakentha dowry istav vs naku em privileges provide chestav

After the fire dies in few couplings, reality shows up and frustration begins.

Look at love marriage and divorces, you will get ankick out if it

[kittaya]

21 hours ago, Scurvy said:

Chaala divorce stories and troubled marriages frequent ga chustunna.

what could be reasons?

 

previously between friends we are listening so many of this kind.... 

 

monna california cliff meeda nunchi tesla crash is a suicideeee ... godhhhhhh 

 

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one solution is both boy and girl work, pay the bills together, be in livin relationship, if that doesnt work out... get seperated... 

 

as white ppl have the aggreement..  our marriages also should have an agreement if this kind of agreements happens.... 

 

 

 

[kittaya]

21 hours ago, Scurvy said:

Chaala divorce stories and troubled marriages frequent ga chustunna.

what could be reasons?

 

marry a girl who lived in USA rather than getting girl from INDIA 

girls from INDIA are mostly, wanted to come to USA..... 

they doesnt care anything elseeeee..... 

 

when girl parents interferes in the marriage, that marriage mostly wont get settled, and it will leads too divorce..... 

 

girls parents are pathetic, boys parents became powerless by giving birth and fixing arranged marriagesss

[praying]

2 minutes ago, kittaya said:

previously between friends we are listening so many of this kind.... 

 

monna california cliff meeda nunchi tesla crash is a suicideeee ... godhhhhhh 

 

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one solution is both boy and girl work, pay the bills together, be in livin relationship, if that doesnt work out... get seperated... 

 

as white ppl have the aggreement..  our marriages also should have an agreement if this kind of agreements happens.... 

 

 

 

Marriages are not done with agreemnets, rather on relationships 

[kittaya]

1 minute ago, praying said:

Marriages are not done with agreemnets, rather on relationships 

come to reality if you doesnt want to be ** by girl power..... 

if you have a good wife, not the case for other ppl....