$ dreams , confusions.

[mettastar]

Talk to ur wife about kids, college expenses, health insurance after retirement , when do you want to retire, how much u need to save before retirement to lead a comfortable life , plan with her and start some retirement investment that you both can contribute too and some funds for kids and emergency .. tharvatha migilinavi ne istam ani cheppu .. also save for annual vacation

[kitkat]

2 hours ago, Saloly said:

India lo investment why mistake?

[kitkat]

Just now, kitkat said:

2 hours ago, Saloly said:

India lo investment why mistake?

no use kada bayya. rents etc avi techukoleemu. site avi not selling, sell chesina aa money may be good for  couple months here.. manam akkadaku velledi doubt 

[kitkat]

wife tho koncham kurchoni matladali. ela start chesina she is getting upset...need to figure out somehow.

main expense is private school fee. 50K for 8 months. roju drop/pick oka lolli. 

public school is in 2 miles, inti mundu busstop...   naaku G burning!! 

eemanna antee your own kid school fee edustavu , India lo untee govt shcool pamputava ela pihci gola. 

 

[fasak_vachadu]

39 minutes ago, Chirupoo said:

Decent $ both ante. She has rights to get what she want. 
You don’t discourage her as long as she realizes. Has she come from middle class family? Look at your or her friend circle nuvvu ring konte friends vaddanam koni untaru. That’s the triggering point for her. She also want to compete with friend circle.

First of all Gold & Silver bringing or taking to India ban cheyyali. Akkadnunchi mosukuni raavadam inkokariki choopinchukuni brathakadam ento aa sadism. 
Ika latest trend House 🏡 Purchasing , decoration ade vankatho gold purchasing and wearing for show off. 
 

We should not forget our roots where we come from and have to maintain decent wishes in life without competing with others. Ee mindset lenanthavaraku ladies can’t change. Gents kooda em thakkuva kaadu vaallu kooda alage unnaru… katnam teesukune tappudu leni siggu, ippudu concerns raise cheyyadam not at all fair.

Also there are men shamelessly torturing wife for their wishes and domination from parents and their ego. That’s also not fair.

Husband and wife have to sit and discuss what they want to achieve and how they want to lead life. Keep a goal so that focus will not shift for such idiots things. 
if not these idiot things will impact kids upbringing also.

New generation ivvani chudatam ledu bro 

now they want to get money in short cut route 

even GC citizen ship 

[ZoomNaidu]

2 minutes ago, kitkat said:

wife tho koncham kurchoni matladali. ela start chesina she is getting upset...need to figure out somehow.

main expense is private school fee. 50K for 8 months. roju drop/pick oka lolli. 

public school is in 2 miles, inti mundu busstop...   naaku G burning!! 

eemanna antee your own kid school fee edustavu , India lo untee govt shcool pamputava ela pihci gola. 

 

50k $ for 8 months 🤕🤕🤕 ? 

[fasak_vachadu]

2 minutes ago, kitkat said:

wife tho koncham kurchoni matladali. ela start chesina she is getting upset...need to figure out somehow.

main expense is private school fee. 50K for 8 months. roju drop/pick oka lolli. 

public school is in 2 miles, inti mundu busstop...   naaku G burning!! 

eemanna antee your own kid school fee edustavu , India lo untee govt shcool pamputava ela pihci gola. 

 

Gatalane antaru bro 

nuvu calm anitiki ok ok anu vachedi recssion ani bhayam pettu 

mee Office lo edo team lo lepi 10garu ani cheppu slow ga …. 

[kitkat]

Over all ga ee ladies ki brain assala pani cheyyadu baa.

monna weekend , she made poori. papad laa unnayee. subconsciously I said ma amma poori  puffy untayee ani...

iam sure you all know what situation iam in now even after 5,6 days 

[fasak_vachadu]

3 minutes ago, kitkat said:

Over all ga ee ladies ki brain assala pani cheyyadu baa.

monna weekend , she made poori. papad laa unnayee. subconsciously I said ma amma poori  puffy untayee ani...

iam sure you all know what situation iam in now even after 5,6 days 

Ha ha andariki in the untadi bro lite tesukoo 

nenu ayithe ala food unte akaliga ledu ani bita ku poyi cash tho edo okti konukoni tinta nu 

or stomch upset ayindhi ani cheppi escape or trash lo padestha 

[Chirupoo]

20 minutes ago, fasak_vachadu said:

New generation ivvani chudatam ledu bro 

now they want to get money in short cut route 

even GC citizen ship 

See it’s a mindset how a couple want to live. If we compete with others and run behind money. We are not living happy and for ourselves. You are making someone else happy that’s not important at all.

[Shameless]

3 hours ago, kitkat said:

I am trying not to think much and go with the flow...but my thoughts are still bothering..

we both work , make decent $. wife is a spender compared to my mother & sisters, trouble starts here.

she prefer private schooling for kids, only branded clothing, Dimond jewelry , indian dresses 30 to 50k rupees..ela

eemanna antee crying, upsets..." neenu hosewife untee neevu food kuda pettavu" ani na meeda noorupareesukovadam...

daycare/private school sucks $. India lo invested, which was a biggest mistake. 

anni dulipeesukoni ma ooru vellila anipistundi......

It's hard to change the mindset of her with your words bro...hand over the finances to her and let her feel the financial burden too...

some people won't realize until they hit the rock bottom..I was and still I am in a similar situation where I feel my wife doesn't feel any pressure as long as I am taking care of all the responsibilities...

Few women believe "live for today"..I am 100% positive show won't listen to you how much you explain...she will defend herself...this is called codependency.. 

[Thokkalee]

31 minutes ago, kitkat said:

Over all ga ee ladies ki brain assala pani cheyyadu baa.

monna weekend , she made poori. papad laa unnayee. subconsciously I said ma amma poori  puffy untayee ani...

iam sure you all know what situation iam in now even after 5,6 days 

Rule #1 when dealing with wifey… never ever compare her with anyone.. especially with your mother or sister.. 😄  most people learn this in their first year of marriage.. you have to treat her as a separate individual and based on her merits and demerits.. 

[Thokkalee]

21 minutes ago, Shameless said:

It's hard to change the mindset of her with your words bro...hand over the finances to her and let her feel the financial burden too...

some people won't realize until they hit the rock bottom..I was and still I am in a similar situation where I feel my wife doesn't feel any pressure as long as I am taking care of all the responsibilities...

Few women believe "live for today"..I am 100% positive show won't listen to you how much you explain...she will defend herself...this is called codependency.. 

I think this is a bad idea.. many women will think they have more money than they are currently spending 😄

 

[Shameless]

1 minute ago, Thokkalee said:

I think this is a bad idea.. many women will think they have more money than they are currently spending 😄

 

Most women do not like to take pressure bro...personal experience tho chebuthunna..

[Cosmos]

54 minutes ago, kitkat said:

wife tho koncham kurchoni matladali. ela start chesina she is getting upset...need to figure out somehow.

main expense is private school fee. 50K for 8 months. roju drop/pick oka lolli. 

public school is in 2 miles, inti mundu busstop...   naaku G burning!! 

eemanna antee your own kid school fee edustavu , India lo untee govt shcool pamputava ela pihci gola. 

 

fyi, india lo gov school telugu medium .. inkada anni english medium.. eh school iyna okate ..