Returned to India 3 yrs back (Issue with Parents)

[elev]

Bhayya recently I went to india and checked with my childhood friends, there problems are worst then what you mentioned here. 

[ramudu]

39 minutes ago, BommaliNinnodhala said:

@ramudu latest — TS ki tips ivvu man

Troll chesthunavaa bro , ayina parvaleee ikati cheputha ....

 

అన్నీ బంధాలు ఆర్థిక సంబధాలే అని కార్ల్ మార్క్స్ చెప్పాడు, so be prepared 

[BommaliNinnodhala]

1 minute ago, ramudu said:

Troll chesthunavaa bro , ayina parvaleee ikati cheputha ....

 

అన్నీ బంధాలు ఆర్థిక సంబధాలే అని కార్ల్ మార్క్స్ చెప్పాడు, so be prepared 

Troll yemundi man — you are well prepared mentally financially physically—  tips ivvu TS kastapadtunadu return lo — moral support give man 

[krishnaaa]

20 hours ago, problem said:

hi all, i stayed in usa for 11 years and returned to india 3 yrs back......lyf and job everything is fyn here in india.......nenu e topic enduku vestunna ante chala mandi parents ni vadilesi us lo eppatiki ela untamu, eppatikina india vellipovali ani antaru......andariki naa experience cheptunna.......

first, nenu 2011 lo job pettanu, 2019 ending varuku us lo unnanu......india vachesi 3 yrs ayyindi......job start chesina daggara nunchi savings motham amts india pampinchukunna.......2014 lo purchased a house, where i iinvested 70% amt and father invested 30% amt.........thumb rule enti ante, even mee parents india lo unna, iddaru kalipi invest cheyyakandi, porapatuna parents emina money pedithe in house/apt purchase, vallu motham ownership teesukuntaru, valla ishtam vachinattu chestaru........naaku india vachinaduku eppudu badha padaledu, kani parents tho kalisi enduku untunna ani matram full feel avutunna.....veelu chusukuni nxt 1 yr lo ala vere seperate vellipodamani plan.......60+ vachaka parents nasa, chadastam barinchalemu......arey mana son 11 yrs vere country lo undi, antha sonthanga earn chesukuni settle ayyadu kada, ikkadiki vachaka manam prathi dantlo involve avvakudadu kada ani minimum alochincharu.......they want the information of every minor thing that happens......please note naaku maa parents chala chala close when i was in usa.......ippudu e nasa, chadastam antha peaks lo undi, we are not used to this when we are in us, so india ravali ani evarina anukunte, my sincere advice seperate ga undandi, mana life style antha diff untundi, we cant deal with all the for the small small things with the parents

Second, maa house purchase lo 70% nenu and 30% father pettukunnaru........8 yrs ayyinidi kotha house complete ayyi, mthly oka 40k rent vastadi right now, naaku rents kavali, half and half teesukundamu ika nunchi rents annanu,  mamaulu ga penta cheyyaledu.......illu purchase lo memu money pettaleda, motham needi anukuntunnava, mammalni undanistava ledha intlonchi vellipomantava antaru......antha gola gola, racha chesi, oka 1 yr rents icharu finally......maaku vere income kuda undi, rents ika nunchi half kadhu motham istamu, nuvve teesuko ani final ga 1 yr rents icharu......but iche mundu, gola chesi, godava padi, icharu........

Third, nenu us nunchi india vachetappudu koncham bulk amt valla accts ki pampinchukunna.......andhulo entha money undi adigithe, malli gola gola chesaru.....memu emina tinesamu anukuntunnava, maakemi nee money avasaram ledhu ani enno matalu annaru......emina money shortage anipiste transfer chesestamu ani aravatam..........final ga antha racha, godavatho unna amt antha fd veypinchanu........next, nenu bank acct fd vesinavi online acct kavali ani adigithe malli godava, e sari beebatsanga godava, anni fd vesesamu kada, inka neeku online enduku antaru........again too much racha cheyyatam.......

nenu pina points ekkuavaga financial topics cheppanu.......ika chinna chinnavi chala untayi.......60+ vachaka parents chadastam, nasa peaks lo untadi......manam anni yrs vere country lo undi, india lo settle valla chadastam barinchalemu.......naaku emi anipinchindi ante, nenu motham transparent ga untu, first nunchi money antha save chesukuni, vallaki pampinchanu......naaku income entha vastadi, entha savings ani information share chesukune vadini.....but return ga emina adigithe full godava, igo ki potharu.........especially my dad, ayanaki edhi kuda kids ki chepparu, none of his assets vishayalu.......valla daggari assets vachedi valla tadanantarame, which is fyn, avi valla own assets kabatti, kani naavi adigina full ga godavalu padi, racha chesi, final ga settle chesaru (Except online access of bank accts).......

1) thumb rule 1, intha detailed ga enduku cheptunna ante, people who think abt returning back to india, dont stay with ur parents.......seperate ga undandi.....15 days or 1 mth ki okasari kalavandi.......we got used to some life style for long time in usa, a taruvatha kalisi undalemu, no matter how close you are with ur parents........

2) thumb rule 2, if you have plans to settle in usa only, plz plz india okka rupee pampakandi.........rasi pettukondi, pampinavi malla us teppinchukovali ante mamuluga chukkalu kanipinchavu.........parents ki pampiste, malla adigithe racha racha chestaru........dont send money to india if you dont have plans to return to india.......e points naa personal experience tho cheptunna......

 

Majority of Indian parents are bunch of idiots. G pagala kottali.

Society itself is like that. Hopefully next generation will be better as they grew up in an environment with higher average literacy rate.

[problem]

45 minutes ago, elev said:

Bhayya recently I went to india and checked with my childhood friends, there problems are worst then what you mentioned here. 

mee childfood friends valla issues enti bhayya.....post few things na....

[Kalam_Youtheman]

21 hours ago, Thokkalee said:

I think this is the circle of life.. they grow older and become kids again and then like babies…

Also as they become old, they become more and more like small kids.. adamant ga, thikka ga, chadastham ga untaaru.. tantrums untaayi.. 

one time (last year summer lo) we planned a trip and were about to leave.. all of a sudden, my dad said he doesn’t want to come and that he will stay home and we can go.. he won’t say why.. he just said he doesn’t want to come, that’s it.. it took 2 hours of convincing him to make him come on the trip.. luckily it was a road trip and we had time.. 😄

neeedhi road trip a bro.. maaa mom aithe INDIA to US flight maaatho theesukodhaamu anukunnam so she wont be alone...dad meeru vellandi oka 1 month ayyada US vasthaanu annadu.. but mom I will come with you guys annandhii..sare ani ticket book chesam....flight night ante morning.. meeeru vellandi nenu raaaaanu ani... dad tho vasthaa ani annadhii.. sare ani ticket reschedule chesaam.. theeera reschedule ayyakka idhaaaru raaamu US ki annaruu same day flight departure.. em ayyindho emo mari.. nenu just OK ani airline ki call chesthe 40% vaaapas came...

I never force them to come.. 

[LungiLingaraju]

1 hour ago, elev said:

Bhayya recently I went to india and checked with my childhood friends, there problems are worst then what you mentioned here. 

Throw some light bro..

[Rushabhi]

It’s ok ikkada free ga vachina money mee parents vaadukunnaru. Mari half million geekanannav ga. 

[dasari4kntr]

1 hour ago, ramudu said:

Troll chesthunavaa bro , ayina parvaleee ikati cheputha ....

 

అన్నీ బంధాలు ఆర్థిక సంబధాలే అని కార్ల్ మార్క్స్ చెప్పాడు, so be prepared 

but he has the greatest love story....

[Deadp0ol2]

31 minutes ago, Rushabhi said:

It’s ok ikkada free ga vachina money mee parents vaadukunnaru. Mari half million geekanannav ga. 

Pls explain "ikkada free ga vachina money"?

[Abhagyudu]

1 hour ago, Deadp0ol2 said:

Pls explain "ikkada free ga vachina money"?

TS India velle mundhu credit cards anni geekesadu

[Peddayana]

3 hours ago, elev said:

Bhayya recently I went to india and checked with my childhood friends, there problems are worst then what you mentioned here. 

stories cheppu va, vini taristaru db sodharulu

[BommaliNinnodhala]

12 hours ago, BommaliNinnodhala said:

Troll yemundi man — you are well prepared mentally financially physically—  tips ivvu TS kastapadtunadu return lo — moral support give man 

@ramuducommonnnn gus gusaaaa — where is the moral support?

[Chinnatiger]

bro 10% istey settlementluuuu chesthammm  
make your D*ck hard not life  

chill avuuuu actress ni shopping cheyi india lo 

[FrustratedVuncle]

11 hours ago, Kalam_Youtheman said:

neeedhi road trip a bro.. maaa mom aithe INDIA to US flight maaatho theesukodhaamu anukunnam so she wont be alone...dad meeru vellandi oka 1 month ayyada US vasthaanu annadu.. but mom I will come with you guys annandhii..sare ani ticket book chesam....flight night ante morning.. meeeru vellandi nenu raaaaanu ani... dad tho vasthaa ani annadhii.. sare ani ticket reschedule chesaam.. theeera reschedule ayyakka idhaaaru raaamu US ki annaruu same day flight departure.. em ayyindho emo mari.. nenu just OK ani airline ki call chesthe 40% vaaapas came...

I never force them to come.. 

India lo nuvvu kani ne wife kani tongue slip ayyuntaru ani na yokka idhi