Yem cheyagalanu tirigi na money yela techukonu

[gnr]

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[csrcsr]

Endi anna ee threads 2009 lone 10lakhs I have ante baane migilinchav it's ok anna parents ke kada , bayata odu kadu kada chill bro be careful from.now on

[JavaBava]

4 minutes ago, gnr said:

I gave 10lakhs in 2009 to my parents..my dad put that in his  bank account.. prema ga ichaa.. interest vadukomani.. inka 2012 nunchi na property meda rents use cheskuntannaru 12k per month. Ippudu na money naku ivvu antante ninnu penchaam chadivincham.. na daggara yem levu.. nenu yem job cheyatledu .. nenu ivvanu antannaru ma amma, nanna iddaru.. naku inko brother untadu kinda intlo paina ma parents untaru.. bother ki high earning job kaadani na money vallaki ivvalani chudtannaru.. interest vaadukomani isthe naku asalu kuda lekunda chestannaru.. ademi ante memu chanipothe dubbulu petti urulo dinam cheyali kadaa andarni pilavali kada antannaru.. adi nenu na brother sagam sagam pettukuni chese aachaaralu.. danikisam na money mosam chesi vallu lenapudu jarige vatiki ippudu mosam chestaara.. matladithe nenu kastha sampadistaa ani na daggare teskuntam money.. vallu sampadinchina aasthulu anni ma annaya ki.. sontha parents ye ilaa mosam chestante badha ga undi.. yevartho cheppukovali artham avtledu.. ee nammaka droham thattukoleka pothanna..nenu sampadinchindi kuda ma anna family ki  Pettali anukuntam naku artham avtledu.. 

Naku yedina salaha ivvandi na money asalu vache daari unte cheppandi.. nenu vati meda interest valla life long ivadaniki ready ne.. vallaki expenses chuskotaniki kuda ready ne.. kaani naku asalu (10lkahs ) ma parents nunchi yela aina teskogalanaa.. nenu pampinattu bank statements unnayi.

14 years ga nene financial help chestanna okka rupee kuda ma annaya chudadu.. yepudina sambar, pappu, chutney, food aa roju cheskunnadi konchem pedtha untaru vallu parents ki..  (not regular)

Financial ga every month help chestanna kuda nakante ma annaya antene istam ga untannaru anna feel vachindi naku.. nenu last 16 years ga vere country lo untam valla yemo.. 

 

 

 

 

14 yrs nundi vere country lo untunnvante, 10 lacs does not seem to be huge amount of money to me. Neeku mee anna ki em godavalu unnayo naku telidu. If I were you, i will not loose my peace over this. Lesson learned and dont do that again. 

[gnr]

Badha ga undi brother sontha valle money daggara mosam chestante.. na whole life is a lie anipistandi.. 

[veerigadu]

10 lakhs kosam releation ship waste chesukookuuu li888. It’s not even worth it. Gisontiiii kirikiriluuu ladies yeee instigate sestharuuu most of the time. I’m not sure if it is the case in your situation. 
 

Your brother is there for them. He gives them sense of security. Your brother will take care of them in future too.
 

Nuvvu emo née selfish reasons ki vomericaaa 10ngesavvv gaaa. Inkaaa nyayammm sollu vaddhu anna please. Sorry if I’m harsh but you need a reality check. 
 

Don’t be petty bro. 

[rako]

8 minutes ago, gnr said:

I gave 10lakhs in 2009 to my parents..my dad put that in his  bank account.. prema ga ichaa.. interest vadukomani.. inka 2012 nunchi na property meda rents use cheskuntannaru 12k per month. Ippudu na money naku ivvu antante ninnu penchaam chadivincham.. na daggara yem levu.. nenu yem job cheyatledu .. nenu ivvanu antannaru ma amma, nanna iddaru.. naku inko brother untadu kinda intlo paina ma parents untaru.. bother ki high earning job kaadani na money vallaki ivvalani chudtannaru.. interest vaadukomani isthe naku asalu kuda lekunda chestannaru.. ademi ante memu chanipothe dubbulu petti urulo dinam cheyali kadaa andarni pilavali kada antannaru.. adi nenu na brother sagam sagam pettukuni chese aachaaralu.. danikisam na money mosam chesi vallu lenapudu jarige vatiki ippudu mosam chestaara.. matladithe nenu kastha sampadistaa ani na daggare teskuntam money.. vallu sampadinchina aasthulu anni ma annaya ki.. sontha parents ye ilaa mosam chestante badha ga undi.. yevartho cheppukovali artham avtledu.. ee nammaka droham thattukoleka pothanna..nenu sampadinchindi kuda ma anna family ki  Pettali anukuntam naku artham avtledu.. 

Naku yedina salaha ivvandi na money asalu vache daari unte cheppandi.. nenu vati meda interest valla life long ivadaniki ready ne.. vallaki expenses chuskotaniki kuda ready ne.. kaani naku asalu (10lkahs ) ma parents nunchi yela aina teskogalanaa.. nenu pampinattu bank statements unnayi.

14 years ga nene financial help chestanna okka rupee kuda ma annaya chudadu.. yepudina sambar, pappu, chutney, food aa roju cheskunnadi konchem pedtha untaru vallu parents ki..  (not regular)

Financial ga every month help chestanna kuda nakante ma annaya antene istam ga untannaru anna feel vachindi naku.. nenu last 16 years ga vere country lo untam valla yemo.. 

 

 

 

 

I am very blessed, never had such discussion with parents. and, it sounds like "well cooked" story 

[gnr]

Just now, JavaBava said:

14 yrs nundi vere country lo untunnvante, 10 lacs does not seem to be huge amount of money to me. Neeku mee anna ki em godavalu unnayo naku telidu. If I were you, i will not loose my peace over this. Lesson learned and dont do that again. 

Avnu brother its not a big amount.. but nenu own parents chethilo mosapivadam .. chethagani vadila untam naku inka badha anipistandi.. lokam lo parents ye money ki ilaa chestante inkevarni nammali anipistandi.. 

[KothaKurrodu]

9 minutes ago, gnr said:

I gave 10lakhs in 2009 to my parents..my dad put that in his  bank account.. prema ga ichaa.. interest vadukomani.. inka 2012 nunchi na property meda rents use cheskuntannaru 12k per month. Ippudu na money naku ivvu antante ninnu penchaam chadivincham.. na daggara yem levu.. nenu yem job cheyatledu .. nenu ivvanu antannaru ma amma, nanna iddaru.. naku inko brother untadu kinda intlo paina ma parents untaru.. bother ki high earning job kaadani na money vallaki ivvalani chudtannaru.. interest vaadukomani isthe naku asalu kuda lekunda chestannaru.. ademi ante memu chanipothe dubbulu petti urulo dinam cheyali kadaa andarni pilavali kada antannaru.. adi nenu na brother sagam sagam pettukuni chese aachaaralu.. danikisam na money mosam chesi vallu lenapudu jarige vatiki ippudu mosam chestaara.. matladithe nenu kastha sampadistaa ani na daggare teskuntam money.. vallu sampadinchina aasthulu anni ma annaya ki.. sontha parents ye ilaa mosam chestante badha ga undi.. yevartho cheppukovali artham avtledu.. ee nammaka droham thattukoleka pothanna..nenu sampadinchindi kuda ma anna family ki  Pettali anukuntam naku artham avtledu.. 

Naku yedina salaha ivvandi na money asalu vache daari unte cheppandi.. nenu vati meda interest valla life long ivadaniki ready ne.. vallaki expenses chuskotaniki kuda ready ne.. kaani naku asalu (10lkahs ) ma parents nunchi yela aina teskogalanaa.. nenu pampinattu bank statements unnayi.

14 years ga nene financial help chestanna okka rupee kuda ma annaya chudadu.. yepudina sambar, pappu, chutney, food aa roju cheskunnadi konchem pedtha untaru vallu parents ki..  (not regular)

Financial ga every month help chestanna kuda nakante ma annaya antene istam ga untannaru anna feel vachindi naku.. nenu last 16 years ga vere country lo untam valla yemo.. 

 

 

 

 

Move on bro. Adhe think chesthu unte you will never be happy. I personally had similar situation with my parents. Leave that 10lakhs and be happy

[veerigadu]

3 minutes ago, gnr said:

Badha ga undi brother sontha valle money daggara mosam chestante.. na whole life is a lie anipistandi.. 

mosam emundhi. May be your brother plays victim card that he is not making enough money as you do blah blah. Parents always side with kids who play victim card. 

[Tenali]

@gnr it would be easy for others to say move on..ichindi parents ke kada...make your mind and move on..dont get too attached to that.. focus on health and learn to let go things.. if you are not financially independent then its a different scenario..but if you are financially good, just move on. Dont trouble your mind anymore on this topic..

[FaskRaja]

5 minutes ago, gnr said:

I gave 10lakhs in 2009 to my parents..my dad put that in his  bank account.. prema ga ichaa.. interest vadukomani.. inka 2012 nunchi na property meda rents use cheskuntannaru 12k per month. Ippudu na money naku ivvu antante ninnu penchaam chadivincham.. na daggara yem levu.. nenu yem job cheyatledu .. nenu ivvanu antannaru ma amma, nanna iddaru.. naku inko brother untadu kinda intlo paina ma parents untaru.. bother ki high earning job kaadani na money vallaki ivvalani chudtannaru.. interest vaadukomani isthe naku asalu kuda lekunda chestannaru.. ademi ante memu chanipothe dubbulu petti urulo dinam cheyali kadaa andarni pilavali kada antannaru.. adi nenu na brother sagam sagam pettukuni chese aachaaralu.. danikisam na money mosam chesi vallu lenapudu jarige vatiki ippudu mosam chestaara.. matladithe nenu kastha sampadistaa ani na daggare teskuntam money.. vallu sampadinchina aasthulu anni ma annaya ki.. sontha parents ye ilaa mosam chestante badha ga undi.. yevartho cheppukovali artham avtledu.. ee nammaka droham thattukoleka pothanna..nenu sampadinchindi kuda ma anna family ki  Pettali anukuntam naku artham avtledu.. 

Naku yedina salaha ivvandi na money asalu vache daari unte cheppandi.. nenu vati meda interest valla life long ivadaniki ready ne.. vallaki expenses chuskotaniki kuda ready ne.. kaani naku asalu (10lkahs ) ma parents nunchi yela aina teskogalanaa.. nenu pampinattu bank statements unnayi.

14 years ga nene financial help chestanna okka rupee kuda ma annaya chudadu.. yepudina sambar, pappu, chutney, food aa roju cheskunnadi konchem pedtha untaru vallu parents ki..  (not regular)

Financial ga every month help chestanna kuda nakante ma annaya antene istam ga untannaru anna feel vachindi naku.. nenu last 16 years ga vere country lo untam valla yemo.. 

 

 

 

 

Bro firstly are u serious?? 
 

parents ki prema ga icha ani cheppi.. malli intrest vadukomani antunav!! Not correct bro.. once u gave to them its there money..they can do whatever they can with that..  nuvvee ichindachu but ichaka parents nunchi expect cheykudadu…

 

Its your responsibility to take care and dont compare by brother is not giving anything.. i am not asking to give to your brother but u have to support your parents. Epudo oka sari kalisuthav roju chuse koduku meeda ne love ekkuva untadi and nammakam untundi. (Dont get me wrong) thats the truth.
 

10L ee kada kasta padi malli save chesko no need to worry about it.. life is short and parents are valuable. Once u loose them u will know the value..  to say this.. u have to change.. 

[gnr]

1 minute ago, veerigadu said:

10 lakhs kosam releation ship waste chesukookuuu li888. It’s not even worth it. Gisontiiii kirikiriluuu ladies yeee instigate sestharuuu most of the time. I’m not sure if it is the case in your situation. 
 

Your brother is there for them. He gives them sense of security. Your brother will take care of them in future too.
 

Nuvvu emo née selfish reasons ki vomericaaa 10ngesavvv gaaa. Inkaaa nyayammm sollu vaddhu anna please. Sorry if I’m harsh but you need a reality check. 
 

Don’t be petty bro. 

Avnu anna adi chinna amount ye naku.. kani naku ee dabbulu gurinchi ma parents tho discussion jarigaka malli na phones kuda lift cheyatledu.. inka yem relation migili undi ..

Na wife house wife anna.. na money matters lo asalu thala durchadu bro.. 

[phatposts]

Feel bad for you. This is one of those situations where I say - pick your battles. What your parents are saying is not right. Eee money kosam relation teggottesukovadam koda right kaadu. Ippudu ee disco heat tagginchi - next time India poyinappudu lighter note lo mee brother & parents mundu what happened ani disclose chesi vadileyyi. Again no expectations, no warnings nothing. 

Moving forward set clear boundaries financially. Baaga avasaram aithe help them, leka pothe do your thing. 

I am very glad I do not have to go through this. In the past my dad did some stupid decisions and I faced the burnt end, first lo nenu sarigga handle cheyyaledu - lack of experience, manchitanam, parents tho ala ela untam ani think cheyyadam valla. Tarvata tarvata kaasta style maarchanu - over time set ayyindi. Again, my parents never touch my money without telling or mentioning. 

[gnr]

2 minutes ago, veerigadu said:

mosam emundhi. May be your brother plays victim card that he is not making enough money as you do blah blah. Parents always side with kids who play victim card. 

Avnu bro.. ma anna family financial issues chustaa unnaru daggara nunchi ma parents.. ma annaya financial help cheyakapoina parvaledu anukuntaru ma parents..

 

[JavaBava]

Bro we idolize our parents a lot .. love affection sollu ani when we are growing up .. in the end they are also human and now when we are adults, we come to see they are as good/bad as every other human. They have their faults, their insecurities, their own stubbornness. Inka chadastam ekkuva avutundi. Thats something new to us to see in people who we think are selfless. Adjust to that reality. Do what you have to as per the responsibility bible, and live your life.