Yem cheyagalanu tirigi na money yela techukonu

[reality]

@veerigadu correst cheppadu vaa… selfish reasons kosam vamerica dengesina manaku parents gurinchi matlade arhatha ledhu..

[gnr]

8 minutes ago, Tenali said:

@gnr it would be easy for others to say move on..ichindi parents ke kada...make your mind and move on..dont get too attached to that.. focus on health and learn to let go things.. if you are not financially independent then its a different scenario..but if you are financially good, just move on. Dont trouble your mind anymore on this topic.

Naku money kante mosapoya na parents chethilo ane badha yekuva undi brother.. na alochana correct aa kadaa ani ikkada post vesaa salaha ki

[sarvayogi]

golden rule : 

If one kid in US and one kid in india with parents...parents are always attached to the kid with them as they do emotional drama

parents are also like deggara unna son/daughter is more important than akkada ekkado undi 2 years ki vacche kid kanna

[gnr]

3 minutes ago, reality said:

@veerigadu correst cheppadu vaa… selfish reasons kosam vamerica dengesina manaku parents gurinchi matlade arhatha ledhu..

Alaa vachaa ane ma parents ki monthly financial ga ye problem undakudadu ani interest tinamannaa.. 

[gnr]

3 minutes ago, sarvayogi said:

golden rule : 

If one kid in US and one kid in india with parents...parents are always attached to the kid with them as they do emotional drama

parents are also like deggara unna son/daughter is more important than akkada ekkado undi 2 years ki vacche kid kanna

Ade jarigindi bro na vishayam lo... 

[reality]

12 minutes ago, gnr said:

Avnu anna adi chinna amount ye naku.. kani naku ee dabbulu gurinchi ma parents tho discussion jarigaka malli na phones kuda lift cheyatledu.. inka yem relation migili undi ..

Na wife house wife anna.. na money matters lo asalu thala durchadu bro.. 

money return adiginanduku feel ayyaremo… don’t deal with phone calls… go meet in person and tell them you also got hurt with the way they took this matter… Until you express your pain, they always be in self pity mode… 

[gnr]

14 minutes ago, FaskRaja said:

Bro firstly are u serious?? 
 

parents ki prema ga icha ani cheppi.. malli intrest vadukomani antunav!! Not correct bro.. once u gave to them its there money..they can do whatever they can with that..  nuvvee ichindachu but ichaka parents nunchi expect cheykudadu…

 

Its your responsibility to take care and dont compare by brother is not giving anything.. i am not asking to give to your brother but u have to support your parents. Epudo oka sari kalisuthav roju chuse koduku meeda ne love ekkuva untadi and nammakam untundi. (Dont get me wrong) thats the truth.
 

10L ee kada kasta padi malli save chesko no need to worry about it.. life is short and parents are valuable. Once u loose them u will know the value..  to say this.. u have to change.. 

Nenu na life lo value ichindi yevarina unte na parents ye brother.. 

[Original Profile]

25 minutes ago, gnr said:

I gave 10lakhs in 2009 to my parents..my dad put that in his  bank account.. prema ga ichaa.. interest vadukomani.. inka 2012 nunchi na property meda rents use cheskuntannaru 12k per month. Ippudu na money naku ivvu antante ninnu penchaam chadivincham.. na daggara yem levu.. nenu yem job cheyatledu .. nenu ivvanu antannaru ma amma, nanna iddaru.. naku inko brother untadu kinda intlo paina ma parents untaru.. bother ki high earning job kaadani na money vallaki ivvalani chudtannaru.. interest vaadukomani isthe naku asalu kuda lekunda chestannaru.. ademi ante memu chanipothe dubbulu petti urulo dinam cheyali kadaa andarni pilavali kada antannaru.. adi nenu na brother sagam sagam pettukuni chese aachaaralu.. danikisam na money mosam chesi vallu lenapudu jarige vatiki ippudu mosam chestaara.. matladithe nenu kastha sampadistaa ani na daggare teskuntam money.. vallu sampadinchina aasthulu anni ma annaya ki.. sontha parents ye ilaa mosam chestante badha ga undi.. yevartho cheppukovali artham avtledu.. ee nammaka droham thattukoleka pothanna..nenu sampadinchindi kuda ma anna family ki  Pettali anukuntam naku artham avtledu.. 

Naku yedina salaha ivvandi na money asalu vache daari unte cheppandi.. nenu vati meda interest valla life long ivadaniki ready ne.. vallaki expenses chuskotaniki kuda ready ne.. kaani naku asalu (10lkahs ) ma parents nunchi yela aina teskogalanaa.. nenu pampinattu bank statements unnayi.

14 years ga nene financial help chestanna okka rupee kuda ma annaya chudadu.. yepudina sambar, pappu, chutney, food aa roju cheskunnadi konchem pedtha untaru vallu parents ki..  (not regular)

Financial ga every month help chestanna kuda nakante ma annaya antene istam ga untannaru anna feel vachindi naku.. nenu last 16 years ga vere country lo untam valla yemo.. 

 

 

 

 

Na friends and relatives money return ivvakapotey ne vadilesa. Sarley relation pogottukovaddu ani. Appati nunchi icchina money malli raavu ani fix ayyi istunna and honestly vallu kuda evvaru return ivvatledu. India lo life Antha debts meedha nadustondhi for middle and lower middle class.

alantidhi parents ke ga icchindhi anuko. Vallatho manchi ga ne matladu. Small life. Vallu future lo lenappudu you will regret 10L kosam anavasaram ga godava pettukunna appatlo ani. I love my parents to the core. 10L enti…I’ll bet my entire property or my life for my parents if needed.

[gnr]

2 minutes ago, reality said:

money return adiginanduku feel ayyaremo… don’t deal with phone calls… go meet in person and tell them you also got hurt with the way they took this matter… Until you express your pain, they always be in self pity mode… 

Ma intiki ravadaniki velledu annaru bro.. ee june lo na India trip undi.. na phones kuda tiyyatledu nenu dabbulu adigina tarvatha numchi.. ee illu annaya di nuvvu ravaddu ani cheppesaru.. 

[Ravi860]

Bro.. mosam ani feel avvaku. Akkade start outhundi.. just think this as your responsibility and now that you know how they are responding to you in situations like this. Baga need unnapudu help cheye thappu ledu Enthaina vallu ne parents. Think this as a lesson too and be cautious when sending big amounts, tarvatha lakkoleka pekkoleka chavali huge amounts ayithe. 

[gnr]

1 minute ago, Original Profile said:

Na friends and relatives money return ivvakapotey ne vadilesa. Sarley relation pogottukovaddu ani. Appati nunchi icchina money malli raavu ani fix ayyi istunna and honestly vallu kuda evvaru return ivvatledu. India lo life Antha debts meedha nadustondhi for middle and lower middle class.

alantidhi parents ke ga icchindhi anuko. Vallatho manchi ga ne matladu. Small life. Vallu future lo lenappudu you will regret 10L kosam anavasaram ga godava pettukunna appatlo ani. I love my parents to the core. 10L enti…I’ll bet my entire property or my life for my parents if needed.

Aa last sentence lo nuvvu cheppinde nenu kuda na life antha ippati varaku anukunna brother.. dabbulu daggara relations thana mana undadhani few days back ye telisi vachindi .. hard lesson learnt

[gnr]

Just now, Ravi860 said:

Bro.. mosam ani feel avvaku. Akkade start outhundi.. just think this as your responsibility and now that you know how they are responding to you in situations like this. Baga need unnapudu help cheye thappu ledu Enthaina vallu ne parents. Think this as a lesson too and be cautious when we sending big amounts, tarvatha lakkoleka pekkolaga chavali huge amounts ayithe. 

Nenu ippatiki monthly maintenance ki ivadaniki ready unnaa brother.. ilaa na money parents bank account lo unchakunda na account lo veyamani ante ivvanu ani. Phone lo ante shock aipoya

[Ravi860]

Just now, gnr said:

Nenu ippatiki monthly maintenance ki ivadaniki ready unnaa brother.. ilaa na money parents bank account lo unchakunda na account lo veyamani ante ivvanu ani. Phone lo ante shock aipoya

I understand.. ne meedha prema thaggindhani feel outhunnav. Try to be normal with them and see. Time will heal. Be careful from now on. 

[Pandubabu]

31 minutes ago, veerigadu said:

10 lakhs kosam releation ship waste chesukookuuu li888. It’s not even worth it. Gisontiiii kirikiriluuu ladies yeee instigate sestharuuu most of the time. I’m not sure if it is the case in your situation. 
 

Your brother is there for them. He gives them sense of security. Your brother will take care of them in future too.
 

Nuvvu emo née selfish reasons ki vomericaaa 10ngesavvv gaaa. Inkaaa nyayammm sollu vaddhu anna please. Sorry if I’m harsh but you need a reality check. 
 

Don’t be petty bro. 

This..

[veerigadu]

14 minutes ago, reality said:

money return adiginanduku feel ayyaremo… don’t deal with phone calls… go meet in person and tell them you also got hurt with the way they took this matter… Until you express your pain, they always be in self pity mode… 

Definitely. Phone lo adagalsina matter kaneee kadhuuu idhiii. Adigi undalsindhi kadhu while they are still alive. May be emotional ga hurt ayyaremooo and feel insulted. 

Anyways  vayya TS. Take it easy if you can