Yem cheyagalanu tirigi na money yela techukonu

[Funkops]

1 hour ago, gnr said:

I gave 10lakhs in 2009 to my parents..my dad put that in his  bank account.. prema ga ichaa.. interest vadukomani.. inka 2012 nunchi na property meda rents use cheskuntannaru 12k per month. Ippudu na money naku ivvu antante ninnu penchaam chadivincham.. na daggara yem levu.. nenu yem job cheyatledu .. nenu ivvanu antannaru ma amma, nanna iddaru.. naku inko brother untadu kinda intlo paina ma parents untaru.. bother ki high earning job kaadani na money vallaki ivvalani chudtannaru.. interest vaadukomani isthe naku asalu kuda lekunda chestannaru.. ademi ante memu chanipothe dubbulu petti urulo dinam cheyali kadaa andarni pilavali kada antannaru.. adi nenu na brother sagam sagam pettukuni chese aachaaralu.. danikisam na money mosam chesi vallu lenapudu jarige vatiki ippudu mosam chestaara.. matladithe nenu kastha sampadistaa ani na daggare teskuntam money.. vallu sampadinchina aasthulu anni ma annaya ki.. sontha parents ye ilaa mosam chestante badha ga undi.. yevartho cheppukovali artham avtledu.. ee nammaka droham thattukoleka pothanna..nenu sampadinchindi kuda ma anna family ki  Pettali anukuntam naku artham avtledu.. 

Naku yedina salaha ivvandi na money asalu vache daari unte cheppandi.. nenu vati meda interest valla life long ivadaniki ready ne.. vallaki expenses chuskotaniki kuda ready ne.. kaani naku asalu (10lkahs ) ma parents nunchi yela aina teskogalanaa.. nenu pampinattu bank statements unnayi.

14 years ga nene financial help chestanna okka rupee kuda ma annaya chudadu.. yepudina sambar, pappu, chutney, food aa roju cheskunnadi konchem pedtha untaru vallu parents ki..  (not regular)

Financial ga every month help chestanna kuda nakante ma annaya antene istam ga untannaru anna feel vachindi naku.. nenu last 16 years ga vere country lo untam valla yemo.. 

 

 

 

❤️ke ⚽️

[BulletBaskar]

54 minutes ago, gnr said:

Naku money kante mosapoya na parents chethilo ane badha yekuva undi brother.. na alochana correct aa kadaa ani ikkada post vesaa salaha ki

mosapoya mosapoya ani ginjukuntunnav....endi va nee racha.
take it easy

[Thokkalee]

Seriously?? You are fighting with them For 10 lakhs and losing your peace of mind and also making them suffer?? 
Your brother is there for them in person and he has more attachment towards them while you go once every year or two years..

old age lo chala insecurities untaayi vaa.. what if they don’t have money if they get sick, what if one of them dies, what if you both don’t take care of them.. what if I have to ask my kids money every month for maintenance or medicines.. etc etc.  So if they want to keep that money for their own financial security? 
If you both are fighting now about money for such a small amount, what is the guarantee that you will spend when they die? You both might even fight then.. 

 

Mosam is too big a word in your case.. 

[gnr]

10 minutes ago, veerigadu said:

2009 lo 10 lakhs icchaduuu anteee. If you extrapolate this, Minimum 2006-07 lo ayinaaa vomerica vacchi untaduuu mana TS.

2007 bro.. 

[gnr]

4 minutes ago, Thokkalee said:

Seriously?? You are fighting with them For 10 lakhs and losing your peace of mind and also making them suffer?? 
Your brother is there for them in person and he has more attachment towards them while you go once every year or two years..

old age lo chala insecurities untaayi vaa.. what if they don’t have money if they get sick, what if one of them dies, what if you both don’t take care of them.. what if I have to ask my kids money every month for maintenance or medicines.. etc etc.  So if they want to keep that money for their own financial security? 
If you both are fighting now about money for such a small amount, what is the guarantee that you will spend when they die? You both might even fight then.. 

 

Mosam is too big a word in your case.. 

Nenu na life lo parents ki ichina importance ki na badha ade word pick cheskundi bro mosapoya ani.. 

[Thokkalee]

8 minutes ago, gnr said:

Nenu na life lo parents ki ichina importance ki na badha ade word pick cheskundi bro mosapoya ani.. 

very simple bro.. aa money ichhinapudu ni family lo nuvvu, ni parents unnaru.. you didn’t think that you are loaning money to them. They also didn’t think that way… 

now your family consists of your wife and kids.. your parents are an extended family now.. and you think whatever you gave them before has to be given back.. 

Let me ask you this.. would you have asked your father to give the money back if you have a sister instead of a brother? 

[ARYA]

37 minutes ago, psycopk said:

 

2009 nundi US lo doinchukoni... 10lk kosam ipatike baga lagav... inka apeyi.. nee yedava sodi... yes nuvvu nijam ga yedave

manchi content writers ni hire chesinattu unnav ga samara  

[jerry1]

1 hour ago, veerigadu said:

mosam emundhi. May be your brother plays victim card that he is not making enough money as you do blah blah. Parents always side with kids who play victim card. 

same case I am also seeing...parents tend to support those who play victim card ..thats true

[sarfaroshi]

1 hour ago, gnr said:

I gave 10lakhs in 2009 to my parents..my dad put that in his  bank account.. prema ga ichaa.. interest vadukomani.. inka 2012 nunchi na property meda rents use cheskuntannaru 12k per month. Ippudu na money naku ivvu antante ninnu penchaam chadivincham.. na daggara yem levu.. nenu yem job cheyatledu .. nenu ivvanu antannaru ma amma, nanna iddaru.. naku inko brother untadu kinda intlo paina ma parents untaru.. bother ki high earning job kaadani na money vallaki ivvalani chudtannaru.. interest vaadukomani isthe naku asalu kuda lekunda chestannaru.. ademi ante memu chanipothe dubbulu petti urulo dinam cheyali kadaa andarni pilavali kada antannaru.. adi nenu na brother sagam sagam pettukuni chese aachaaralu.. danikisam na money mosam chesi vallu lenapudu jarige vatiki ippudu mosam chestaara.. matladithe nenu kastha sampadistaa ani na daggare teskuntam money.. vallu sampadinchina aasthulu anni ma annaya ki.. sontha parents ye ilaa mosam chestante badha ga undi.. yevartho cheppukovali artham avtledu.. ee nammaka droham thattukoleka pothanna..nenu sampadinchindi kuda ma anna family ki  Pettali anukuntam naku artham avtledu.. 

Naku yedina salaha ivvandi na money asalu vache daari unte cheppandi.. nenu vati meda interest valla life long ivadaniki ready ne.. vallaki expenses chuskotaniki kuda ready ne.. kaani naku asalu (10lkahs ) ma parents nunchi yela aina teskogalanaa.. nenu pampinattu bank statements unnayi.

14 years ga nene financial help chestanna okka rupee kuda ma annaya chudadu.. yepudina sambar, pappu, chutney, food aa roju cheskunnadi konchem pedtha untaru vallu parents ki..  (not regular)

Financial ga every month help chestanna kuda nakante ma annaya antene istam ga untannaru anna feel vachindi naku.. nenu last 16 years ga vere country lo untam valla yemo.. 

 

 

 

 

Arey fake id ithe ok...

Real ga 10 lakhs kosam parents meeda edustunav ante.... Voww

Nenu naa pelli ki cousins ki tickets konte 12 lakhs iynayi ra....em manushula ra meeru 150-160K packageilu ostunay kada antha kakruthi enduku

[gnr]

2 minutes ago, sarfaroshi said:

Arey fake id ithe ok...

Real ga 10 lakhs kosam parents meeda edustunav ante.... Voww

Nenu naa pelli ki cousins ki tickets konte 12 lakhs iynayi ra....em manushula ra meeru 150-160K packageilu ostunay kada antha kakruthi enduku

Ma chinnapudu nunchi prathi paisa chusi chusi vadevallam brother.. memu below middle class annattu.. 

[jerry1]

1 hour ago, Brahmachari said:

I also faced similar problems bro…lost 25lakhs to my sibling. Naa mistake kuda undi, transferring money whenever they ask  without enquiring the need. Anyway parents tho discussion lo kuda they were favouring my sibling as they are not financially sound ani. 
okate realize ayya, ee age lo they need emotional support more than financial support. I can only provide financial support so, I continue to do that and visit India every 2-3 yrs. Talk with parents every wknd and life is good. Too much sentiments/attachments cause misery. 

sibling uses parent sentiment and loots sibling living abroad. There are parents , who wish their one of their children lives in usa. They want to fulfill materialistic dreams like houses, properties, jewelleries through NRI bakra son, here am not generalizing parents but there are few such parents.  Selfishness Kosam usa vacham anedi acceptable kadu. Only son case is different but when they have many kids like more than 2 case is different

[reality]

37 minutes ago, sarfaroshi said:

Arey fake id ithe ok...

Real ga 10 lakhs kosam parents meeda edustunav ante.... Voww

Nenu naa pelli ki cousins ki tickets konte 12 lakhs iynayi ra....em manushula ra meeru 150-160K packageilu ostunay kada antha kakruthi enduku

I think ikkada matter money kadhu… as many are misinterpreting and judging this guy…. But, the indifference they are showing.

[killerspin]

50 minutes ago, gnr said:

Ma chinnapudu nunchi prathi paisa chusi chusi vadevallam brother.. memu below middle class annattu.. 

Edichav. 90% middle vlass nundi vachina vallame le. Nenu US lo unta same 2007 batch anna india lo untadu. Maa anna and mother assalu maku em vaddu antaru still I built them house and maa amma ki poyinappudalla gold konista. Evariki pettav bro mee intlo vallake kada. It gives sense of happiness to see people around you better..nuvvu okkadive pachaga unte pakka nollu lite ante nee 10L neeku istaru nee life miserable ayipotadi..you should keep an eye on people around you bro. Dont act like kid

[ARYA]

57 minutes ago, sarfaroshi said:

Arey fake id ithe ok...

Real ga 10 lakhs kosam parents meeda edustunav ante.... Voww

Nenu naa pelli ki cousins ki tickets konte 12 lakhs iynayi ra....em manushula ra meeru 150-160K packageilu ostunay kada antha kakruthi enduku

last yr ee 10 cr cash down petti ma @csrcsr anna valla parents ki apartments konnadu anta..ayanee ma inspiration antunna @Sucker 

[Rushabhi]

Nee money nee daggara undali anukunte nee peru meedha unna account ki transfer chesukovalsindi. And vachina interest vaalla bank account ki transfer pettalsindi like every year. Or ichinappati nunche you could have been very specific that it is your money ani. Sudden ga inni years tarvatha adigithe Konchem cheap anipisthondi ee laagudu  peekudu vyavaharam. Mee parents place lo nenu unna alane react avuthanemo