Yem cheyagalanu tirigi na money yela techukonu

[Bendapudi_english]

4 hours ago, gnr said:

I gave 10lakhs in 2009 to my parents..my dad put that in his  bank account.. prema ga ichaa.. interest vadukomani.. inka 2012 nunchi na property meda rents use cheskuntannaru 12k per month. Ippudu na money naku ivvu antante ninnu penchaam chadivincham.. na daggara yem levu.. nenu yem job cheyatledu .. nenu ivvanu antannaru ma amma, nanna iddaru.. naku inko brother untadu kinda intlo paina ma parents untaru.. bother ki high earning job kaadani na money vallaki ivvalani chudtannaru.. interest vaadukomani isthe naku asalu kuda lekunda chestannaru.. ademi ante memu chanipothe dubbulu petti urulo dinam cheyali kadaa andarni pilavali kada antannaru.. adi nenu na brother sagam sagam pettukuni chese aachaaralu.. danikisam na money mosam chesi vallu lenapudu jarige vatiki ippudu mosam chestaara.. matladithe nenu kastha sampadistaa ani na daggare teskuntam money.. vallu sampadinchina aasthulu anni ma annaya ki.. sontha parents ye ilaa mosam chestante badha ga undi.. yevartho cheppukovali artham avtledu.. ee nammaka droham thattukoleka pothanna..nenu sampadinchindi kuda ma anna family ki  Pettali anukuntam naku artham avtledu.. 

Naku yedina salaha ivvandi na money asalu vache daari unte cheppandi.. nenu vati meda interest valla life long ivadaniki ready ne.. vallaki expenses chuskotaniki kuda ready ne.. kaani naku asalu (10lkahs ) ma parents nunchi yela aina teskogalanaa.. nenu pampinattu bank statements unnayi.

14 years ga nene financial help chestanna okka rupee kuda ma annaya chudadu.. yepudina sambar, pappu, chutney, food aa roju cheskunnadi konchem pedtha untaru vallu parents ki..  (not regular)

Financial ga every month help chestanna kuda nakante ma annaya antene istam ga untannaru anna feel vachindi naku.. nenu last 16 years ga vere country lo untam valla yemo.. 

 

 

 

 

10 lakhs ee kadha anna, adhi kuda parents ke ichav kadha, going forward emi money pampaku. 

[jerry1]

4 minutes ago, gnr said:

Ade ayindi brother last year ma annaya koduku panchalu iste gold chain gift istante money isthe vallaki use avtadi ani parents involvement.. nenu yem chadivimpulu cheyalo kuda valle decide chestaru.. expectations ki thaggithe malli godavalu

nuvu pedatav gifts  kaani vallu pedatara neeku gifts

[AddomPVK]

4 hours ago, gnr said:

I gave 10lakhs in 2009 to my parents..my dad put that in his  bank account.. prema ga ichaa.. interest vadukomani.. inka 2012 nunchi na property meda rents use cheskuntannaru 12k per month. Ippudu na money naku ivvu antante ninnu penchaam chadivincham.. na daggara yem levu.. nenu yem job cheyatledu .. nenu ivvanu antannaru ma amma, nanna iddaru.. naku inko brother untadu kinda intlo paina ma parents untaru.. bother ki high earning job kaadani na money vallaki ivvalani chudtannaru.. interest vaadukomani isthe naku asalu kuda lekunda chestannaru.. ademi ante memu chanipothe dubbulu petti urulo dinam cheyali kadaa andarni pilavali kada antannaru.. adi nenu na brother sagam sagam pettukuni chese aachaaralu.. danikisam na money mosam chesi vallu lenapudu jarige vatiki ippudu mosam chestaara.. matladithe nenu kastha sampadistaa ani na daggare teskuntam money.. vallu sampadinchina aasthulu anni ma annaya ki.. sontha parents ye ilaa mosam chestante badha ga undi.. yevartho cheppukovali artham avtledu.. ee nammaka droham thattukoleka pothanna..nenu sampadinchindi kuda ma anna family ki  Pettali anukuntam naku artham avtledu.. 

Naku yedina salaha ivvandi na money asalu vache daari unte cheppandi.. nenu vati meda interest valla life long ivadaniki ready ne.. vallaki expenses chuskotaniki kuda ready ne.. kaani naku asalu (10lkahs ) ma parents nunchi yela aina teskogalanaa.. nenu pampinattu bank statements unnayi.

14 years ga nene financial help chestanna okka rupee kuda ma annaya chudadu.. yepudina sambar, pappu, chutney, food aa roju cheskunnadi konchem pedtha untaru vallu parents ki..  (not regular)

Financial ga every month help chestanna kuda nakante ma annaya antene istam ga untannaru anna feel vachindi naku.. nenu last 16 years ga vere country lo untam valla yemo.. 

 

 

 

 

Last line makes lot of impact to our lives. That’s the advantage for them. Many are facing this issue. Whoever stay with them they are the best. They take money but don’t recognize our hard work what we earned that money. But if you ask me, it’s not their mistake aswell, not many Indian parents are broad minded, they feel insecure if no one next to them, hence they treat whoever next to them as best. No solution to it. Ultimately they are parents, have to go talk to them stay with them to rebuild that connect required. 

[gnr]

Just now, Bendapudi_english said:

10 lakhs ee kadha anna, adhi kuda parents ke ichav kadha, going forward emi money pampaku. 

Anukuntanna bro alane mari inka avsaram ki ivali thappa avsaram lekunda valla bank accounts ki money transfer cheyakudadu ani

[gnr]

7 minutes ago, jerry1 said:

nuvu pedatav gifts  kaani vallu pedatara neeku gifts

Naku kuda 2 pillalu unnaru.. iddariki kalipi 4000 icharu ba dresses konamani.. vallu money munde ichestaru nachinavi konukko ani..nannu matram shop ki teskelli nachinavi konali antaru.. ma amma antadi konchem atu itu avthayi nuvvu pettalanukunna rate ke yela vastayi antaru.. yenthaina credit card pedtaa ani aasistaru

[argadorn]

2 minutes ago, gnr said:

Naku kuda 2 pillalu unnaru.. iddariki kalipi 4000 icharu ba dresses konamani.. 

enti man ne racha comedy chesthunavu kadha 4000 echindhi valla sthomatha tho 

16 years nunchi untunavu one month salary poyindhi anuko vayya 

congratlations mods @psycopk thread is hot ga unchadu athanu writers enka depth kavali badha tho hire @Raazu @vampire they will also contribute 

[quickgun_murugun]

4 hours ago, gnr said:

I gave 10lakhs in 2009 to my parents..my dad put that in his  bank account.. prema ga ichaa.. interest vadukomani.. inka 2012 nunchi na property meda rents use cheskuntannaru 12k per month. Ippudu na money naku ivvu antante ninnu penchaam chadivincham.. na daggara yem levu.. nenu yem job cheyatledu .. nenu ivvanu antannaru ma amma, nanna iddaru.. naku inko brother untadu kinda intlo paina ma parents untaru.. bother ki high earning job kaadani na money vallaki ivvalani chudtannaru.. interest vaadukomani isthe naku asalu kuda lekunda chestannaru.. ademi ante memu chanipothe dubbulu petti urulo dinam cheyali kadaa andarni pilavali kada antannaru.. adi nenu na brother sagam sagam pettukuni chese aachaaralu.. danikisam na money mosam chesi vallu lenapudu jarige vatiki ippudu mosam chestaara.. matladithe nenu kastha sampadistaa ani na daggare teskuntam money.. vallu sampadinchina aasthulu anni ma annaya ki.. sontha parents ye ilaa mosam chestante badha ga undi.. yevartho cheppukovali artham avtledu.. ee nammaka droham thattukoleka pothanna..nenu sampadinchindi kuda ma anna family ki  Pettali anukuntam naku artham avtledu.. 

Naku yedina salaha ivvandi na money asalu vache daari unte cheppandi.. nenu vati meda interest valla life long ivadaniki ready ne.. vallaki expenses chuskotaniki kuda ready ne.. kaani naku asalu (10lkahs ) ma parents nunchi yela aina teskogalanaa.. nenu pampinattu bank statements unnayi.

14 years ga nene financial help chestanna okka rupee kuda ma annaya chudadu.. yepudina sambar, pappu, chutney, food aa roju cheskunnadi konchem pedtha untaru vallu parents ki..  (not regular)

Financial ga every month help chestanna kuda nakante ma annaya antene istam ga untannaru anna feel vachindi naku.. nenu last 16 years ga vere country lo untam valla yemo.. 

 

 

 

 

best answer ! From @csrcsr

 Endi anna ee threads 2009 lone 10lakhs I have ante baane migilinchav it's ok anna parents ke kada , bayata odu kadu kada chill bro be careful from.now on

[gnr]

Just now, quickgun_murugun said:

best answer ! From @csrcsr

 Endi anna ee threads 2009 lone 10lakhs I have ante baane migilinchav it's ok anna parents ke kada , bayata odu kadu kada chill bro be careful from.now on

Avnu bro na first job salary na 1 year savings.. na expenses ponu ma parents ki pampali anukunna.. vallemi adagaledu.. interest vadukomane pampaa.. 

[jerry1]

7 minutes ago, gnr said:

Naku kuda 2 pillalu unnaru.. iddariki kalipi 4000 icharu ba dresses konamani.. vallu money munde ichestaru nachinavi konukko ani..nannu matram shop ki teskelli nachinavi konali antaru.. ma amma antadi konchem atu itu avthayi nuvvu pettalanukunna rate ke yela vastayi antaru.. yenthaina credit card pedtaa ani aasistaru

expected.. chachu telivitetalu

[gnr]

4 minutes ago, argadorn said:

enti man ne racha comedy chesthunavu kadha 4000 echindhi valla sthomatha tho 

16 years nunchi untunavu one month salary poyindhi anuko vayya 

congratlations mods @psycopk thread is hot ga unchadu athanu writers enka depth kavali badha tho hire @Raazu @vampire they will also contribute 

Idi just how they expect from nri kid and how they give for the same occasion  ane difference ki cheppaa.. feel avaku brother 

[JackSeal]

4 hours ago, gnr said:

I gave 10lakhs in 2009 to my parents..my dad put that in his  bank account.. prema ga ichaa.. interest vadukomani.. inka 2012 nunchi na property meda rents use cheskuntannaru 12k per month. Ippudu na money naku ivvu antante ninnu penchaam chadivincham.. na daggara yem levu.. nenu yem job cheyatledu .. nenu ivvanu antannaru ma amma, nanna iddaru.. naku inko brother untadu kinda intlo paina ma parents untaru.. bother ki high earning job kaadani na money vallaki ivvalani chudtannaru.. interest vaadukomani isthe naku asalu kuda lekunda chestannaru.. ademi ante memu chanipothe dubbulu petti urulo dinam cheyali kadaa andarni pilavali kada antannaru.. adi nenu na brother sagam sagam pettukuni chese aachaaralu.. danikisam na money mosam chesi vallu lenapudu jarige vatiki ippudu mosam chestaara.. matladithe nenu kastha sampadistaa ani na daggare teskuntam money.. vallu sampadinchina aasthulu anni ma annaya ki.. sontha parents ye ilaa mosam chestante badha ga undi.. yevartho cheppukovali artham avtledu.. ee nammaka droham thattukoleka pothanna..nenu sampadinchindi kuda ma anna family ki  Pettali anukuntam naku artham avtledu.. 

Naku yedina salaha ivvandi na money asalu vache daari unte cheppandi.. nenu vati meda interest valla life long ivadaniki ready ne.. vallaki expenses chuskotaniki kuda ready ne.. kaani naku asalu (10lkahs ) ma parents nunchi yela aina teskogalanaa.. nenu pampinattu bank statements unnayi.

14 years ga nene financial help chestanna okka rupee kuda ma annaya chudadu.. yepudina sambar, pappu, chutney, food aa roju cheskunnadi konchem pedtha untaru vallu parents ki..  (not regular)

Financial ga every month help chestanna kuda nakante ma annaya antene istam ga untannaru anna feel vachindi naku.. nenu last 16 years ga vere country lo untam valla yemo.. 

 

 

 

 

You can never compensate the bharosa your brother is giving to your parents by being near to them. This is what parents look for when they are old. Your financial help wont replace the emotional support your brother might be giving.

Many NRI vuncles think money pamputham adhi ma siblings thintunnaru ani but they forget siblings supporting parents with their presence.

Karma cheyadanki money antunnaru ante, last time apudu India velli vallatho spend chesav ? May be they are thinking you won’t come or come late.

If you studied masters or come to foreign country with your parents support and your brother didn’t… apudu enduku question cheyaledu ee bias ne

You are thinking more interms of financials and breaking relationships.

[Pandubabu]

1 minute ago, JackSeal said:

You can never compensate the bharosa your brother is giving to your parents by being near to them. This is what parents look for when they are old. Your financial help wont replace the emotional support your brother might be giving.

Many NRI vuncles think money pamputham adhi ma siblings thintunnaru ani but they forget siblings supporting parents with their presence.

Karma cheyadanki money antunnaru ante, last time apudu India velli vallatho spend chesav ? May be they are thinking you won’t come or come late.

If you studied masters or come to foreign country with your parents support and your brother didn’t… apudu enduku question cheyaledu ee bias ne

You are thinking more interms of financials and breaking relationships.

True. also manam 10k vesi pandaga chekso antam .  10k ki grocery kooda ravatle month ki , 

[gnr]

3 minutes ago, JackSeal said:

You can never compensate the bharosa your brother is giving to your parents by being near to them. This is what parents look for when they are old. Your financial help wont replace the emotional support your brother might be giving.

Many NRI vuncles think money pamputham adhi ma siblings thintunnaru ani but they forget siblings supporting parents with their presence.

Karma cheyadanki money antunnaru ante, last time apudu India velli vallatho spend chesav ? May be they are thinking you won’t come or come late.

If you studied masters or come to foreign country with your parents support and your brother didn’t… apudu enduku question cheyaledu ee bias ne

You are thinking more interms of financials and breaking relationships.

Every year veltham bro family motham.. school holidays time lo..

Ma annaya ki chaduvu interest ledu bro.. naku ala kudirindi vachaa bro.. yevari intlo aina pedda vallake anni opportunities mundu vastayi yedina.. tarvathe 2nd kid ki

[gnr]

Just now, gnr said:

Every year veltham bro India family motham.. school holidays time lo..except pandemic time

Ma annaya ki chaduvu interest ledu bro.. naku ala kudirindi vachaa bro.. yevari intlo aina pedda vallake anni opportunities mundu vastayi yedina.. tarvathe 2nd kid ki

 

[jerry1]

11 minutes ago, gnr said:

Every year veltham bro family motham.. school holidays time lo..

Ma annaya ki chaduvu interest ledu bro.. naku ala kudirindi vachaa bro.. yevari intlo aina pedda vallake anni opportunities mundu vastayi yedina.. tarvathe 2nd kid ki

same case, bro doesn't have interest in studies, parents even insisted him to do ms  in usa , but he didn't. He choosed to study in UK ,parents spent more money on him and he never had sense that his parents are spending so much and he has responsibility to clear. Where as the one living in usa did partimes cleared land and sent money to parents.  Elder bro  didn't make proper decision and was doing nothing for years, to support his family and kids lived with parents , indirectly eating brother's money. Even his wife didn't help him financially, she would have also worked but didn't. They want money easily, then slowly now they got into business and earning but still dependent on usa earning brother and parents. Now they feel superior, they enjoy and satisfy themself by criticizing others , talking low about others. To save money they are staying with parents otherwise they won't stay with parents. Parents are in late 50's and early 60's