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kevinUsa

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We live in a community where lots of neighbours are desis. We recently moved in here few months back. I felt nothing disturbing in the initial days. I also tried a lot to impress by inviting them to parties many times and sending some special food and biryani etc. But I don’t get invited to the parties but the entire community or sent any special food which I ignore because I did parties/sending food without expectations and regrets. we are the ones who never like to back talk and whenever we all meet we usually talk general things. Recently I feel disturbed because some of the friends/ couples are not facing us not even a smile when seeing. They either keep their face tight or turn away only to us but talk to us over phone if we initiate. They clearly give signs of avoidance which my spouse also know. And yes my spouse told we should not think or feel about what others think of us. I understand that but we did nothing that’s y I’m bit confused if I’m overthinking

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1 hour ago, kevinUsa said:

We live in a community where lots of neighbours are desis. We recently moved in here few months back. I felt nothing disturbing in the initial days. I also tried a lot to impress by inviting them to parties many times and sending some special food and biryani etc. But I don’t get invited to the parties but the entire community or sent any special food which I ignore because I did parties/sending food without expectations and regrets. we are the ones who never like to back talk and whenever we all meet we usually talk general things. Recently I feel disturbed because some of the friends/ couples are not facing us not even a smile when seeing. They either keep their face tight or turn away only to us but talk to us over phone if we initiate. They clearly give signs of avoidance which my spouse also know. And yes my spouse told we should not think or feel about what others think of us. I understand that but we did nothing that’s y I’m bit confused if I’m overthinking

are you from andhra?...sent your biryani to tg people?  inkemundhi Aipaye Telugu GIF - Aipaye Telugu Chinajeer GIFs

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