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3 hours ago, kranthi111983 said:

Indaaka group lo oka ex gurinchi post chusi naaku naa ex and naa mistakes valla padaina thana jeevitham gurtochindhi. Tana story & situation telisaka past few months nunchi feeling very sad and guilty for my mistakes/choices which have screwed up multiple lives.

Maa love story college nunchi start ayyindhi. College ayyaka we got job in a city different from our hometown. total ga, we were together for 7 years. My first & BIGGEST mistake - getting physically close to each other. Vere city lo undadam valla freedom vachi physical ga close ayyam. Pelli time vache sariki iddari intlo full opposition as we are from different caste. Maa intlo last ki OK annaru but chelli marriage ayyake maa marriage annaru but naaku na sister ki age gap ekkuva and my ex & I would have been at least 30 by the time my sister would get married. Valla intlo vallu convince avvaledhu. Tanu vachestha, manam pelli cheuskundam anindhi but naaku dhairyam chaala ledhu. This was my another MISTAKE.

Whatever, tana marriage fix ayyindhi. I was completely broken and took couple of months to recover. Tana pelli fix ayyaka and marrige ayina first few months varaku contact lo unnam. Initial ga calls lo and later in message/email etc. This is another MISTAKE. we used the same email accounts from our past to chat. Pelli ayyaka regular chats chesam but memu relationship lo unappudu sexting etc untayi aa accounts lo. Same accounts lo maa intimate pics  etc untayi. Daani password iddariki telusu. We should have deleted all those messages, pics or those accounts. Another big MISTAKE. Then, one day she messaged me saying her husband found out about our past and she cannot keep in touch with me anymore. I tried to message, call her and her friends but emi vinaledhu. Later, I found out she changed her phone number, deleted all her Social Network accounts and was not in touch with any of her school or college friends. Ala few months gadichindhi and finally, naa focus antha carrer meedha petti manchiga grow ayya. Now, in a envious position among my peers. Fell in love again and this time married my GF.  Naaku success vachaka and naa life happy ga set ayyaka, I developed bitter/revenge kind of thoughts on my ex and wanted to show how successful & happy I was after we broke up.

But, then I met one of her friends and learnt the full story. Naa ex marriage ayyaka first few months vallu happy ga unde. She and her husband used to hang out with her gal friends/their husbands and he seemed like a decent guy. Then, athaniki maa past gurinchi antha telisindhi. Maa paatha private sexting chats,emails, paatha intimate photos, pelli ayyaka messages anni dorikayi from her/our email account. Full godava ayyindhi. Valla families involve ayyaru and naa ex parents and her uncles/aunts families mundhu motham proof tho saha bayata pettesaadu. Next, you can imagine how the situation would have been. Naa ex ni valla in-laws, parents, family antha tittukunnaru. But somehow, it did not end in divorce. But, she cut-off contacts with all her friends even ammayilatho. Even cousins etc tho kuuda no contact. Infact, she rarely visits her home anta. They are still having problems. Not sure if they are leading a married life or not. Marriage ayyi 10 years avutundhi but still no kids anta. Idantha telisaka I somehow found her address and saw her and her husband from far. Kallalo neelu vachayi bhayya. Manishi baaga padayyindhi. Aame husband ni engagment lo dooram nunchi chusi inferior feel ayya. Even he looks really bad now. Unhappy, depressed unte janalu inthala padavuatara anipinchindhi. Nneu naa youth lo chesina mistakes, choices valla ila lives affect avutayi ani anukoledhu. 

I somehow in some way feel responsible for spoiling her life and causing grief to so many people. Paina chuste, there were multiple stages where I made mistake. Okka daggara correct choice or decision teesukunna, situation would have been different.

Relationships lo unna vallaki suggestions bhayya
Try to convince parents and get married to your lovers. Try to avoid getting physical before marriage. If you end up not getting married, cut all ties or at least delete all intimate emails, messages, pics so that all will have a clean slate or appearance of a clean slate.

Appudooo 1990 s story vesi sodhi endi ippudu antha nee generation 10ga ma break up ayinamma malli intkotti 

mela unnadi trend nee sodhi pubu story vesi em sadinchavu 

waste fellow

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7 hours ago, kranthi111983 said:

Indaaka group lo oka ex gurinchi post chusi naaku naa ex and naa mistakes valla padaina thana jeevitham gurtochindhi. Tana story & situation telisaka past few months nunchi feeling very sad and guilty for my mistakes/choices which have screwed up multiple lives.

Maa love story college nunchi start ayyindhi. College ayyaka we got job in a city different from our hometown. total ga, we were together for 7 years. My first & BIGGEST mistake - getting physically close to each other. Vere city lo undadam valla freedom vachi physical ga close ayyam. Pelli time vache sariki iddari intlo full opposition as we are from different caste. Maa intlo last ki OK annaru but chelli marriage ayyake maa marriage annaru but naaku na sister ki age gap ekkuva and my ex & I would have been at least 30 by the time my sister would get married. Valla intlo vallu convince avvaledhu. Tanu vachestha, manam pelli cheuskundam anindhi but naaku dhairyam chaala ledhu. This was my another MISTAKE.

Whatever, tana marriage fix ayyindhi. I was completely broken and took couple of months to recover. Tana pelli fix ayyaka and marrige ayina first few months varaku contact lo unnam. Initial ga calls lo and later in message/email etc. This is another MISTAKE. we used the same email accounts from our past to chat. Pelli ayyaka regular chats chesam but memu relationship lo unappudu sexting etc untayi aa accounts lo. Same accounts lo maa intimate pics  etc untayi. Daani password iddariki telusu. We should have deleted all those messages, pics or those accounts. Another big MISTAKE. Then, one day she messaged me saying her husband found out about our past and she cannot keep in touch with me anymore. I tried to message, call her and her friends but emi vinaledhu. Later, I found out she changed her phone number, deleted all her Social Network accounts and was not in touch with any of her school or college friends. Ala few months gadichindhi and finally, naa focus antha carrer meedha petti manchiga grow ayya. Now, in a envious position among my peers. Fell in love again and this time married my GF.  Naaku success vachaka and naa life happy ga set ayyaka, I developed bitter/revenge kind of thoughts on my ex and wanted to show how successful & happy I was after we broke up.

But, then I met one of her friends and learnt the full story. Naa ex marriage ayyaka first few months vallu happy ga unde. She and her husband used to hang out with her gal friends/their husbands and he seemed like a decent guy. Then, athaniki maa past gurinchi antha telisindhi. Maa paatha private sexting chats,emails, paatha intimate photos, pelli ayyaka messages anni dorikayi from her/our email account. Full godava ayyindhi. Valla families involve ayyaru and naa ex parents and her uncles/aunts families mundhu motham proof tho saha bayata pettesaadu. Next, you can imagine how the situation would have been. Naa ex ni valla in-laws, parents, family antha tittukunnaru. But somehow, it did not end in divorce. But, she cut-off contacts with all her friends even ammayilatho. Even cousins etc tho kuuda no contact. Infact, she rarely visits her home anta. They are still having problems. Not sure if they are leading a married life or not. Marriage ayyi 10 years avutundhi but still no kids anta. Idantha telisaka I somehow found her address and saw her and her husband from far. Kallalo neelu vachayi bhayya. Manishi baaga padayyindhi. Aame husband ni engagment lo dooram nunchi chusi inferior feel ayya. Even he looks really bad now. Unhappy, depressed unte janalu inthala padavuatara anipinchindhi. Nneu naa youth lo chesina mistakes, choices valla ila lives affect avutayi ani anukoledhu. 

I somehow in some way feel responsible for spoiling her life and causing grief to so many people. Paina chuste, there were multiple stages where I made mistake. Okka daggara correct choice or decision teesukunna, situation would have been different.

Relationships lo unna vallaki suggestions bhayya
Try to convince parents and get married to your lovers. Try to avoid getting physical before marriage. If you end up not getting married, cut all ties or at least delete all intimate emails, messages, pics so that all will have a clean slate or appearance of a clean slate.

Bro I can  relate to your story of mine and it was the best thing in life.

Everyone has past and that is the reason it is called as past...

ne lanti valu malli malli athikinchukuntaru...

When my ex left me this is 13 years back story, two times touch lo ki vacha anthe because na fb Insta chusi msg chesindi madam. She has two kids...but still msg'd me last year saying nuvu inka kalala vasthav ani... mind dobbindi naku I am happy in my life with my wife ana.. g(_)dha muskundi...

edendi ra babu anukoni anni delete chesi dobba...

nen successful aya ivani pakaki pedte life's penta penta aypotayi always be careful and bygones are bygones...

Point is I don't even remember anything about her. Love ani manam anukuntam aa age lo but It was all physical and attraction anthe. Sometimes I laugh at myself whY did I even waste my time.. Chaduvukuna ayipoyedi urke na life paducheskuna ani... I'd have been somewhere now in my career...nonetheless if god gives me another chance i will still chose this life at the momemt,

What all matters is your family...

 

 

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8 hours ago, kranthi111983 said:

Indaaka group lo oka ex gurinchi post chusi naaku naa ex and naa mistakes valla padaina thana jeevitham gurtochindhi. Tana story & situation telisaka past few months nunchi feeling very sad and guilty for my mistakes/choices which have screwed up multiple lives.

Maa love story college nunchi start ayyindhi. College ayyaka we got job in a city different from our hometown. total ga, we were together for 7 years. My first & BIGGEST mistake - getting physically close to each other. Vere city lo undadam valla freedom vachi physical ga close ayyam. Pelli time vache sariki iddari intlo full opposition as we are from different caste. Maa intlo last ki OK annaru but chelli marriage ayyake maa marriage annaru but naaku na sister ki age gap ekkuva and my ex & I would have been at least 30 by the time my sister would get married. Valla intlo vallu convince avvaledhu. Tanu vachestha, manam pelli cheuskundam anindhi but naaku dhairyam chaala ledhu. This was my another MISTAKE.

Whatever, tana marriage fix ayyindhi. I was completely broken and took couple of months to recover. Tana pelli fix ayyaka and marrige ayina first few months varaku contact lo unnam. Initial ga calls lo and later in message/email etc. This is another MISTAKE. we used the same email accounts from our past to chat. Pelli ayyaka regular chats chesam but memu relationship lo unappudu sexting etc untayi aa accounts lo. Same accounts lo maa intimate pics  etc untayi. Daani password iddariki telusu. We should have deleted all those messages, pics or those accounts. Another big MISTAKE. Then, one day she messaged me saying her husband found out about our past and she cannot keep in touch with me anymore. I tried to message, call her and her friends but emi vinaledhu. Later, I found out she changed her phone number, deleted all her Social Network accounts and was not in touch with any of her school or college friends. Ala few months gadichindhi and finally, naa focus antha carrer meedha petti manchiga grow ayya. Now, in a envious position among my peers. Fell in love again and this time married my GF.  Naaku success vachaka and naa life happy ga set ayyaka, I developed bitter/revenge kind of thoughts on my ex and wanted to show how successful & happy I was after we broke up.

But, then I met one of her friends and learnt the full story. Naa ex marriage ayyaka first few months vallu happy ga unde. She and her husband used to hang out with her gal friends/their husbands and he seemed like a decent guy. Then, athaniki maa past gurinchi antha telisindhi. Maa paatha private sexting chats,emails, paatha intimate photos, pelli ayyaka messages anni dorikayi from her/our email account. Full godava ayyindhi. Valla families involve ayyaru and naa ex parents and her uncles/aunts families mundhu motham proof tho saha bayata pettesaadu. Next, you can imagine how the situation would have been. Naa ex ni valla in-laws, parents, family antha tittukunnaru. But somehow, it did not end in divorce. But, she cut-off contacts with all her friends even ammayilatho. Even cousins etc tho kuuda no contact. Infact, she rarely visits her home anta. They are still having problems. Not sure if they are leading a married life or not. Marriage ayyi 10 years avutundhi but still no kids anta. Idantha telisaka I somehow found her address and saw her and her husband from far. Kallalo neelu vachayi bhayya. Manishi baaga padayyindhi. Aame husband ni engagment lo dooram nunchi chusi inferior feel ayya. Even he looks really bad now. Unhappy, depressed unte janalu inthala padavuatara anipinchindhi. Nneu naa youth lo chesina mistakes, choices valla ila lives affect avutayi ani anukoledhu. 

I somehow in some way feel responsible for spoiling her life and causing grief to so many people. Paina chuste, there were multiple stages where I made mistake. Okka daggara correct choice or decision teesukunna, situation would have been different.

Relationships lo unna vallaki suggestions bhayya
Try to convince parents and get married to your lovers. Try to avoid getting physical before marriage. If you end up not getting married, cut all ties or at least delete all intimate emails, messages, pics so that all will have a clean slate or appearance of a clean slate.

Karma will bite back 

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sry to say but you and your gf did something horrible to her husband, pellia ayyaka kooda chatting endhi vayya

this may be harsh but you both seem to have low morals, I have zero sympathy for folks like you and even her

the one good thing is you are at least feeling guilt for ruining others life, thats something I guess, adi kooda lekpothe inka trash annate

you should focus on your family and mind your own business now..

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10 hours ago, kranthi111983 said:

Indaaka group lo oka ex gurinchi post chusi naaku naa ex and naa mistakes valla padaina thana jeevitham gurtochindhi. Tana story & situation telisaka past few months nunchi feeling very sad and guilty for my mistakes/choices which have screwed up multiple lives.

Maa love story college nunchi start ayyindhi. College ayyaka we got job in a city different from our hometown. total ga, we were together for 7 years. My first & BIGGEST mistake - getting physically close to each other. Vere city lo undadam valla freedom vachi physical ga close ayyam. Pelli time vache sariki iddari intlo full opposition as we are from different caste. Maa intlo last ki OK annaru but chelli marriage ayyake maa marriage annaru but naaku na sister ki age gap ekkuva and my ex & I would have been at least 30 by the time my sister would get married. Valla intlo vallu convince avvaledhu. Tanu vachestha, manam pelli cheuskundam anindhi but naaku dhairyam chaala ledhu. This was my another MISTAKE.

Whatever, tana marriage fix ayyindhi. I was completely broken and took couple of months to recover. Tana pelli fix ayyaka and marrige ayina first few months varaku contact lo unnam. Initial ga calls lo and later in message/email etc. This is another MISTAKE. we used the same email accounts from our past to chat. Pelli ayyaka regular chats chesam but memu relationship lo unappudu sexting etc untayi aa accounts lo. Same accounts lo maa intimate pics  etc untayi. Daani password iddariki telusu. We should have deleted all those messages, pics or those accounts. Another big MISTAKE. Then, one day she messaged me saying her husband found out about our past and she cannot keep in touch with me anymore. I tried to message, call her and her friends but emi vinaledhu. Later, I found out she changed her phone number, deleted all her Social Network accounts and was not in touch with any of her school or college friends. Ala few months gadichindhi and finally, naa focus antha carrer meedha petti manchiga grow ayya. Now, in a envious position among my peers. Fell in love again and this time married my GF.  Naaku success vachaka and naa life happy ga set ayyaka, I developed bitter/revenge kind of thoughts on my ex and wanted to show how successful & happy I was after we broke up.

But, then I met one of her friends and learnt the full story. Naa ex marriage ayyaka first few months vallu happy ga unde. She and her husband used to hang out with her gal friends/their husbands and he seemed like a decent guy. Then, athaniki maa past gurinchi antha telisindhi. Maa paatha private sexting chats,emails, paatha intimate photos, pelli ayyaka messages anni dorikayi from her/our email account. Full godava ayyindhi. Valla families involve ayyaru and naa ex parents and her uncles/aunts families mundhu motham proof tho saha bayata pettesaadu. Next, you can imagine how the situation would have been. Naa ex ni valla in-laws, parents, family antha tittukunnaru. But somehow, it did not end in divorce. But, she cut-off contacts with all her friends even ammayilatho. Even cousins etc tho kuuda no contact. Infact, she rarely visits her home anta. They are still having problems. Not sure if they are leading a married life or not. Marriage ayyi 10 years avutundhi but still no kids anta. Idantha telisaka I somehow found her address and saw her and her husband from far. Kallalo neelu vachayi bhayya. Manishi baaga padayyindhi. Aame husband ni engagment lo dooram nunchi chusi inferior feel ayya. Even he looks really bad now. Unhappy, depressed unte janalu inthala padavuatara anipinchindhi. Nneu naa youth lo chesina mistakes, choices valla ila lives affect avutayi ani anukoledhu. 

I somehow in some way feel responsible for spoiling her life and causing grief to so many people. Paina chuste, there were multiple stages where I made mistake. Okka daggara correct choice or decision teesukunna, situation would have been different.

Relationships lo unna vallaki suggestions bhayya
Try to convince parents and get married to your lovers. Try to avoid getting physical before marriage. If you end up not getting married, cut all ties or at least delete all intimate emails, messages, pics so that all will have a clean slate or appearance of a clean slate.

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10 hours ago, kranthi111983 said:

Indaaka group lo oka ex gurinchi post chusi naaku naa ex and naa mistakes valla padaina thana jeevitham gurtochindhi. Tana story & situation telisaka past few months nunchi feeling very sad and guilty for my mistakes/choices which have screwed up multiple lives.

Maa love story college nunchi start ayyindhi. College ayyaka we got job in a city different from our hometown. total ga, we were together for 7 years. My first & BIGGEST mistake - getting physically close to each other. Vere city lo undadam valla freedom vachi physical ga close ayyam. Pelli time vache sariki iddari intlo full opposition as we are from different caste. Maa intlo last ki OK annaru but chelli marriage ayyake maa marriage annaru but naaku na sister ki age gap ekkuva and my ex & I would have been at least 30 by the time my sister would get married. Valla intlo vallu convince avvaledhu. Tanu vachestha, manam pelli cheuskundam anindhi but naaku dhairyam chaala ledhu. This was my another MISTAKE.

Whatever, tana marriage fix ayyindhi. I was completely broken and took couple of months to recover. Tana pelli fix ayyaka and marrige ayina first few months varaku contact lo unnam. Initial ga calls lo and later in message/email etc. This is another MISTAKE. we used the same email accounts from our past to chat. Pelli ayyaka regular chats chesam but memu relationship lo unappudu sexting etc untayi aa accounts lo. Same accounts lo maa intimate pics  etc untayi. Daani password iddariki telusu. We should have deleted all those messages, pics or those accounts. Another big MISTAKE. Then, one day she messaged me saying her husband found out about our past and she cannot keep in touch with me anymore. I tried to message, call her and her friends but emi vinaledhu. Later, I found out she changed her phone number, deleted all her Social Network accounts and was not in touch with any of her school or college friends. Ala few months gadichindhi and finally, naa focus antha carrer meedha petti manchiga grow ayya. Now, in a envious position among my peers. Fell in love again and this time married my GF.  Naaku success vachaka and naa life happy ga set ayyaka, I developed bitter/revenge kind of thoughts on my ex and wanted to show how successful & happy I was after we broke up.

But, then I met one of her friends and learnt the full story. Naa ex marriage ayyaka first few months vallu happy ga unde. She and her husband used to hang out with her gal friends/their husbands and he seemed like a decent guy. Then, athaniki maa past gurinchi antha telisindhi. Maa paatha private sexting chats,emails, paatha intimate photos, pelli ayyaka messages anni dorikayi from her/our email account. Full godava ayyindhi. Valla families involve ayyaru and naa ex parents and her uncles/aunts families mundhu motham proof tho saha bayata pettesaadu. Next, you can imagine how the situation would have been. Naa ex ni valla in-laws, parents, family antha tittukunnaru. But somehow, it did not end in divorce. But, she cut-off contacts with all her friends even ammayilatho. Even cousins etc tho kuuda no contact. Infact, she rarely visits her home anta. They are still having problems. Not sure if they are leading a married life or not. Marriage ayyi 10 years avutundhi but still no kids anta. Idantha telisaka I somehow found her address and saw her and her husband from far. Kallalo neelu vachayi bhayya. Manishi baaga padayyindhi. Aame husband ni engagment lo dooram nunchi chusi inferior feel ayya. Even he looks really bad now. Unhappy, depressed unte janalu inthala padavuatara anipinchindhi. Nneu naa youth lo chesina mistakes, choices valla ila lives affect avutayi ani anukoledhu. 

I somehow in some way feel responsible for spoiling her life and causing grief to so many people. Paina chuste, there were multiple stages where I made mistake. Okka daggara correct choice or decision teesukunna, situation would have been different.

Relationships lo unna vallaki suggestions bhayya
Try to convince parents and get married to your lovers. Try to avoid getting physical before marriage. If you end up not getting married, cut all ties or at least delete all intimate emails, messages, pics so that all will have a clean slate or appearance of a clean slate.

If this story is true, then no choice but to continue to live with guilt. Nuvvu poi amey married life ni fix cheilev. 

Nee life soosko. ACTIONS ALWAYS HAVE CONSEQUENCES.....

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Chesedemi ledu bro,

this guilt will burn you till the end.

inka a ammayi sangathi antava, antha penta ayyaka full ga surrender auipodame husband ki chesedi em ledu, wrong is on her side. She also have to bare to till the end

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12 hours ago, kranthi111983 said:

Indaaka group lo oka ex gurinchi post chusi naaku naa ex and naa mistakes valla padaina thana jeevitham gurtochindhi. Tana story & situation telisaka past few months nunchi feeling very sad and guilty for my mistakes/choices which have screwed up multiple lives.

Maa love story college nunchi start ayyindhi. College ayyaka we got job in a city different from our hometown. total ga, we were together for 7 years. My first & BIGGEST mistake - getting physically close to each other. Vere city lo undadam valla freedom vachi physical ga close ayyam. Pelli time vache sariki iddari intlo full opposition as we are from different caste. Maa intlo last ki OK annaru but chelli marriage ayyake maa marriage annaru but naaku na sister ki age gap ekkuva and my ex & I would have been at least 30 by the time my sister would get married. Valla intlo vallu convince avvaledhu. Tanu vachestha, manam pelli cheuskundam anindhi but naaku dhairyam chaala ledhu. This was my another MISTAKE.

Whatever, tana marriage fix ayyindhi. I was completely broken and took couple of months to recover. Tana pelli fix ayyaka and marrige ayina first few months varaku contact lo unnam. Initial ga calls lo and later in message/email etc. This is another MISTAKE. we used the same email accounts from our past to chat. Pelli ayyaka regular chats chesam but memu relationship lo unappudu sexting etc untayi aa accounts lo. Same accounts lo maa intimate pics  etc untayi. Daani password iddariki telusu. We should have deleted all those messages, pics or those accounts. Another big MISTAKE. Then, one day she messaged me saying her husband found out about our past and she cannot keep in touch with me anymore. I tried to message, call her and her friends but emi vinaledhu. Later, I found out she changed her phone number, deleted all her Social Network accounts and was not in touch with any of her school or college friends. Ala few months gadichindhi and finally, naa focus antha carrer meedha petti manchiga grow ayya. Now, in a envious position among my peers. Fell in love again and this time married my GF.  Naaku success vachaka and naa life happy ga set ayyaka, I developed bitter/revenge kind of thoughts on my ex and wanted to show how successful & happy I was after we broke up.

But, then I met one of her friends and learnt the full story. Naa ex marriage ayyaka first few months vallu happy ga unde. She and her husband used to hang out with her gal friends/their husbands and he seemed like a decent guy. Then, athaniki maa past gurinchi antha telisindhi. Maa paatha private sexting chats,emails, paatha intimate photos, pelli ayyaka messages anni dorikayi from her/our email account. Full godava ayyindhi. Valla families involve ayyaru and naa ex parents and her uncles/aunts families mundhu motham proof tho saha bayata pettesaadu. Next, you can imagine how the situation would have been. Naa ex ni valla in-laws, parents, family antha tittukunnaru. But somehow, it did not end in divorce. But, she cut-off contacts with all her friends even ammayilatho. Even cousins etc tho kuuda no contact. Infact, she rarely visits her home anta. They are still having problems. Not sure if they are leading a married life or not. Marriage ayyi 10 years avutundhi but still no kids anta. Idantha telisaka I somehow found her address and saw her and her husband from far. Kallalo neelu vachayi bhayya. Manishi baaga padayyindhi. Aame husband ni engagment lo dooram nunchi chusi inferior feel ayya. Even he looks really bad now. Unhappy, depressed unte janalu inthala padavuatara anipinchindhi. Nneu naa youth lo chesina mistakes, choices valla ila lives affect avutayi ani anukoledhu. 

I somehow in some way feel responsible for spoiling her life and causing grief to so many people. Paina chuste, there were multiple stages where I made mistake. Okka daggara correct choice or decision teesukunna, situation would have been different.

Relationships lo unna vallaki suggestions bhayya
Try to convince parents and get married to your lovers. Try to avoid getting physical before marriage. If you end up not getting married, cut all ties or at least delete all intimate emails, messages, pics so that all will have a clean slate or appearance of a clean slate.

orey mod ga one line lo cheppu

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10 hours ago, Spartan said:

ippidu e vishyam mewife ki teliste that you were involved physically with other girl and still thinking about her 

what will happen to families

nothing becoz this is just content writer sollu kabatti

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17 hours ago, kranthi111983 said:

Indaaka group lo oka ex gurinchi post chusi naaku naa ex and naa mistakes valla padaina thana jeevitham gurtochindhi. Tana story & situation telisaka past few months nunchi feeling very sad and guilty for my mistakes/choices which have screwed up multiple lives.

Maa love story college nunchi start ayyindhi. College ayyaka we got job in a city different from our hometown. total ga, we were together for 7 years. My first & BIGGEST mistake - getting physically close to each other. Vere city lo undadam valla freedom vachi physical ga close ayyam. Pelli time vache sariki iddari intlo full opposition as we are from different caste. Maa intlo last ki OK annaru but chelli marriage ayyake maa marriage annaru but naaku na sister ki age gap ekkuva and my ex & I would have been at least 30 by the time my sister would get married. Valla intlo vallu convince avvaledhu. Tanu vachestha, manam pelli cheuskundam anindhi but naaku dhairyam chaala ledhu. This was my another MISTAKE.

Whatever, tana marriage fix ayyindhi. I was completely broken and took couple of months to recover. Tana pelli fix ayyaka and marrige ayina first few months varaku contact lo unnam. Initial ga calls lo and later in message/email etc. This is another MISTAKE. we used the same email accounts from our past to chat. Pelli ayyaka regular chats chesam but memu relationship lo unappudu sexting etc untayi aa accounts lo. Same accounts lo maa intimate pics  etc untayi. Daani password iddariki telusu. We should have deleted all those messages, pics or those accounts. Another big MISTAKE. Then, one day she messaged me saying her husband found out about our past and she cannot keep in touch with me anymore. I tried to message, call her and her friends but emi vinaledhu. Later, I found out she changed her phone number, deleted all her Social Network accounts and was not in touch with any of her school or college friends. Ala few months gadichindhi and finally, naa focus antha carrer meedha petti manchiga grow ayya. Now, in a envious position among my peers. Fell in love again and this time married my GF.  Naaku success vachaka and naa life happy ga set ayyaka, I developed bitter/revenge kind of thoughts on my ex and wanted to show how successful & happy I was after we broke up.

But, then I met one of her friends and learnt the full story. Naa ex marriage ayyaka first few months vallu happy ga unde. She and her husband used to hang out with her gal friends/their husbands and he seemed like a decent guy. Then, athaniki maa past gurinchi antha telisindhi. Maa paatha private sexting chats,emails, paatha intimate photos, pelli ayyaka messages anni dorikayi from her/our email account. Full godava ayyindhi. Valla families involve ayyaru and naa ex parents and her uncles/aunts families mundhu motham proof tho saha bayata pettesaadu. Next, you can imagine how the situation would have been. Naa ex ni valla in-laws, parents, family antha tittukunnaru. But somehow, it did not end in divorce. But, she cut-off contacts with all her friends even ammayilatho. Even cousins etc tho kuuda no contact. Infact, she rarely visits her home anta. They are still having problems. Not sure if they are leading a married life or not. Marriage ayyi 10 years avutundhi but still no kids anta. Idantha telisaka I somehow found her address and saw her and her husband from far. Kallalo neelu vachayi bhayya. Manishi baaga padayyindhi. Aame husband ni engagment lo dooram nunchi chusi inferior feel ayya. Even he looks really bad now. Unhappy, depressed unte janalu inthala padavuatara anipinchindhi. Nneu naa youth lo chesina mistakes, choices valla ila lives affect avutayi ani anukoledhu. 

I somehow in some way feel responsible for spoiling her life and causing grief to so many people. Paina chuste, there were multiple stages where I made mistake. Okka daggara correct choice or decision teesukunna, situation would have been different.

Relationships lo unna vallaki suggestions bhayya
Try to convince parents and get married to your lovers. Try to avoid getting physical before marriage. If you end up not getting married, cut all ties or at least delete all intimate emails, messages, pics so that all will have a clean slate or appearance of a clean slate.

BRO Its ok happened is happened, you cant change the past. 

The main problem is her husband, salay gadu fori pelliki mundu tapuchesindi, tapu telisaka vadilesndhi kadha, inka problem yenti.

To less your guilty send your wife to him bro( convincing wife is your part), then her husband will feel good 

that since you fxuks his wife in same way he do and feels satisifed annd your ex is also feels good, 

 

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18 hours ago, kranthi111983 said:

Naaku success vachaka and naa life happy ga set ayyaka, I developed bitter/revenge kind of thoughts on my ex and wanted to show how successful & happy I was after we broke up.

Why the f**k did this come into your mind. I dont find any fault with her honestly. Nuvvemo inka d**k measuring contest lo winner post kosam opportunities vetukutunnav. Aaame husband also did some stupid imo. Dorikithe intlo koorchukuni sort out chesukovali kaani family/friends mundu idi pichi munda ani prove cheste em vastadi? Ippudu choodu vaadiki aameki evvariki moham chellaka, divorce teesukune ishtam leka (may be) ala picholla laaga unnaru. I feel bad for her from the short glimpse you gave. Story has so many andles, some unseen/unheard/untold all the times. 

 

 

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19 hours ago, kranthi111983 said:

Indaaka group lo oka ex gurinchi post chusi naaku naa ex and naa mistakes valla padaina thana jeevitham gurtochindhi. Tana story & situation telisaka past few months nunchi feeling very sad and guilty for my mistakes/choices which have screwed up multiple lives.

Maa love story college nunchi start ayyindhi. College ayyaka we got job in a city different from our hometown. total ga, we were together for 7 years. My first & BIGGEST mistake - getting physically close to each other. Vere city lo undadam valla freedom vachi physical ga close ayyam. Pelli time vache sariki iddari intlo full opposition as we are from different caste. Maa intlo last ki OK annaru but chelli marriage ayyake maa marriage annaru but naaku na sister ki age gap ekkuva and my ex & I would have been at least 30 by the time my sister would get married. Valla intlo vallu convince avvaledhu. Tanu vachestha, manam pelli cheuskundam anindhi but naaku dhairyam chaala ledhu. This was my another MISTAKE.

Whatever, tana marriage fix ayyindhi. I was completely broken and took couple of months to recover. Tana pelli fix ayyaka and marrige ayina first few months varaku contact lo unnam. Initial ga calls lo and later in message/email etc. This is another MISTAKE. we used the same email accounts from our past to chat. Pelli ayyaka regular chats chesam but memu relationship lo unappudu sexting etc untayi aa accounts lo. Same accounts lo maa intimate pics  etc untayi. Daani password iddariki telusu. We should have deleted all those messages, pics or those accounts. Another big MISTAKE. Then, one day she messaged me saying her husband found out about our past and she cannot keep in touch with me anymore. I tried to message, call her and her friends but emi vinaledhu. Later, I found out she changed her phone number, deleted all her Social Network accounts and was not in touch with any of her school or college friends. Ala few months gadichindhi and finally, naa focus antha carrer meedha petti manchiga grow ayya. Now, in a envious position among my peers. Fell in love again and this time married my GF.  Naaku success vachaka and naa life happy ga set ayyaka, I developed bitter/revenge kind of thoughts on my ex and wanted to show how successful & happy I was after we broke up.

But, then I met one of her friends and learnt the full story. Naa ex marriage ayyaka first few months vallu happy ga unde. She and her husband used to hang out with her gal friends/their husbands and he seemed like a decent guy. Then, athaniki maa past gurinchi antha telisindhi. Maa paatha private sexting chats,emails, paatha intimate photos, pelli ayyaka messages anni dorikayi from her/our email account. Full godava ayyindhi. Valla families involve ayyaru and naa ex parents and her uncles/aunts families mundhu motham proof tho saha bayata pettesaadu. Next, you can imagine how the situation would have been. Naa ex ni valla in-laws, parents, family antha tittukunnaru. But somehow, it did not end in divorce. But, she cut-off contacts with all her friends even ammayilatho. Even cousins etc tho kuuda no contact. Infact, she rarely visits her home anta. They are still having problems. Not sure if they are leading a married life or not. Marriage ayyi 10 years avutundhi but still no kids anta. Idantha telisaka I somehow found her address and saw her and her husband from far. Kallalo neelu vachayi bhayya. Manishi baaga padayyindhi. Aame husband ni engagment lo dooram nunchi chusi inferior feel ayya. Even he looks really bad now. Unhappy, depressed unte janalu inthala padavuatara anipinchindhi. Nneu naa youth lo chesina mistakes, choices valla ila lives affect avutayi ani anukoledhu. 

I somehow in some way feel responsible for spoiling her life and causing grief to so many people. Paina chuste, there were multiple stages where I made mistake. Okka daggara correct choice or decision teesukunna, situation would have been different.

Relationships lo unna vallaki suggestions bhayya
Try to convince parents and get married to your lovers. Try to avoid getting physical before marriage. If you end up not getting married, cut all ties or at least delete all intimate emails, messages, pics so that all will have a clean slate or appearance of a clean slate.

1 year nundi password reset cheddam ani kuda cheyyakunda guest mode lo db ni following bro but ee post tho naa laziness pogottav. 

Dooram nundi scan chesi vaalla life ela vundho ela cheptaru bhayya. If you really have concern then find out her current situation without fuxxing it up more and see how you can help/fix it.

 

Fix/help ante malli pillalu leru kadha ani help cheddam anukoku. Sorry if I am too mean ... just joke chesa @11

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