Magajathi Animuthyal : Phases of USA life

[FrustratedVuncle]

25 minutes ago, reality said:

Don’t worry man… there is nothing like giving up… you can manage things remotely and visit your parents frequently. Try to give them comfort even if you are far away. Staying with them makes them happy anedhi oka myth. You can take good care of them even if you are away and visit frequently.

Frequent visits are hard after kids myan. Alochanalu emundi kaliga unna time lo sardaga vachi 10glu pettu ellipotai. Flow lo follow avvatame ika

[FrustratedVuncle]

12 minutes ago, Galactus said:

Once you buy house, it mostly implies that you made your decision (in your mind atleast) that you will stay in us, bayataki sollu cheptharu chala mandi like confusion undi, parents this and parents that ani, all trash talk anta

if people really care about taking care of parents they would go back in an instant and thats the truth,

rest all is bullshit that people say to make themselves feel good that they did not abandon their parents

truth is harsh

 

 

Mentalga fix ayna thoughts vastune untai myan. We only think of things that are not with us.

[athili_duvva_combo]

2 hours ago, FrustratedVuncle said:

Anthe kada myan. India povali ani peekuthane untadi. Intlo aada ladies no permission. paiga India lo peddaga peeke investments lev. So anni muskoni daily labor job doing.

Yeah anthey untadi bro. India tho mostly manaki attachments taggutha untay as time passes . 

[Bapineedu]

give up phase

[FrustratedVuncle]

21 minutes ago, athili_duvva_combo said:

Yeah anthey untadi bro. India tho mostly manaki attachments taggutha untay as time passes . 

Immediate family relationship thappa others gone

2 minutes ago, Bapineedu said:

give up phase

Enni yrs ayndi myan nuvvu USA vachi

[TuesdayStories]

[i_sudigadu]

How abt phases of life in india  … anyone ? 

[praying]

3 hours ago, FrustratedVuncle said:

Mana magajathi animuthyalu USA ki vachaka elanti phases of life experience chestaru? 

Masters Phase: Masters cheskuntu, assignments, part time jobs, CPTs, aaada ladies ni impress cheyadaniki vaalla projects assignments lo fingering, Vantalu, Mandu parties, Pubs lo chillara vesalu etc.

New Job Phase: Kottaga job vachi, Financial ga koncham freedom vachi, Ika manalni evarra apedi anna feeling. Trips, Cricket, istam vachinatlu car lo tirugudu.

Girl Searching Phase : Evaraina foris chance istaremo ani try cheyatam. Or Tella tolu unna non-desi s chance istaremo ani vethukudu, dorikithe enjoy chesudu. Taravata Matrimonial sites lo, telisonllu sambandalu vethukuthu aa vache rejections chooskoni edvatam.

Pellaina Kothalo Phase : Kothaga pellai ika full meals, trips and colorful life ani anukovatam. Cut cheste reality nakko poooch. 

Kids Diaper phase : aaa edupulu endo, aa diaper la gola endo, aa appointments, day care pick up drops endo na royya.

House buying phase : Andaru koni 10g tunnaru happy ga enjoy chestunnaru new homes lo ani, intlo aada ladies gola, peer comparisons ekkuvai edoka illu konukkovatam. 

Confusion Phase : Kids ni ikkada penchala leda India ki move aypovala? Paisal entha save chesam asalu future ki saripotaya. Parents ni vadili ennallu undali ani tega alochinchestam but ikkadde untam mostly ekkadiki pomu.

Regret Phase : Parents age perigi vallu travel cheyaleni paristhithi. valla health bagoledu or some bad news vini India vellaleni paristhitulu. Thu denemma em jeevitham ra idhi, pellam, pillalu mata vinaru, parents ni daggarundi chooskolem avasarama ee omeerrica life 10geyalsindi kids puttagane ani oka feeling.

Give up Phase : Entha chinchukunna life mana chethilo ledu flow lo follow aipovatame.

Inka ekkuva phase lu undochu.

Nenu prastutam confusion phase la unna. Meru face chesina phases enti? Prastutam ee stage lo unnaru?

Mi avida canta cheyamante nuvvu work undi ani cheppi, ikkada paralu paralu rasthava. Neeku undhi le ivala 

[FrustratedVuncle]

13 minutes ago, i_sudigadu said:

How abt phases of life in india  … anyone ? 

Same with how to get onsite phase

12 minutes ago, praying said:

Mi avida canta cheyamante nuvvu work undi ani cheppi, ikkada paralu paralu rasthava. Neeku undhi le ivala 

[TuesdayStories]

Anna ila eppudu chudali ninnu 

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CrxkThUpLZu/?igshid=MTIyMzRjYmRlZg==

[kiran1012]

21 minutes ago, TuesdayStories said:

Anna ila eppudu chudali ninnu 

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CrxkThUpLZu/?igshid=MTIyMzRjYmRlZg==

@FrustratedVuncle this happens only in movies man, antha violence chesina tharvata aa pellam samsaram chestadi.. 

[reality]

9 hours ago, Galactus said:

Once you buy house, it mostly implies that you made your decision (in your mind atleast) that you will stay in us, bayataki sollu cheptharu chala mandi like confusion undi, parents this and parents that ani, all trash talk anta

if people really care about taking care of parents they would go back in an instant and thats the truth,

rest all is bullshit that people say to make themselves feel good that they did not abandon their parents

truth is harsh

 

 

Since you commented on this topic and based on the way you did, you must be an NRI at some point and returned to India. Good for you man.

[TuesdayStories]

4 hours ago, kiran1012 said:

@FrustratedVuncle this happens only in movies man, antha violence chesina tharvata aa pellam samsaram chestadi.. 

https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cr-shDuppMX/?igshid=MTIyMzRjYmRlZg==

[FrustratedVuncle]

6 hours ago, TuesdayStories said:

Anna ila eppudu chudali ninnu 

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CrxkThUpLZu/?igshid=MTIyMzRjYmRlZg==

 

1 hour ago, TuesdayStories said:

https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cr-shDuppMX/?igshid=MTIyMzRjYmRlZg==

How ya. 911 call cheste moosestaru. Ayna physical violence cheyakudadhu vro

[desperatetogoUSA]

11 hours ago, Android_Halwa said:

Mee atha vachinda kaka?

Issri etlaina edo okati chesi thalli kuturla madhyala pullalu pedudam kaka..

Pullalu kadu first atha ki madda pettali mana frustrated vuncle