Wife Money management issue

[riashli]

5 minutes ago, Telugodura456 said:

genuine question to @riashli - if husband says financiail independency and spends 25% money on strip clubs gatra. Is that fine too ? i am just asking. 

Have no idea about these clubs 

[Mesthri]

54 minutes ago, psycopk said:

Oka expectations set cheyi.. ilu ante nuvvu enta ichana saripodu.. oka number chepu.. aa number reach avagane stop cheyali ani chepu.. kadu kudadu annadi anuko.. osey mental nedi kani daniki peti dobinchukunta antunav.. repu adi anta mee anna algestadu.. house nee peru meda padaleti nenu contribute chesta ani chepu.. 

 

second.. ikada oka investment or bigger house koneyi.. downpayments and ipudu unan interest rates dula terupodi idsariki

 

Third and best.. tana salary max contribute to 401k and stock options if any..nee financial plans kuda clear ga discuss cheyi… ledu ante india lone tana leru mea oka apt koneyi.. dani payments ani tanane handle cheya manu.. parents house is not urs.. but this is urs ani chepu

 

aaina vinakapote.. mee atha mama latho oka sitting veyi

bagunnai bro suggestions try chesta

[Netflixmovieguz]

1. Common understanding- some amount of both of your paychecks are for personal use.

2. max out contribution to 401k

3. For head strongs Buy a property and make it tight on budget.

 

[veerigadu]

lol thread.....

[riashli]

4 minutes ago, Mesthri said:

 

Ala antav enti bro. Repu nenu stocks or 1M home koni appula palu aithe in-laws vachi na appulu teerustara?

Poni recession vachi iddari jobs pothe monthly emis free ga kadatara? Poni asthullo sagam istara after in-laws? same questions wife ni adigithe, apudu chooddam leni issues ipude enduku discussion antundi.

maku iddaru akkalu pellillu chesam appulu migilai, appulu mottam nene kattanu. Parents ki apudapudu gifts istaru but no financial help, ichina ma parents teskoru. At least telugu states lo abbai unna houses lo ide 90% nadustundi. 

Did u discuss all this with her? 

[420]

3 minutes ago, riashli said:

Did u discuss all this with her? 

No 

[420]

5 minutes ago, riashli said:

Have no idea about these clubs 

Spending money on red light girls 

[Mesthri]

53 minutes ago, gudboy said:

dude you need to sort it out ASAP leda neeku baand baja bharaat aa future lo 

if she want to send money then set terms that she will need to share 50% of household expenses and then do whatever she want with her money and same goes to you..

 

bayapettaku bro

[Mesthri]

47 minutes ago, gudboy said:

scene ikkada clear undi..looks like she will head for divorce in future once her parents debts are settled..indulo OP is going to be bakara..looks like she married to get EAD and now on her way to her goals..

 

bro get kids ASAP if not neeku vaathalu peduthadi

[riashli]

1 minute ago, 420 said:

Spending money on red light girls 

Parents ki pampadaniki deeniki link ekkada 

[Mesthri]

21 minutes ago, psycopk said:

Appulu petukoni house start chestunadu ante mee mama very bad with financial management.. ee point chepu

Kotha building kadtunnaru annapudu nenu ade annanu. mundu loans teerchochuga ante, Intiki malli loan teskovali kada ani same continuing ata. 

[allbakara]

10 minutes ago, Mesthri said:

India lo parents ki passive income undi, dad ki retirement funds unnai. no issues. 

India paisal pampithe itu teskuravatam kastam.

Just tell that you will send and see the magic

[veerigadu]

Pellam ki still naaa mogudu and naaa family aneee reliazation ki raledhuu vaaa TS. Inkaaa pelli kakamundhuuu undee love my parents mindset lo undhi anukuntaa.... Edho seyyaliii vallakiii anukuntundhii....Its not as bad as people are saying here. 

She will get there eventually. Give her some space. Ekkuva pettiness supisthee neeke problem aythadhiii...Inko 2 years tharvatha kudaa idhe situation unte....then you are in deep shittttttt....Idhi fix ayipooooo

[hydusguy]

19 minutes ago, riashli said:

Ivanni kadu, divorce 

ya ya ..thats easy  . ... thy dnt care even kids.  parents are more imp... even though thr are other siblings to take cre.. 

[420]

2 minutes ago, riashli said:

Parents ki pampadaniki deeniki link ekkada 

I don’t know just gave you more info