Wife Money management issue

[DalchanChekka]

1 hour ago, yemdoing said:

tappu ledu... the main problem is. couples don't discuss is before marriage.

Fair point. Financial expectations mundhe matladukunte best. But ivi anni mundhe chebithe pelli avvadhu ani most people hide I guess.

[Android_Halwa]

3 hours ago, Mesthri said:

in-laws ki thindiki, health issues ki paisal lev ante I have no objection to send bro. Valla business loan and new building ki ante nenu valla investments lo contribute chestunnatu. If I dont get returns in those investments why should I contribute annadi nenu alochinchedi.

next convo lo ikkada discuss chesina points anni gattiga cheppi choosta

Ae vuko vaa….Ida discuss chesina muchatlu poi pellam ki seppi susthe vintadi anukuntunava ? Asale bayata motham women empowerment nadustundi, Scene reverse ayitadi…aina ae kalam la vunnav vaaa, sepithe vine rakalu anukuntunava iyalrepu adollu ? 
 

Kotha sampadana and looks like modati sampadana, anduke iyanni kathalu….maa Intlolla ki paisal istha, maa nayana loan kadutha, vall illu kattanike paisal istha anetivi childish and first time earning mentality…susi sudanattu idisey

 

[hydusguy]

4 hours ago, allbakara said:

You too tell that you will be sending half of your salary to your parents every month

debbaki dabba.  prananiki pranam.. salary ki salary ...  apudu veleddaru kangal... 

[DalchanChekka]

Husband parents devulapally devullu wife parents adukkuthine vallu 😂

Repu meeku only daughters putti motham manchaana paddaka ardham aithadhi

[Android_Halwa]

3 hours ago, Mesthri said:

in-laws ki thindiki, health issues ki paisal lev ante I have no objection to send bro. Valla business loan and new building ki ante nenu valla investments lo contribute chestunnatu. If I dont get returns in those investments why should I contribute annadi nenu alochinchedi.

next convo lo ikkada discuss chesina points anni gattiga cheppi choosta

Nuv emi chesina, mee pellam sampainchina paisal la ato ito konni paisal valla parents ki istadi and danni Nuv emi cheyalev, vaddu ani nachachepadaniki susthe adi kastha nee mida dissent ekuvaitadi…so never say no..!!

Entha pampina maha aithe oka 3-4 months salary pamputadi kaka…apativaraku varaku opika pattu…atarvata mee nayana illu katanike paisal pampinav kada, mari niku endi a intla share entha vastundi ani oka dialogue kottu…chana gatti effect vuntadi….

Inko trick: 6 months sampadana tarvata mazaak udainchu…nee dosthulu degara uncuts jewelelry sets vunayi, nee degara emunayi ani ? 

[420]

9 minutes ago, Sudeep_y_chowboy said:

How do u know ? 

My friend from 2014 baa

[gudboy]

4 minutes ago, DalchanChekka said:

Husband parents devulapally devullu wife parents adukkuthine vallu 😂

Repu meeku only daughters putti motham manchaana paddaka ardham aithadhi

neeku manchana padda parents ki TS valla wife parents difference theliyatleda?

no one is saying not to take care of manchana padda parents here..

TS is ok with wife pumping money into her dads business debt and new home but he also wants the benefits of that investment..

since she has a brother he will enjoy the new home not the @Mesthri . New home daughter peru meeda konali alantapudu

[DalchanChekka]

3 minutes ago, gudboy said:

neeku manchana padda parents ki TS valla wife parents difference theliyatleda?

no one is saying not to take care of manchana padda parents here..

TS is ok with wife pumping money into her dads business debt and new home but he also wants the benefits of that investment..

since she has a brother he will enjoy the new home not the @Mesthri . New home daughter peru meeda konali alantapudu

I don’t support TS wife behavior at all. Idhe behavior husbands kuda chestharu. Sisters ki illulu kattinchadam, apartments konivvadam laantivi. Alanti behavior ni meeru support chesthara?

[Guest]

Send what is needed, doesn’t matter wife/husband parents. Itla half salary ebvery month ante mingadu 

[Kakynada]

only money/business 

[gudboy]

2 minutes ago, DalchanChekka said:

I don’t support TS wife behavior at all. Idhe behavior husbands kuda chestharu. Sisters ki illulu kattinchadam, apartments konivvadam laantivi. Alanti behavior ni meeru support chesthara?

no i do not support that either

[gudboy]

3 minutes ago, Guest said:

Send what is needed, doesn’t matter wife/husband parents. Itla half salary ebvery month ante mingadu 

kadu... only if needed lekapothe they will think we are a money tree

[rmJU72]

my suggestion is to surround yourself with people who are financially successful, bought a home, rentals, etc …she will look at them and start sharing her own ideas abt US based home, rentals, etc. Indirect comparison is a great motivator.

Also share realistic financial future(middle class avg US life), and impending recession that can wipe you out. Also that investing earlier is prudent than investing much later after you realize that you haven’t secured your future.

[Arjun9]

Lol.. Welcome to the Party Bro😄

Try taking some property  like house, apts with heavy loans.. so EMI and other payments ki you can ask her to contribute some..ayina vinakapothe.. EAD nee hand lo pane ga... dont apply or make sure here EAD gets rejected somehow

In my case, my wife dont even know her bank details.. edho shopping adhi idhi dhaaniki she use one credit card which i pay off

😆

[Mesthri]

2 hours ago, yemdoing said:

tappu ledu... the main problem is. couples don't discuss is before marriage.

Before marriage discuss cheste 50% akkade drop aipotaru.