Am I in middle life crisis?

[pksmart]

soon to be 40. kids school going.

No excitement/motivation to start the day.

Still on H1B. No sex life. IT job sucks. stocks tanked big time. 

India family relations are almost gone. India ki povalani ledu ikkada undalani ledu.

Friends moved to different states. Lov da lo life siraku mingutundi. 

Idhi depression or middle life crisis ardam kavatledu. 

Anyone in same boat?

[Parankusam]

ye city lo untavu bro nuvvu

[pksmart]

1 minute ago, Parankusam said:

ye city lo untavu bro nuvvu

Kansas state.

[dasari4kntr]

yes....

start some hobbies...like travel..etc

[Parankusam]

2 minutes ago, pksmart said:

Kansas state.

money will come le.. kotha desi friends ni chesko depressed feeling taggutundi

[Sanjiv]

No sorry, you just need a kick on your lazy as$ butt.

[pksmart]

4 minutes ago, Parankusam said:

money will come le.. kotha desi friends ni chesko depressed feeling taggutundi

Unna friends moved to another state. unna 1 or 2 friends planning to move. 

Kotha friends ante young crowd unnaru ikkada but peddaga mingle avvatledu. Tried to make new friends. 

WFH tesesthe emaina progress undochu.

[pksmart]

7 minutes ago, dasari4kntr said:

yes....

start some hobbies...like travel..etc

pillalni, family ni eskoni travel kastam bro. Solo travel ante never did, try cheyali.

[pksmart]

7 minutes ago, Sanjiv said:

No sorry, you just need a kick on your lazy as$ butt.

lazy emuntudi raja. Life ponu ponu boring ga aipotundi.  

[JonSnowUSA]

17 minutes ago, pksmart said:

soon to be 40. kids school going.

No excitement/motivation to start the day.

Still on H1B. No sex life. IT job sucks. stocks tanked big time. 

India family relations are almost gone. India ki povalani ledu ikkada undalani ledu.

Friends moved to different states. Lov da lo life siraku mingutundi. 

Idhi depression or middle life crisis ardam kavatledu. 

Anyone in same boat?

I think almost all everyone will be in same situation. Nv bot ippudu ekkinav migatha vallu kondaru ni mundu ni venaka ekkutaru. Andari paristiti okate

[yemdoing]

17 minutes ago, pksmart said:

soon to be 40. kids school going.

No excitement/motivation to start the day.

Still on H1B. No sex life. IT job sucks. stocks tanked big time. 

India family relations are almost gone. India ki povalani ledu ikkada undalani ledu.

Friends moved to different states. Lov da lo life siraku mingutundi. 

Idhi depression or middle life crisis ardam kavatledu. 

Anyone in same boat?

Many would be in same boat , it’s natural to see your family and friend’s relationships weaken as you grow older . Officially you are uncle now . 
 

only you can do something about it ! Join activities , job boring unte change jaab. 
 

stocked tanking ki mid life crisis ki no relation . 
 

enjou the time you have and make the best of it . 
 

engage with your kids activity , try to have fun in their activities. Enjoy parenting !! 

[JAMBALHOT_RAJA]

This America life is a trap 🪤 for desis

[Cosmos]

Nenu Anduke Oka bacha gang ni maintaining.. hello India lo hangout avutam…

weekends lo mandu sitting vesta Letha masters batch tho …

[dasari4kntr]

8 minutes ago, pksmart said:

pillalni, family ni eskoni travel kastam bro. Solo travel ante never did, try cheyali.

i just gave travel example...you can do many things as hobbies...like book reading or writing...photography or videography...some DIY projects...planting or gardening..etc

[LungiLingaraju]

Y no sex …. exercise cheyandi iddaru.. trainer ni pettukondi..