Am I in middle life crisis?

[pksmart]

20 minutes ago, Deadp0ol2 said:

oka India vacation teesko man for a change. battery recharge aitadi

India vacation okati mind lo undi bro. Oka 2months solid ga without work India lo undali. 

Kids school valla kudiri chavatle. Next year ki aina povali. 

[pksmart]

15 minutes ago, Thokkalee said:

Then you need to work to improve your sex life.. mend your relationship with your wife.. you are a couple not roommates… may be that is where this all started.. you probably have 25+ years to live together.. don’t break it already.. 

@Shameless uncle is the love guru of this db.. take his help.. 

40 age lo sex life ni improve chesudu ante sahasame anukovali. Prastutaniki we both just run the family. Life seems to be very busy to even talk about simple things. I have no idea or hopes on improving sex life.

[tom brady]

2 minutes ago, pksmart said:

40 age lo sex life ni improve chesudu ante sahasame anukovali. Prastutaniki we both just run the family. Life seems to be very busy to even talk about simple things. I have no idea or hopes on improving sex life.

One bad thing desis especially South Indians do is not using Toys. Buy some good toys, try out new things...

[praying]

3 minutes ago, tom brady said:

One bad thing desis especially South Indians do is not using Toys. Buy some good toys, try out new things...

daggarake ranivatledu ra babu antunte...nuvvu toys, loungerie antav enti uncle...

[yemdoing]

38 minutes ago, pksmart said:

kali time la video games start chesina boring ga undi ani. I feel like shyyytt in the morning after playing video games over weekend. 

Reels, Shorts, Instagram ani videos choostunde. I dont compare but that phone addiction also makes me feel like exhausted.

Weekend baytaki or small trip veddam ante too much planning with kids. Kids vadili veldam ante friends leru. 

thinnnama padkunnama tellarinda aipoindi life. 

Kids are not into sports or out door activities. They always want phone or ipad. Tried taking them to soccer, swimming after few days kids not interested. 

asalu ee phone/tv/ipad screen pagal 10githe family lo sagam daridram potadi

How old are kids ? Screen time to kids is very dangerous and has long term effects . 
 

for me I was in same boat on weekends , finally made changes . 

[Thokkalee]

6 minutes ago, pksmart said:

40 age lo sex life ni improve chesudu ante sahasame anukovali. Prastutaniki we both just run the family. Life seems to be very busy to even talk about simple things. I have no idea or hopes on improving sex life.

It is a basic need like food and water.. you don’t want to deprive her and yourself of this.. this will lead to bigger issues in the future like infidelity, etc.. better work things out with your wife.. 

[pksmart]

3 minutes ago, tom brady said:

One bad thing desis especially South Indians do is not using Toys. Buy some good toys, try out new things...

Light vesina oppukoru vayya Desi ladies. BJ is a big no. nuvvu toys daka vellav. 

general ga use chese konni toys veyyi chooddam saradaga

[pksmart]

Just now, Thokkalee said:

It is a basic need like food and water.. you don’t want to deprive her and yourself of this.. this will lead to bigger issues in the future like infidelity, etc.. better work things out with your wife.. 

Indian wifes are experts in using sex deprivation as a revenge. They know the consequences of it and still trap men into sexless marriage. Sad reality. 

Vallani mind marchatam ante we men have to stoop low or struggle in between not to cheat but ultimately give up sex

[praying]

2 minutes ago, pksmart said:

Indian wifes are experts in using sex deprivation as a revenge. They know the consequences of it and still trap men into sexless marriage. Sad reality. 

Vallani mind marchatam ante we men have to stoop low or struggle in between not to cheat but ultimately give up sex

uncle agreed 1015, dani kanna manam ippudu try chesi abdul kalam antha pedda scientist avvachu...

[pksmart]

5 minutes ago, yemdoing said:

How old are kids ? Screen time to kids is very dangerous and has long term effects . 
 

for me I was in same boat on weekends , finally made changes . 

10 and 7. Vallu putiinapudu phone G ki antinchuku puttara anipistundi ee generation kids. 

kansas lo cold time lo no way to control screen time. work busy unte ika summer ledu em ledu ipad lone jeevitham gadichiipotundi. Wife dont even worry screen time cause she herself has screen addiction. 

[LadiesTailor]

5 minutes ago, pksmart said:

Indian wifes are experts in using sex deprivation as a revenge. They know the consequences of it and still trap men into sexless marriage. Sad reality. 

Vallani mind marchatam ante we men have to stoop low or struggle in between not to cheat but ultimately give up sex

Baa you are lacking active life style… start going to gym and workout… join a running g group an md prepare for half or full marathon s… 

[yemdoing]

1 minute ago, pksmart said:

10 and 7. Vallu putiinapudu phone G ki antinchuku puttara anipistundi ee generation kids. 

kansas lo cold time lo no way to control screen time. work busy unte ika summer ledu em ledu ipad lone jeevitham gadichiipotundi. Wife dont even worry screen time cause she herself has screen addiction. 

Be a leader and start by limiting yourself with screen time . 
 

measure how much they are spending on screens . And limit it slowly like over weeks , don’t take  drastic steps . iPad moham mida isiri 10gutharu. Do activities together with kids , manaki boring untayi but try to bring the kid out if you . Like zoos, parks , camping , hikes , biking other indoor or outdoor activities , board games , painting time with kids , summer kada daily park or walking . 
 

you and kids limit your screen time . Wife ki addiction gurinchi educate cheyyi if she is in good . If not just ask her to limit kids screen time . 
 

 

[pandu123b]

move to dallas.

janalau ante chiraku dengi obvious ga you will start liking your current life

then happy ga go back to kansas😀

[Dallas_balu]

1 hour ago, pksmart said:

soon to be 40. kids school going.

No excitement/motivation to start the day.

Still on H1B. No sex life. IT job sucks. stocks tanked big time. 

India family relations are almost gone. India ki povalani ledu ikkada undalani ledu.

Friends moved to different states. Lov da lo life siraku mingutundi. 

Idhi depression or middle life crisis ardam kavatledu. 

Anyone in same boat?

You got wife and kids then why depressing ? You should be busy not free and depressed . Get your kids enrolled in different classes like swimming, karate, basketball and do pick and drop duty and play balio songs in car enroute 

[pksmart]

43 minutes ago, DJBravo said:

Never do this… I did this moved to a new state and a new place jus because I have one friend. Now haven’t spoke with them in over 6 months…

life antha itla ne untadi brother.. stfu

i recommend you to try recreational marijuana.. makes your life better…

isn't it illegal?