Am I in middle life crisis?

[pksmart]

4 minutes ago, cameraman said:

One of my friend got married early , right after Btech.

He too said same thing ,  chex is just overhyped after initial phase.

May be phub and media valla hype baga create chestharu.

 

May be chex with same partner becomes boring. Think about it

mari solution enti antav bro

[yemdoing]

3 minutes ago, tokkalogola said:

U need to buy apple vision pro or the new crap 

First week yappe… insert money money kota gif 

[cameraman]

Just now, pksmart said:

mari solution enti antav bro

ask any of your Muslim friends

[pksmart]

3 minutes ago, yemdoing said:

That would be just a bandaid . 

Same community lo desis unna kuda kids ki friends avvale. 

Do we forcefully make them friends? anyone tried?

[pksmart]

5 minutes ago, tokkalogola said:

U need to buy apple vision pro or the new crap 

na lantollu ekkuvayye mark zuckerberg gadu Metaverse ani Tim Cook thatha VR lo paddaru. 

Musk gadu robo wife antadu. Future lo inkela undabotundo.

[pksmart]

4 minutes ago, Sucker said:

Anna 3 months break theeskoni India trip veyyi shopping cheyyi. Nee badha chusaka neeku shopping contacts ivvali ani vundhi 

Nadi Sexual frustration kadule vaa... 

[pksmart]

4 minutes ago, cameraman said:

ask any of your Muslim friends

why muslim?

[sri_sri999]

33 minutes ago, pksmart said:

isn't it illegal?

daani joliki velthe motta kudisi potundi life jagartha. all you need at this stage is go for vocation for some time and if possible go to office 2 days per week as a start if you like it go office 5days 

[harvey]

2 hours ago, pksmart said:

soon to be 40. kids school going.

No excitement/motivation to start the day.

Still on H1B. No sex life. IT job sucks. stocks tanked big time. 

India family relations are almost gone. India ki povalani ledu ikkada undalani ledu.

Friends moved to different states. Lov da lo life siraku mingutundi. 

Idhi depression or middle life crisis ardam kavatledu. 

Anyone in same boat?

I am also in ditto same boat...chivariki mandhu kottali ane interest kooda ravatam ledhu. So trying to force myself into career goals and fitness. Adhi kooda appudappudu low moments untunnay but still motivating myself.

[kevinUsa]

1 minute ago, sri_sri999 said:

daani joliki velthe motta kudisi potundi life jagartha. all you need at this stage is go for vocation for some time and if possible go to office 2 days per week as a start if you like it go office 5days 

Absolutely correct

Canada mottam woke ayindi ee lowda vallu legal chesi

[pksmart]

1 minute ago, harvey said:

I am also in ditto same boat...chivariki mandhu kottali ane interest kooda ravatam ledhu. So trying to force myself into career goals and fitness. Adhi kooda appudappudu low moments untunnay but still motivating myself.

My take on it is, if I look back I loved the phase when I got new job and enjoying bachelor life even tho no sex.

Ippatiki appatiki okate teda, pellam pillalu and free time. 

[harvey]

3 minutes ago, pksmart said:

My take on it is, if I look back I loved the phase when I got new job and enjoying bachelor life even tho no sex.

Ippatiki appatiki okate teda, pellam pillalu and free time. 

My take is if I had known grown life sucks this much then I would have enjoyed more during college and bachelor phase.

[yemdoing]

13 minutes ago, pksmart said:

Same community lo desis unna kuda kids ki friends avvale. 

Do we forcefully make them friends? anyone tried?

For 10 year old no way … for 7 year old you can have play dates , after few play dates they may become friends . 

[Konebhar6]

8 minutes ago, pksmart said:

mari solution enti antav bro

Most people are in same boat as you. More or less.

[Visit Bangkok. Do a trip with your friends (School/college). Will kick start excitement into life. If you cannot go, visit x sites and pick your choice. ] -> Travel may not be possible for you, so may not work. 

[Personally, have some goals like walk or hikes or learn some new skill. ] -> We are lazy to do this.

More importantly -> Do a deep dive into yourself and understand what makes you happy and see if you can do this in your current situation and family life. Sometimes small changes can have a very large affect on us.

[Konebhar6]

3 minutes ago, harvey said:

My take is if I had known grown life sucks this much then I would have enjoyed more during college and bachelor phase.

Amen. Too worse we were dreaming of adult life back then and getting excited.