Am I in middle life crisis?

[pksmart]

2 minutes ago, harvey said:

My take is if I had known grown life sucks this much then I would have enjoyed more during college and bachelor phase.

same feeling bro. Asalu marriage life ila untadi ani telsi unte I would have lived little more during bachelor life. Pellayyaka trips, sex ani koorchunte jeevitham sanka nakindi ani feeling

[pksmart]

2 minutes ago, yemdoing said:

For 10 year old no way … for 7 year old you can have play dates , after few play dates they may become friends . 

Dallas lo friends move ayna community lo move aithe iddaru kids ki company untundi and naku kuda close friends tho weekend time pass avtundi ani feeling. 

[pksmart]

7 minutes ago, Konebhar6 said:

Most people are in same boat as you. More or less.

[Visit Bangkok. Do a trip with your friends (School/college). Will kick start excitement into life. If you cannot go, visit x sites and pick your choice. ] -> Travel may not be possible for you, so may not work. 

[Personally, have some goals like walk or hikes or learn some new skill. ] -> We are lazy to do this.

More importantly -> Do a deep dive into yourself and understand what makes you happy and see if you can do this in your current situation and family life. Sometimes small changes can have a very large affect on us.

visiting x sites like bachelor became normal these days sadly.

Travelling solo try cheyali. Going on solo trips or asking other friends to go on trips.

Gym and workout I can pick up and want to pick up.

I know I enjoy playing cricket, hanging out with friends, some random trips and some time in india every year. Current situation lo these are all became very tight. 

[Konebhar6]

6 minutes ago, pksmart said:

Dallas lo friends move ayna community lo move aithe iddaru kids ki company untundi and naku kuda close friends tho weekend time pass avtundi ani feeling. 

Monna oka quote vinna. "paralysis by analysis". Most of us indulge in it. Overthinking and ultimately cannot take decision. 

Take a decision and if moving to dallas or some other desi hub, be it. Happy kids and happy wife makes happy life. 

[HugoStrange]

I know this is a wrong advice, sexless marriage ayithe get a side chick. Seeking dot com lo dorukutharu chudu

[Konebhar6]

1 minute ago, HugoStrange said:

I know this is a wrong advice, sexless marriage ayithe get a side chick. Seeking dot com lo dorukutharu chudu

"I want problems". 

[HugoStrange]

2 minutes ago, Konebhar6 said:

"I want problems". 

artham kaledu bro

[pksmart]

4 minutes ago, HugoStrange said:

I know this is a wrong advice, sexless marriage ayithe get a side chick. Seeking dot com lo dorukutharu chudu

ee age lo maha aithe weekly once sex dorikthe maha prasadam anukuntam. daniki side chick and maintenance and secrecy is too much trouble I say.

 

[HugoStrange]

Just now, pksmart said:

ee age lo maha aithe weekly once sex dorikthe maha prasadam anukuntam. daniki side chick and maintenance and secrecy is too much trouble I say.

 

It seems u r not interested in sex? monthly twice kaluvu, u will start liking ur life little bit again. Mari depression lo unnattu anipinchi cheppa. 

[pksmart]

Just now, HugoStrange said:

It seems u r not interested in sex? monthly twice kaluvu, u will start liking ur life little bit again. Mari depression lo unnattu anipinchi cheppa. 

Not interested ani cheppanu, ala ani desperate kadu. Some reason infidelity never crossed my mind.

[Konebhar6]

6 minutes ago, HugoStrange said:

artham kaledu bro

Inviting side chick into life is like inviting problems - ekkado vinna ee dialogue "I want problems"

[HugoStrange]

1 minute ago, Konebhar6 said:

Inviting side chick into life is like inviting problems - ekkado vinna ee dialogue "I want problems"

ohhh, ok

[Konebhar6]

 

[DJBravo]

38 minutes ago, kevinUsa said:

Absolutely correct

Canada mottam woke ayindi ee lowda vallu legal chesi

What do you mean Canada motham woke because of this? Absolute rubbish..

 

[dgnfiedmn]

Bro most of the people in your age group go through this. At this point the best thing you can do is try to find a new hobby, include gym time, find a local running group, find a meet up group you like, find a project around your house (complex one so you can spend some time). Making new friends is tough at our age but you can always find people with common interests though.