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17 minutes ago, Konebhar6 said:

Of course I am comparing it with the places where NRIs live. Enta villas kattina, community enta bagunna, once you come out of your villa community - Same reality for all. Look at the roads even in financial district, near AMB Mall, etc. 

As long as people have realistic expectations, living in hyderabad is great if they have money. Same for people who live in US for their own reasons.

even with a lot of money, its impossible to live in an urban mess like Hyd.

But ofcourse other cities in India are no better. You have to settle for drastic reduction in living standards if you decide to live in India. doesn't matter how much money you have.

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Just now, TRUTHSEEKER said:

Sorry to hear that.

Unfortunately in India caste/ religion is very important to survive / lead a good life.

If i was a minority / low caste person i couldn't think of surviving in hyd.

 

However i must also infact state that hyd had many rich and successful mulims , if you don't know 

I'm not muslim. you don't have to be sorrry to me.

I just hate the fact that people casually throw hate on muslims in groups and act like its nothing and move on. india is disgusting. Not just Hyd.

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5 minutes ago, TRUTHSEEKER said:

I got a seat in NIT but preferred top eamcet college to stay in hyd.

educated and skilled ne tesukovali , appude value untadi ee thing ki ayina. Nuvvu inta kastapandindi emi skills leni vallothe equal life undadanika ?

admission to US is not some entrance exam. lite teesko.

border open chesi andarni vadalaali without a visa. nuvvu entha kastapadithe evadiki ekkuva. job lo neeku talent untey nuvvu shine avtaav, lekunte edanna 12th std dropout can do better than you.

only merit based aithe, US will miss out on diverse talent and become a boring sh1t place with a sagging economy like Canada. US needs everyone.

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1)India is for rich and poor and not middle class even after 1000 years. If you get hit by an MLA car you have to pay the price. As middle class cant fight the law

2)Esp work in IT sucks in India. Unless you are thope thopest your daily life is fighting with arumugam saravanan anbu ganesan in regional languages

3)If you are under no reservation category its more to survive in india

Hence many move out and prefer to stay outside India. The ones left dont like either but they have no option

My colleagues and classmates with 1/2 kids are eager to get out of India but its too late now. 

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6 minutes ago, sarvayogi said:

1)India is for rich and poor and not middle class even after 1000 years. If you get hit by an MLA car you have to pay the price. As middle class cant fight the law

2)Esp work in IT sucks in India. Unless you are thope thopest your daily life is fighting with arumugam saravanan anbu ganesan in regional languages

3)If you are under no reservation category its more to survive in india

Hence many move out and prefer to stay outside India. The ones left dont like either but they have no option

My colleagues and classmates with 1/2 kids are eager to get out of India but its too late now. 

don't worry given how fast AI training and inference infra is developing, majority of IT people will lose their jobs and go back to India, where BJP will give them employment as gau rakshaks.

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13 hours ago, andhra_jp said:

ala anukonee eee pilla US ki vachharu and now became homeless... 
https://www.moneycontrol.com/news/trends/hyderabad-woman-went-to-us-for-masters-found-starving-depressed-on-chicago-streets-video-11035521.html

whats my point is they are many factors which depend on flourishing in US not just skills...   luck, good health , good family life with no divorces and other headaches like loneliness issues etc... for some it works and for few US sucks big time for whatever reason...

 

that's an isolated example of just one person going through homelessness maybe due to some issues which no one knows what or why. Not everyone goes through such a situation living on the streets, as we know.

US gives people a great opportunity to be strong and independent. Even kids in college work part time, earn, gain experience and confidence while studying that makes them independent and strong, studying hard to score a minimum of 3.8 GPA which is like 95% to be worth in the job market or further studies (70% is the minimum passing score which is NO good for further studies), move out in their teenage and live independently without depending on their parents. It is even frowned upon in the US when kids still live with their parents in their 20s and they are made fun of. It's not like India where kids stay with parents (and also grand parents) forever like a joint family and take care of grand/parents in their old age with all the cinematic sentiments. How many kids in India work and earn while studying? Parents provide and kids take it for granted without realizing how hard it is to earn and stand the competition in real life. Indian schools passing students for scoring just 35% marks, COVID-pass (passing without exams), leaked exam papers, reservations, ancestral properties that have appreciated in value massively (so no one needs to study or work), corruption, blah... will only make India very, very WEAK.

strong youth = strong country (otherwise, we will be stuck with old, illiterate and corrupt politicians forever)

someone starting from India - they find themselves flying alone suddenly for the first time, navigating through the airports, baggage, transportation (which they may not have done in the past). Once they land in the US, they are working in a team, driving in a downtown and on non-stop, high-speed interstate highways (with minimum speed limits) - there is no one to show around, teach or help - they have to learn everything on their own by just winging it on the fly - even if they never attempted any of those feats before. They have to shop, cook, clean, wash, housekeep and do everything on their own. How many people can imagine doing these feats? Many people would pee in their pants at the very thought of performing those feats - even if they don't admit it openly. Phat jayega !!

For bimbos like daddy's girl or mommy's boy (who landed in the US by virtue of all the help and support from family and friends), US is fine too so long as they have some people to talk to and depend on occasionally but there may be times like when they have to relocate, there may not be any known people in the new area and it may be tough for them. For people who are too LAZY, not strong and not independent, who cannot stand loneliness and who need maids/servants to take care of them (even when they are physically young, strong like a stud bull and perfectly fit), US is NOT the ideal place. You can hire maids off Sulekha (maybe once or twice a week) for cooking, cleaning, washing and such in US if you are willing to spend $12-$20 an hour. I used to have a cook until COVID hit. No country is perfect and US is not an exception. But US is the dreamland and a better in so many aspects (including freedom, quality of life, ease of life...) than any other country for many people.

Anyone lacking "good health , good family life with no divorces" will have issues in any country and US is not an exception.

in the US, luck = top-notch skills, willingness to work hard, make sacrifices and become the Guru in your subject area. Not a single client asked me to show my certificates so far. They weigh on just our knowledge, experience, competence and communication skills.

It is what it is. Coming to US knowing well about US and being aware of the issues and then criticizing US is just downright ridiculous and plain dumb. No one is stopping them to leave and go back (and be happy).

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On 7/26/2023 at 10:08 PM, Tryad said:

He has enabled hate on muslims to be freely expressed everywhere in India.

if Modi is humiliated publicly (losing elections is nothing), then I may change my opinion on India. until then, its not a country I'm invested in emotionally. just financially.

In fact I hope India fails. even I stand to lose money because of it. I know its not going to happen, and that India will increasingly move in the direction of even more Hindutva and even TN will fall for it.

Religion in itself is trash.

In another 5 generations Hindus, Muslims, Christians etc combined will be a minority....so why bother?

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On 7/26/2023 at 10:48 PM, Konebhar6 said:

Of course I am comparing it with the places where NRIs live. Enta villas kattina, community enta bagunna, once you come out of your villa community - Same reality for all. Look at the roads even in financial district, near AMB Mall, etc. 

As long as people have realistic expectations, living in hyderabad is great if they have money. Same for people who live in US for their own reasons.

Living in US is trash.

Do everything by yourself....kids don't have any connection to their roots, high healthcare costs causes fear.....10 years gone in running behind kids activities.

What kind of silly life is that?

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3 minutes ago, krishnaaa said:

Living in US is trash.

Do everything by yourself....kids don't have any connection to their roots, high healthcare costs causes fear.....10 years gone in running behind kids activities.

What kind of silly life is that?

If you are not happy with the lifestyle, you have an option to go back to india. 

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3 hours ago, krishnaaa said:

Religion in itself is trash.

In another 5 generations Hindus, Muslims, Christians etc combined will be a minority....so why bother?

Let Modi be humiliated in public in India. Migatha sodhantha enduku. That piece of sh1t kosam nuvvenduku nee time waste chestunnav. 

Atheism that supports fascist scum like Modi is even worse than Hindutva.

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On 7/26/2023 at 1:44 PM, Tryad said:

even with a lot of money, its impossible to live in an urban mess like Hyd.

But ofcourse other cities in India are no better. You have to settle for drastic reduction in living standards if you decide to live in India. doesn't matter how much money you have.

Any city in the world comes with a max limit of money with which one can enjoy in a day.

Sometimes it is more comfortable to travel in metro than a cab in Hyderabad. Similarly there is no guarantee that a 100$ pizza tastes better than a 10$ pizza in NY. 

What really matters is having friends, good weather and a better social culture. 

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