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[Sanjiv]

14 minutes ago, TRUTHSEEKER said:

You are just insecure guy unable to accept the truth . If you have guts i am ready to discuss not argue

I'm not arguing with you or attacking you so stop talking about my guts, okay? You are not a qualified psychologist or psychiatrist to state I'm mentally insecure and diagnose my mental state.

Your opinion is your's and mine is mine. You want people to agree with what "you" think is the <cough>absolute TRUTH</cough>?? if people don't agree with you, you would get offended? LOL

If you think India is better, no one and nothing is stopping you from going back - just as no one asked you to come to US in the first place.

"If you don't like it here, you can leave !" - you know who said that.

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[Konebhar6]

7 minutes ago, TRUTHSEEKER said:

i knew you would raise the point of living in indian communities !! but still you have to deal with people of all races at work etc. You cant just live only with indians all the time in USA. And some people cant live among non telugus also lol

I worked both in India and in USA. Working in USA >>>> working in India. I love the cultural/diversity in USA. I pointed to Indian community to refer to safer communities, Good schools, wide range of people to make friends from.

I have both Indian and American friends, both in office and near home and never had any issues. 

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42 minutes ago, Konebhar6 said:

I have lived in hyd all my life. My sister (live 10 months abroad and 2 months india) and some of relatives live in gated neighborhoods. Everyone takes interest in your life esp neighbors and relatives. Family drama untundi def gaa. 

you feel safe, closer to parents + 1 st class citizens  + no hate crime + no fear of guns - Completely agree but india has different kind of problems. Dongatanalu, kotlatalu, etc.

Quality of life no where bhayya .. A lot comes in this. For e.g. getting your work done in a bank/other offices without hassles. In India its a fight every day. Respect annadi takkuva india lo. Even if you are on a street and minding your own work, someone can abuse you. Happens every day. Quality of vegetables, food, 

It all depends on a person's priority, needs, family situation, etc. 

Even if you have lived your whole life in Hyd, there is a different side of Hyd now. For eg, I lived in Habsiguda/Secunderabad side all my life and came to US. Now when I go back to financial district/madhapur to stay with my relatives in gated communities [myhomes, jayabheri] its totally different for me. Kids going to international schools and highlight is I went down to play area and all the kids were talking in english. Kids taking basketball coaching/swimming lessons. I mean I did not find any difference as long as I was inside those expensive communities. But as soon as we come out of gate its the same traffic, dust, crappy roads sh*t. 

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14 minutes ago, TRUTHSEEKER said:

I will figure out a way to make money . and the day i figure out i will leave pakka 100%.

India with money is heaven without money is a bigger hell.

India is country designed only for the wealthy/elite people and their gatekeeping 

You seem to think that money buys happiness. Let me assure you it fulfills your needs and brings comfort but not happiness always. 

There are a lot of people happy in India who may not be wealthy. 

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3 hours ago, TRUTHSEEKER said:

you raised many questions in your post i will post a reply. if interested ans or you are free what you want to do 

 

3 hours ago, TRUTHSEEKER said:

This is a public space and everyone has freedom to post here

If you don't like this post . you shouldn't be here. why did you click and  mentioned in the beginning itself that i want only constructive criticism .

 

you posted this topic on a public forum and expect only positive comments in agreement with your opinions?? If you don't want to receive comments not in agreements with your opinions, why did you create the thread?

The summary from all your comments (so far) is - you cannot stand the stress of visa/GC/work in the US. You want an easy life with tons of money that would buy you maids/servants and get things done with bribes and assistants to do all your work so you don't even have to "work" or do a "job" like a man. India will be definitely good for you (as per your own opinions).

Peace!

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Just now, baabaa said:

Even if you have lived your whole life in Hyd, there is a different side of Hyd now. For eg, I lived in Habsiguda/Secunderabad side all my life and came to US. Now when I go back to financial district/madhapur to stay with my relatives in gates communities [myhomes, jayabheri] its totally different for me. Kids going to international schools and highlight is I went down to play area and all the kids were talking in english. Kids taking basketball coaching/swimming lessons. I mean I did not find any difference as long as I was inside those expensive communities. But as soon as we come out of gate its the same traffic, dust, crappy roads sh*t. 

I lived near LB Nagar and now my extended family reside in madhapur/financial district. I have seen the growth. I am not denying that. Most kids in those areas go to international schools. Kids activities (Tennis, basketball, karate, swimming, painting) have become common.

But the people have not changed much. Its still a grind for day to day life. If you have money, its a different kid of grind -> to make more money or peer pressure, show off, etc. 

We have expensive cars, but road rules are not clear, crappy roads, traffic, no common sense, etc. 

I am not necessarily saying life in US/India is better. I am highlighting the issues that author is ignoring saying they can overcome with money.

I love my stay in US and I love my stay in India and I have clarity on what makes me happy here and what makes me happy there.

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8 minutes ago, TRUTHSEEKER said:

That may work for quotations. There is something call Atmagauravam for every person.

If you say oh i don't want money everyone is equal they may praise you in front but no one will respect you from heart

Understand what atmagouravam means - confidence in one's own worth or abilities; self-respect. Its not something that others give to one. Its what a person feels inside based on his own character. 

Also I never said, I don't want money. I said money cannot buy happiness but only fulfills needs.