Chxless marriage

[baabaa]

4 hours ago, Thokkalee said:

Have some time with her… like take out for lunch, shopping mall, etc.. without kids.. kids ni atha ni chuskomanu.. pretty much everyone is getting lost in the social media nowadays.. 

Also buy bunk beds and encourage the kids to sleep separately, even in the same room.. like put their name on the bed and say that is yours.. connect with your wife like doing things together.. direct bumchik ante ladies ki work avvadu, especially when they are tired.. she must be thinking that she is in a loveless marriage too.. 

This is very important bhayya. Telugu valu kids ni nanny deggara vadili dinner ki elte tappu anukuntaru but it is very much needed. I hired a nanny for 5 hours friday night, left kids at home and went to mall and a very nice restaurant, daniki maa freinds adi enti ra pillalni vadilesavu enti ani annaru.

Maa inti pakkana tella couple aiyte weekend ki nanny ni hire chesukuni, Sandals Adults only resorts ki elli enjoy chestaru.

[pushparaj]

7 hours ago, FrustratedVuncle said:

Weekly once nundi monthly once last couple of years. This year getting worse. Siraku 10ging. 

Pellamtho 4 times topic matladadham Ani tried but no improvement.

Kids, work, intlo panitho both tired end of the day, but abbailaki unna interest aada ladies ki undadho endo matta. Phone choskuntu untare kani kaaryaniki matram no opika.

Very bored and tired of chxless marriage. Permission isthe lapakila daggarkanna povalanipistondi lov da lodi.

ila untadi marriage life Ani teliste I would have not married na matta.

Bro this is very normal among Indians. Conversations ani suggestions echaru kaani it will not work. 

[enigmatic]

[samprok]

6 hours ago, FrustratedVuncle said:

Oka kid 4yrs another 1yr. Both kids go to daycare now.

oka roju seleav pettandi bro..
I made a schedule for chex..  weekly 3 times anna lekunte kastam ani..

 

[samprok]

8 hours ago, FrustratedVuncle said:

Weekly once nundi monthly once last couple of years. This year getting worse. Siraku 10ging. 

Pellamtho 4 times topic matladadham Ani tried but no improvement.

Kids, work, intlo panitho both tired end of the day, but abbailaki unna interest aada ladies ki undadho endo matta. Phone choskuntu untare kani kaaryaniki matram no opika.

Very bored and tired of chxless marriage. Permission isthe lapakila daggarkanna povalanipistondi lov da lodi.

ila untadi marriage life Ani teliste I would have not married na matta.

all jokes apart...

out of the all time you spent with her before kids, try to find the things that you both enjoyed, in this case, you can find the things/places/situations that she liked the most and try your best to recreate those. don't ask for sex immediatly after that. This is get your couple time and slowly get back into the old days.

Get help for kids- parents, inlaws, nanny ..etc

if none of the above work, elder kid ni play date ki pampandi, you also host other kids sometimes.

There were times, we both took a  day off after kids went to school/daycare just to spend time.. shopping, restaurant and chex.

 

[hunkyfunky2]

6 hours ago, FrustratedVuncle said:

Oka kid 4yrs another 1yr. Both kids go to daycare now.

So,  you have whole day...

Take the day off,

Go to couples massage 

Either come home or book a hotel for the deed. 

Have lunch and come back home.

You got to put the effort... 

[VictoryTDP]

2 hours ago, Sucker said:

Many Desi peel Chex ante max kids kosame. Pelli ayyaka 3 nights effect idhi. Lathkor movies chesina daridram. Many thinks in that way. Ee gen change ayyaru le konchem. ikkada theddu la BJ anta haha oka sari sardha ga 80 vuncles ala adigi chudandi lol meeru yedho thappu chesina peel theppistharu meeku life long  Just gen gap and ee janama ki inthe seniors ki. 

[Sucker]

80's and early 90's vuncles light threakondi inka. Already andaru 40+ la vunnaru kotha kotha experiments cheyyakandi. Just gen gap and most unlucky chex life la. 

[AnandaVivek]

1 minute ago, Sucker said:

80's and early 90's vuncles light threakondi inka. Already andaru 40+ la vunnaru kotha kotha experiments cheyyakandi. Just gen gap and most unlucky chex life la. 

Main ga instagram choosukuntoo untaru baa ..kalisi oka netflix movie choddamanna ..sleepy antaru…bongulodhi….fitness undadhu…right hand lo rekhalu arigipothunnayi😕

[BattalaSathi]

8 hours ago, FrustratedVuncle said:

Weekly once nundi monthly once last couple of years. This year getting worse. Siraku 10ging. 

Pellamtho 4 times topic matladadham Ani tried but no improvement.

Kids, work, intlo panitho both tired end of the day, but abbailaki unna interest aada ladies ki undadho endo matta. Phone choskuntu untare kani kaaryaniki matram no opika.

Very bored and tired of chxless marriage. Permission isthe lapakila daggarkanna povalanipistondi lov da lodi.

ila untadi marriage life Ani teliste I would have not married na matta.

nee yavva..Friday ki Recurring alarm endhanna pettava baa?  roju Suryudu podhugala ravadam entha guarantee no Friday nee edupu posts ravadam anthe guarantee...ofcourse nuvvu bayata paduthunnavu memu lopala lopale kulling..anthe theda..migathadantha

[Sucker]

1 minute ago, AnandaVivek said:

Main ga instagram choosukuntoo untaru baa ..kalisi oka netflix movie choddamanna ..sleepy antaru…bongulodhi….fitness undadhu…right hand lo rekhalu arigipothunnayi😕

I understand Anna. As I said most desi chex ante just porollu kanadam. Adhoka myth la chesaru and movies influence Chala vundhi. Ippudu chudu anni Arjun Reddy type batch ne. Vesude vesudu. Anduke particular ga cheppa chex matter la most unlucky ante ippudu 40+ vunna vuncles. Just work work work work no romantic life. Lathkor job trap and wife lu kids ayyaka we are done for this chex life ani mindset fix. 

[Kootami]

49 minutes ago, enigmatic said:

Vuuuuu ... ne baada kuda ekkada cheppuko vayya

[pushparaj]

3 minutes ago, Sucker said:

I understand Anna. As I said most desi chex ante just porollu kanadam. Adhoka myth la chesaru and movies influence Chala vundhi. Ippudu chudu anni Arjun Reddy type batch ne. Vesude vesudu. Anduke particular ga cheppa chex matter la most unlucky ante ippudu 40+ vunna vuncles. Just work work work work no romantic life. Lathkor job trap and wife lu kids ayyaka we are done for this chex life ani mindset fix. 

Individuals ni blame cheyalem emo anipisthadhi

 

its deep in our Indian psyche. Sex is not considered moral and it is only for recreation. 

[BattalaSathi]

7 hours ago, hch said:

Do whatever but don't end up like this uncle

https://nypost.com/2016/12/07/man-cuts-off-penis-because-his-wife-wont-have-sex-with-him/

vaadevado Cheruvu meedha kopam vachi muuuddi kadukkovadam maanesaadu ani vinnam...

...veedu vaadi mother husband laa unnadu deen thalli...

[Sucker]

Just now, pushparaj said:

Individuals ni blame cheyalem emo anipisthadhi

 

its deep in our Indian psyche. Sex is not considered moral and it is only for recreation. 

Boring anipisthundhi le kani ee word every comment la simple Anna gen gap. Last 10 years la Chala change ayyaru Desi BJ ante picha light adhe 10 years back 3 nights waiting for kids type. I am not blaming anyone but grew up like that. No privacy for chex many middle class pamilies ki