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Recent ga india vellam for 4 weeks and i have a 3 yr old kid . My kid slept with grand parents while we were busy with marriage and had to travel multiple places . My kid started calling vaala thata as dad and got so found of her thata . Epdu US vachi 2 weeks ithunfi and she still misses him . 
epdu asal naa daggarki vastaledu and start saying i am not her dad . Naa friends andar daggarki veltunfi kaani naa daggarki vaste low ga feel avthundi . Naa tho alone car lo radaaniki kuda crying . I am trying my level best to get close to her . 
 

is this normal . Evaranna exp iyyara ela . 

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1 minute ago, Barney_Stinson said:

kids are tough to handle, calling experts

ekkuva time ivvu and papa ki edi nachitado adi chei, pillalu tvaragane marchipotaru… also time makes it better

 

Yeah bro . Asal ae time lo ela untaro telvadi 

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1 hour ago, cloud said:

Recent ga india vellam for 4 weeks and i have a 3 yr old kid . My kid slept with grand parents while we were busy with marriage and had to travel multiple places . My kid started calling vaala thata as dad and got so found of her thata . Epdu US vachi 2 weeks ithunfi and she still misses him . 
epdu asal naa daggarki vastaledu and start saying i am not her dad . Naa friends andar daggarki veltunfi kaani naa daggarki vaste low ga feel avthundi . Naa tho alone car lo radaaniki kuda crying . I am trying my level best to get close to her . 
 

is this normal . Evaranna exp iyyara ela . 

Make her laugh man. Easiest way to win any kids heart. Put funny faces. Play buchi.

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1 hour ago, cloud said:

Recent ga india vellam for 4 weeks and i have a 3 yr old kid . My kid slept with grand parents while we were busy with marriage and had to travel multiple places . My kid started calling vaala thata as dad and got so found of her thata . Epdu US vachi 2 weeks ithunfi and she still misses him . 
epdu asal naa daggarki vastaledu and start saying i am not her dad . Naa friends andar daggarki veltunfi kaani naa daggarki vaste low ga feel avthundi . Naa tho alone car lo radaaniki kuda crying . I am trying my level best to get close to her . 
 

is this normal . Evaranna exp iyyara ela . 

Spend more time and take her to play areas or anything she likes… play with her and make her laugh and buy some stuff she likes… takes time baaa kids Ee time ki ela turn avutharo teleedu but she will be fine at the end.. konchem time pattuddi but will be fine 

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8 hours ago, cloud said:

Recent ga india vellam for 4 weeks and i have a 3 yr old kid . My kid slept with grand parents while we were busy with marriage and had to travel multiple places . My kid started calling vaala thata as dad and got so found of her thata . Epdu US vachi 2 weeks ithunfi and she still misses him . 
epdu asal naa daggarki vastaledu and start saying i am not her dad . Naa friends andar daggarki veltunfi kaani naa daggarki vaste low ga feel avthundi . Naa tho alone car lo radaaniki kuda crying . I am trying my level best to get close to her . 
 

is this normal . Evaranna exp iyyara ela . 

Every situation with kids is unique as you dont know whats going on in their mnd. They cannot express

You can try different strategies ..

  • Stop trying hard. Give it time. Do all regular things and let her come to you. Don't force it. It will take time. Tell her you are going to park, you want to come? Something like this. But NO BRIBES with chocolates or other stuff.
  • It might be that she liked her grandpa and is not ready to give his place to anyone yet. Check with your family how grand pa used to play with her or why she likes him and try.
  • Ask her if she wants to play. And while playing ask her to hit you or high five and when she does, act like it really hurt you and say wow you are strong . where do you get your strength ... For whaever reason kids love it .. Always works for me with my or others kids.
  • Ignore completely. Stop facetime with grand parents. Let her play with other kids. 

Dont worry man. She will come around. Keep patience.

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9 hours ago, cloud said:

Recent ga india vellam for 4 weeks and i have a 3 yr old kid . My kid slept with grand parents while we were busy with marriage and had to travel multiple places . My kid started calling vaala thata as dad and got so found of her thata . Epdu US vachi 2 weeks ithunfi and she still misses him . 
epdu asal naa daggarki vastaledu and start saying i am not her dad . Naa friends andar daggarki veltunfi kaani naa daggarki vaste low ga feel avthundi . Naa tho alone car lo radaaniki kuda crying . I am trying my level best to get close to her . 
 

is this normal . Evaranna exp iyyara ela . 

Strict ga vuntava? Cool ga explain chey

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15 hours ago, HEROO said:

Grand parents now a days showering too much of (over) love which will spoil kids

love or hate anything should be in limits otherwise problems osthay

Its been there since ages. Kids respond to love and affection and makes a connection with grand parents. I think its very much needed as kids are in US and grand parents in india and they are getting disconnected. Connection at young age keeps the memories.

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On 9/16/2023 at 2:19 PM, cloud said:

Recent ga india vellam for 4 weeks and i have a 3 yr old kid . My kid slept with grand parents while we were busy with marriage and had to travel multiple places . My kid started calling vaala thata as dad and got so found of her thata . Epdu US vachi 2 weeks ithunfi and she still misses him . 
epdu asal naa daggarki vastaledu and start saying i am not her dad . Naa friends andar daggarki veltunfi kaani naa daggarki vaste low ga feel avthundi . Naa tho alone car lo radaaniki kuda crying . I am trying my level best to get close to her . 
 

is this normal . Evaranna exp iyyara ela . 

Normal man .. specially young aged kids .. I faced this problem couple times. Just let the kid adjust to normal schedule 

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Instead of posting here and waiting time take her  out bro.. Ice cream chocolate ala tindam anu sharing is caring anu.. spend time with your princess time will pass don't worry.....

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kids are like that, grand parents vasthe they get special treatment from them like a princess kada so they will become attached when they spend time with them

anyway time resets everything, she will eventually forget and become normal, spend time with her, take her to some kids activity places meanwhile

fault is with grand parents, they should have corrected her and told her not to call him dad etc, feel bad for you 

just be patient

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