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We had a little argument today at home. Here is the situation 

 

Me and My spouse working in IT. My spouse been working for 6 years and i started 2 years back. spouse is earning 130k and i earn 80k. We both shares groceries and household expenses in the same ratio to be honest. 

 

We both look after our parents living in india. I send them 50k-60k inr every month and spouse sends 1L inr to MIL/FIL. They bought a car yesterday as they are already earning passive income every month. Whereas my parents dont earn any income and what ever money i send them goes for rent and medical expenses. 

 

I am debating with my spouse that, both salaries should put into one bundle and spend them for household expenses first and then send same amounts to our families. I know he earns more but my parents are in need than spouse’s. 

 

Whats your say on this?

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11 minutes ago, Redditt said:

Lanjey ni vyabhicharam chesi aa dabbu pampamanu valla parents ki

Em matladutunav raja . Ame working and taking care of parents..ameni valla parents raise chesi manchi education ippincharu 

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enduku bundle cheyyali? Nee paisalu neeyi....naa paisal naayi. Already expenses share chestunnapudu bundle enduku? Nuvvu ekkuva sampadisthu....mee ayana neekante takkuva sampaadisthe asalu oka manishi kindaina lekkha chesthaava vaadini? Atha, mamalu Car konnarani edupu....anthaku minchi em ledu. Endukura naayana ilanti munjalani pelli chesukuntunnaru? already maa office lo live in relationship lo 30% unnaru. Inko 5 years pothe at least 50% avutaaru. 

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5 hours ago, rushmore said:

enduku bundle cheyyali? Nee paisalu neeyi....naa paisal naayi. Already expenses share chestunnapudu bundle enduku? Nuvvu ekkuva sampadisthu....mee ayana neekante takkuva sampaadisthe asalu oka manishi kindaina lekkha chesthaava vaadini? Atha, mamalu Car konnarani edupu....anthaku minchi em ledu. Endukura naayana ilanti munjalani pelli chesukuntunnaru? already maa office lo live in relationship lo 30% unnaru. Inko 5 years pothe at least 50% avutaaru. 

A office peru cheppu..

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6 hours ago, jalsa01 said:

We had a little argument today at home. Here is the situation 

 

Me and My spouse working in IT. My spouse been working for 6 years and i started 2 years back. spouse is earning 130k and i earn 80k. We both shares groceries and household expenses in the same ratio to be honest. 

 

We both look after our parents living in india. I send them 50k-60k inr every month and spouse sends 1L inr to MIL/FIL. They bought a car yesterday as they are already earning passive income every month. Whereas my parents dont earn any income and what ever money i send them goes for rent and medical expenses. 

 

I am debating with my spouse that, both salaries should put into one bundle and spend them for household expenses first and then send same amounts to our families. I know he earns more but my parents are in need than spouse’s. 

 

Whats your say on this?

Are both only kids ?

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4 hours ago, Katti_Ramdas said:

Orey orey orey adi marriage ah leka room sharing ah. Expenses sharing enti ne dabbu na dabbu enti

Ade kada.. sagam group alane undhi.. inka aa comments ite ghoram.

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