We are married for 17 years and now I found out that my husband is cheating on me for 8 year

[no01]

strip clubs/massage parlors ke ila unte.....what if it was extra marital affair with one of their frnds or known person and got connected emotionally? 

May be strip clubs ki vellatam kuda wrong ey ayyundochu and may be its considered part of extra martial affair....kani later one is much more danger I believe. 

40th b'day / 50th ila milestone b'days ki men do go out with their frnds and now a day wife's are also ok with that as long as they dont cheat n get connected with another girl

[CanadianMalodu]

On 10/6/2023 at 7:54 PM, kevinUsa said:

#cheating #spousecheating Admin please approve 

 

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 I am lost right now. We are married for 17 years and now I found out that my husband is cheating on me for 8 years. He went to massage parlors with happy ending for so many times and then for full service and escort too. Our physical relationship was always good. He said that he wants to try with other girls as he has that fantasy. And one more thing that he called my friend to do some flirting when I was in India. We have kids too and I am a housewife. Now he is saying that he regrets what he did and that will never happen again. And he said that he always loved me a lot and what he did that was payed service he never connected with anybody emotionally. I loved him like anything for past 17 years. My heart is broken I am not sure what to do? 

He is ready to take counseling to save our marriage and come out from his addiction but same time he is scared because we are on visa and what he did was illegal.

One thing with men is they are biologically programmed to have multiple partners. That's  why men produce gallons of sperms. They are resource gatherers and would ideally think of having multiple partners as long as resources permit. From a mindset perspective the greater man commands a greater desirability by number of partners. Women has the opposite, their desirability goes down if number of partners increase. Their biology is also geared with limited eggs so they try to be very selective with partners. Fidelity is an elite imposed concept for commoners. 

Raju gariki vanda mandhi pendlalu undodhu Raju kabbati. Village sarpanch ki oorilo pedda manishiki setups bane untayi. Manchi rasikudu ra antaru, adhe adadhi chesthe *** antaru. It's as simple as that. 

 

Ee sodhi pakkana pedithe, if your husband is taking care of you and your kids and provide you with resources and emotional availability , let him do this thing. But make sure, he doesn't cross the line and marry someone at your expense.  Naaku droham chesaru, entha nammanu lanti tv dialogues, feminism modern women power lanti false beliefs lo matrame undodhu. It might help you for a short term but will screw you a lot more as you age