Advice on marriage

[JaiBalayyaaa]

My boyfriend who is married with a child keeps telling me to come to his home and tell his wife the truth about us. His wife knows about our relationship and she has gone to a limit to put a police complaint on her own husband in india so that her husband can go back to India. Thankfully his wife loose the battle of lodging a fake complaint but he is still not ready to believe that this complaint was lodge by his wife's brother. My bf is super scared on legal matters which i now got to know. His highly dependent wife has clearly put across that she will not divorce him. I was being called by my boyfriend's sister to his home to talk on what we want to do with this extra marital relationship. I am in an abusive marriage. And my husband knows about him and hence the abuse has increased. I solely blame my bf for my physical abuse. Now, my bf wants me to convince his wife that i am in an abussive marriage and that we both want to marry. This is already done once and his wife is adamant on not leaving him. He keeps insisting me to sit and talk with his wife again and he wants me and his wife to decide who will leave him and who will stay with him. Yesterday to counter back on this plan, i asked him that what if your wife asks you " Who do you want to stay with?". He got angry on me and told me that than sit at home quietly and take husband's abuse. Don't come to my Home ever. Basically he asked me to back off. Then after lot of arguments, he mentioned I don't want either of you. I want to be single and happy. 

 

I need your help to understand this guy's mindset. You think he is playing games? I know he is super afraid of his wife. His wife highly manipulates him which i his he is not aware. She in fact generated a wrong kundali to a pandit when they wanted to get married. So her manipulation began right before they got married. I feel she has going herself a free money making machine. On the contrary, when he talks to me he speaks with full aggression and confidence for having me in his life. I know he loves me but i also feel he loves his wife too. He has in fact, cried for me whenever i've gone through abuses. I highly feel his wife does some kind of black magic. When he is with his wife he talks to me as if he doesn't trust me at all. But when he is with me, he makes me feel as if i am his wife. I am so confused because i don't want to build any more expectations as he broke my t trust once. What his intentions are? To one side he says i take you as my wife and to other side he will have vacations and trips planned with his wife and family. My gut feeling says, he has no balls to stand for anyone in his life. Recently i got pregnant with him and lost a baby after my first trimester. At that time he did not support me. I was all by myself fighting and struggling to bring that baby in the world. But God had different plans. Can you please help me understand this guy's mindset or intention?

[Dallas_c_how_dare]

One side story cheppi, the other side abusive bokka ani cheppi ranku kathalu paduthundi aunty. Ee question edo abusive life meeda petti, fix chesukunte ayipoyedi gaa.. lol balls gurunchi talking aunty

[pirangi]

I want “”aayanaki iddaru” raa..

[EyBisa]

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